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cadenas -> RE: The appeal of breaking the unwilling? (8/29/2007 9:27:02 PM)

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ORIGINAL: jaymckenas

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The appeal of breaking the unwilling?


There is none.


Who makes that decision? You?

Of course there is a lot very fundamentally wrong with breaking somebody *nonconsensually*. There also is a lot wrong with doing it without realizing the substantial inherent risks (mostly psychological).

But there is a lot of appeal in breaking somebody who wants to be broken. May not be your cup of tea. And it may not be fungasm's thing, either. There is nothing wrong with that.

Don't diss those just because it's not your kink!




RRafe -> RE: The appeal of breaking the unwilling? (8/29/2007 11:00:35 PM)

It's always more fun to seduce, than to steam roll.




littlebitxxx -> RE: The appeal of breaking the unwilling? (8/30/2007 2:05:15 AM)

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ORIGINAL: cadenas

But there is a lot of appeal in breaking somebody who wants to be broken. May not be your cup of tea. And it may not be fungasm's thing, either. There is nothing wrong with that.

Don't diss those just because it's not your kink!



If a person wants to be broken then that kinda makes them willing, doesn't it?  If they are truly unwilling to be broken, they wouldn't put themselves in the position for you to try in the first place, now would they.

Break the unwilling.
Rape the willing.
Kinda sorta pregnant.
The cheque is in the mail.




kossack -> RE: The appeal of breaking the unwilling? (8/30/2007 5:41:33 AM)

Alison,

I found that when I wrote a pretty long profile about what I wanted (not explicit sexually at all, but the kind of tone/rapport I sought), my interests in the vanilla world, and listed a couple of my accomplishments (that was more important to me because I have a history of playing dumb with men because I used to think they wouldn't like me if I was smart--now I drop that in my profile so that I'm not hiding that info), I started meeting some really quality people.  I got a few 'Hellos" and quite a few men that wanted me to be their penpal (which I just don't have time for), but I stopped getting creepy e-mails almost completely.  Now, the flow into my inbox was pretty minimal--maybe 1-2 a day, but the quality was dynamite.  I am also on eharmony, and I would say the quality of people I'm meeting here is much higher. 

Just my experience--ymmv




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