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dominant little girls? - 8/20/2007 7:00:08 PM   
addisonclarkgirl


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Status: offline 		Is being a little girl (in a Daddy/little girl situation) more of a dominant trait than a submissive one?  For example, the little girl wants Daddy's love, she wants his attention, she wants to wrap Daddy around her little finger, she wants Daddy to understand her needs, she wants to be spoiled, she even wants to be punished sometimes.  Does this make her more dominant?  Orrr...is it just part of "the submissive ultimately has all of the control anyway" understanding?

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RE: dominant little girls? - 8/20/2007 7:02:46 PM   
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Status: offline 		None of the above. She wants to make Daddy happy, she wants to do everything in her power to be everything Daddy wants her to be. I dont know very many Daddy's girls that think their Daddy is wrapped around their fingers...

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RE: dominant little girls? - 8/20/2007 7:05:18 PM   
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ORIGINAL: addisonclarkgirl

  Orrr...is it just part of "the submissive ultimately has all of the control anyway" understanding?

that idea will get you flamed around her...

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RE: dominant little girls? - 8/20/2007 7:13:28 PM   
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ORIGINAL: addisonclarkgirl

Orrr...is it just part of "the submissive ultimately has all of the control anyway" understanding?

that idea will get you flamed around her...

Well there are some little girls that like to manipulate Daddy from time to time, within reason.   Long as both are aware of what is going on.   Call it positive manipulation verse bad.    Daddy's actually want to see their little girls grown and excel at what they are doing.   The little girls enjoy doing these things because it makes Daddy Happy as well.    So if a little girl is into doing something, Daddy wants to support her and make certain she the BEST and Kick ass that she can be.  Rewarding for both Dom and sub alike. 

Daddy, still has control over matters.  Daddy approves and disapproves of things.  What Daddy says is what goes.  At times the little girl can get her way, and Daddy is happy making his little girl happy.  Works very much in a similar manner an actual Daddy/Daughter relationship would work.  That's why it's called this! Dugh!



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RE: dominant little girls? - 8/20/2007 7:16:28 PM   
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RE: dominant little girls? - 8/20/2007 7:20:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		i DO want to do everything i possibly can to make Daddy happy, and yet sometimes, i feel bratty and sassy and obstinate, and i do want things my way too.  Is that just being the little girl or does it mean i'm not as sub as i thought?

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RE: dominant little girls? - 8/20/2007 7:26:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: addisonclarkgirl

i DO want to do everything i possibly can to make Daddy happy, and yet sometimes, i feel bratty and sassy and obstinate, and i do want things my way too.  Is that just being the little girl or does it mean i'm not as sub as i thought?


Actually, it's a bit of a challenge.  Daddy, has to consider what is going on.  Does he let his little girl have her way or not?  Does Daddy need to spank his little girl or not?  Mmmmm.. so many things to consider and explore.   I think a little bratty sub girl from time to time is good.   It all depends, if she's bratty 24/7 then there's a problem.  

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RE: dominant little girls? - 8/20/2007 7:32:30 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

None of the above. She wants to make Daddy happy, she wants to do everything in her power to be everything Daddy wants her to be. I dont know very many Daddy's girls that think their Daddy is wrapped around their fingers...

DV



Thank you! You covered what I would say perfectly, so I can run along and join my Daddy in bed now.

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RE: dominant little girls? - 8/20/2007 7:33:07 PM   
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RE: dominant little girls? - 8/20/2007 7:41:20 PM   
erinrosalie


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Status: offline 		I know that I'm a submissive lady, and that's part of my identity... but a bigger party of my identity is that little girl componant.

In my relationship, I find that I too can resort to brattiness and sassiness in my behavior. My Daddi knows that this is an attention technique and rather than play into it, we talk about why I'm feeling like I need attention.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that I think that some of habits/behaviors I have that are more little girl kinda over ride my submissive tendencies.

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RE: dominant little girls? - 8/20/2007 7:52:10 PM   
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i wonder if we click her link - if it's a pay site?
 


It's a Yahoo Group, I just signed up for it.  Gonna see what it's all about.  So Far it's free! LOL...

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RE: dominant little girls? - 8/20/2007 7:55:52 PM   
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Sometimes I'm a spoiled little princess who gets everything she wants...and sometimes I'm a sweet daddy's girl who just wants to make her daddy smile.

Wanting to be a brat doesn't mean anything mroe than sometimes you want to be a brat.  Just find someone who enjoys that sometimes you want to be a brat also.

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RE: dominant little girls? - 8/20/2007 8:07:49 PM   
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RE: dominant little girls? - 8/20/2007 8:19:12 PM   
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Orrr...is it just part of "the submissive ultimately has all of the control anyway" understanding?

The person who wants the relationship less ultimately has all the control, dom or sub. 

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RE: dominant little girls? - 8/20/2007 8:22:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		freaken see what happens when you do not stick to labels you make everything complicated and that does not get fun uh huh yeah right dominate lol.. in basic simple terms no think of maslow when he used the adult parent child roles to discribe interaction  

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RE: dominant little girls? - 8/20/2007 8:46:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		i don't have Daddy wrapped around my finger but i'm spoiled with trinkets and gifts because He enjoys doing that ...i don't have to want his attention or understand my needs - i have it all the time and easily communicate my cravings (including) or sometimes He knows what i'm craving before i even tell him

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RE: dominant little girls? - 8/20/2007 8:58:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		It can be the role of a Domme...I've seen it and enjoyed it from the lil daddy in me perspective. It can also be the role of a submissive who is just really wanting to please her Daddy...it really is all that you want it to be for you

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RE: dominant little girls? - 8/20/2007 9:14:41 PM   
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RE: dominant little girls? - 8/20/2007 9:17:27 PM   
CuriousLord


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Status: offline 		"Little girls" can be dominant.  I've seen relationships in which the "little girl" controls the "daddy".

More often than not, though, the little girl is the sub, trying her best to please her Daddy.  At least, I supposed it's more often than not.

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RE: dominant little girls? - 8/20/2007 9:41:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

i don't have Daddy wrapped around my finger but i'm spoiled with trinkets and gifts because He enjoys doing that ...i don't have to want his attention or understand my needs - i have it all the time and easily communicate my cravings (including) or sometimes He knows what i'm craving before i even tell him


what you have is a good power exchange and sounds like a good love
it is said if it works do not mess with it lol

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