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Collarme etiquette - 8/20/2007 3:17:42 PM

all4yourplsr

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Mistresses,

This is sort of a continuation of what people think of the "Who's Viewing Me?" feature so i apologize for the repetitiveness of this post but i was wondering whether or not there is an etiquette for when a Domme visits a sub/slaves profile. For example, should the sub/slave wait for the Mistress to contact or not contact them or should the sub/slave write the Domme a short "Thank You" note for taking time out of their day to look at their profile?

i would love to read what you all think.

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RE: Collarme etiquette - 8/20/2007 3:28:38 PM

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No. Just because a woman looked at your profile does not mean you should email her.
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RE: Collarme etiquette - 8/20/2007 3:33:38 PM

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sorry, I used fast reply also.........sheesh

I look at alot of different profiles for alot of different reasons. To assume a woman is interested, simply because she viewed your profile, might get you some unpleasant return emails.

I have never done this to you, no reason to, but there have been forum posters who's profile I have visited simply to see exactly, where in the world, that idiot was from! Do I need to worry about the drinking water in my neighbourhood or are they a thousand miles away? That sort of thing.

edited because my brain has already gone home and to bed..........

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RE: Collarme etiquette - 8/20/2007 4:39:36 PM

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Personally, I don't see anything wrong with a friendly hello or thank you for a profile view. It's not meaning an immediate interest, of course, but if nothing else, it can be a conversation starters. I've done it Myself after noticing a familiar name from the boards, and at least said they are welcome to say hello, if they wish.

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RE: Collarme etiquette - 8/20/2007 5:49:12 PM

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IF you have noticed the person viewing you and regard him or her as potentially compatible with you, then you could shoot him or her an email. You don't necessarily have to mention that you saw that he or she was viewing your profile.

However, please note that you need not and should not send everyone who views your profile a thank you, or a compatibility-check introductory email. People read profiles for reasons other than cruising--and people cruise and decide that the profile's author isn't right for them.

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RE: Collarme etiquette - 8/20/2007 5:49:46 PM

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Don't interpret too much into having your profiled viewed.

However, if you want to contact a Domme, just check out any rules/ guidelines in her profile before doing so. Unless she says not to contact her without an "invitation," you can do so in a respectful manner. Just don't expect that you'll always get a response.

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RE: Collarme etiquette - 8/20/2007 5:58:35 PM

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I don't see anything wrong with initiating contact, provided you've looked at her profile & she hasn't stated otherwise. I've im'd a few people who're listed as viewing me, for various reasons (particularily if I've viewed them or if their name seems familiar, or if I think we're playing view-me ping-pong

). Others have im'd me. *shrugs* Depends on the person... and some are nut-bars. So don't take it personally if a few get nasty or don't return the favour.

Mind you, I'm a general nosey parker and like to natter on about whatever.

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RE: Collarme etiquette - 8/21/2007 8:29:14 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: PairOfDimes

IF you have noticed the person viewing you and regard him or her as potentially compatible with you, then you could shoot him or her an email. You don't necessarily have to mention that you saw that he or she was viewing your profile.

However, please note that you need not and should not send everyone who views your profile a thank you, or a compatibility-check introductory email. People read profiles for reasons other than cruising--and people cruise and decide that the profile's author isn't right for them.

I agree with each point ahove. A viewing of a profile does not necessarily mean interest. If there is interest felt in a person who viewed your profile, I would contact that person as I would if I had come across their profile without assigning any meaning to their view of my profile.

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RE: Collarme etiquette - 8/21/2007 10:32:21 AM

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There's a 'Who's viewing me now" button????????????????????

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RE: Collarme etiquette - 8/22/2007 12:51:06 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: all4yourplsr

Mistresses,

This is sort of a continuation of what people think of the "Who's Viewing Me?" feature so i apologize for the repetitiveness of this post but i was wondering whether or not there is an etiquette for when a Domme visits a sub/slaves profile. For example, should the sub/slave wait for the Mistress to contact or not contact them or should the sub/slave write the Domme a short "Thank You" note for taking time out of their day to look at their profile?

i would love to read what you all think.

ed

ed,

PLEASE reconsider sending people emails simply because they viewed your profile. Often, those of us who use the forums check a person's profile when we're reading their posts. I'm trying to understand where they come from in terms of geography, of their experience and their place in the community. It doesn't mean I have a shred of interest in them on a personal level.

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RE: Collarme etiquette - 8/22/2007 10:20:39 PM

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Read the profile and if it seems you could be of interest to the Domme then send a note. I wouldn't mind a note from someone interesting but I do get enough from guys who don't have a clue who I am, or even what country I live in.

I'm not an example of a good profile since I've all but deleted my account at this point.

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