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Interpersonal relationships suck - 8/20/2007 8:55:46 PM   
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Don't ever go where I went. My neighbor wants to hit me, the only thing I did was puke in his house, doesn't he realize that I had no desire to puke ? That it was not on purpose ?

This guy doesn't realize a few things, first of all if I throw a punch, I usually get throught both sides of a plaster or 5/8th drywall wall in one hit. I get through a wood door, no sweat. We are talking breaking his bones here if I hit him back. I am not saying I am all that strong, I am not, but I know pronation and leverage. This is a dangerous combination. I ued to spar with someone who has turned down black belts, saying "What the fuck do I want with that". Fact of the matter, even trying to be a bit mellow he almost got a registered arm out of one fight. Well not actually a fight, just ejecting someone from his home

Folks like us, we do not want a registered arm. I don't know if I actually qualify for one, but I know I am close. Having your hands registered as deadly weapons is actually a bill of attainder and is totally unconstitutional, but they do not care. After ou are registered this way, you are considered the aggressor in the legal system, and anything you do is considered intentional. That is if you accidcentally kill someone in a fight, it is premeditated murder, except under very specific circumstances. Get your wallet out for the lawyers, or go to jail.

The problem now is tha he has been threatened b a member of my family. That is not what I want. If he wants to hit me, I would like to hit him back, which will hospitalize him, no doubt. No question. Actually I would prefer that he decide on his own not to hit me, we can go from there. If he does hit me though, unless we are sparring, he is going down down down. I don't want that.

Maybe I should just atay ouy of everything, be a recluse. Talk to noone. Maybe I should never go visit a neighbor again, never reach my hand out in friendship to a stranger, and forget all aspects of charity.

Speaking of charity I do not give money, but sometime this winter, since I have been given about ten nice winter coats, I intend to throw them in my car, and when I see a skinny fucker who is shivering, I will give him a coat. I got almost ten of them, good nice winter coats. I'll give away at least half of them. Freezing is a really shitty way to die.

Humans do not bother me that much, unless thay call me on the phone.

There is a dominant and a subissive nature to everyone, and those not qualified to dominate piss me off. Sometimes. I am not talking BDSM here, I am talking regular life. This person wants to hit me, I shall present myself, and if it happens, I will retaliate. I can control the other people, and I will get away with it. Legally I will be fine. Morally, this person has never hurt me bad, even though we used to spar a bit, and wrestle. I dont think I could hit him full force, well I could if I outstrip my reasoning. He has never put me in a hospital (he is incapable of that, but he doesn't know it yet).

He already kicked me in the chest once, which I totally blew off, and that was not sparring. You would think he would learn that I am made out of some pretty solid shit, and not fuck around anymore. But now he told someone else that he would like to kick me again, tell you what, in the Terminator tradition, I am going over there. I want answers.

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RE: Interpersonal relationships suck - 8/20/2007 9:08:21 PM   
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ummmmm....grow up.

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RE: Interpersonal relationships suck - 8/20/2007 9:39:39 PM   
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It sounds like a good time to give cash to some trustworthy fans incase you ever need to be bailed out of jail. So you have a family member being threatend. Could this issue be taken to the police first before taking any matters into your own hands?

It's good that you wrote about the situation and your feelings. Next time, write them down on a piece of paper, read what you written, write it again, read one last time, and then tear up your papers with your bare hands. Call it a night and get some sleep. If you wake up just as angry, write your paper again and show it to an anger managment therapist as soon as possible and hopefully before you have any physical encounters. 

After all, jotting down how you feel and showing them to the right people will help you more than anyone in cyber space can. Your friends and loved ones know you. We in cyber space may view these ramblings as childish, over dramatic, pointless, and that you might be a little crazy.

I don't know the baring of a rant on cyber space in a court of law, but I'd delete this message or atleast re word your situation. Write out your rant on paper. Read it. Re Write it, and then type that version on cyber space. Keeping out the hate and leaving in the situation will allow most of us to take your post more seriously.

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RE: Interpersonal relationships suck - 8/20/2007 9:46:21 PM   
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quote:

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It sounds like a good time to give cash to some trustworthy fans incase you ever need to be bailed out of jail. So you have a family member being threatend. Could this issue be taken to the police first before taking any matters into your own hands?

It's good that you wrote about the situation and your feelings. Next time, write them down on a piece of paper, read what you written, write it again, read one last time, and then tear up your papers with your bare hands. Call it a night and get some sleep. If you wake up just as angry, write your paper again and show it to an anger managment therapist as soon as possible and hopefully before you have any physical encounters. 

After all, jotting down how you feel and showing them to the right people will help you more than anyone in cyber space can. Your friends and loved ones know you. We in cyber space may view these ramblings as childish, over dramatic, pointless, and that you might be a little crazy.

I don't know the baring of a rant on cyber space in a court of law, but I'd delete this message or atleast re word your situation. Write out your rant on paper. Read it. Re Write it, and then type that version on cyber space. Keeping out the hate and leaving in the situation will allow most of us to take your post more seriously.


Yeah!  and what he said.....

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RE: Interpersonal relationships suck - 8/20/2007 9:48:33 PM   
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What one gets out of an interpersonal relationship is directly proportional to what one puts in to it.

In my experience, people who have shitty relationships tend to not understand that garbage in (their contribution)
results in garbage out (what they get back) and blame the other person.

Be the person you want to be in a relationship with...

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Or, as I heard tonight as the best movie quote I have ever heard, "Be the flame, dont be the moth."


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RE: Interpersonal relationships suck - 8/21/2007 1:26:53 AM   
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Hold on here. I guess I am not so good at composition here.

Nobody threatened my family member, my family member threatened them.

What's more if this person were to batter me, they better get real lucky real fast. We do not call the police, not from the house, Ever. Thing is, this guy is normally on my side. I couldn't understand what pissed him off, but later I talked to him. He said it was nothing.

Thing is, I guess he is not all that smart, why tell my relative this when you never intended to do it ? I need to grow up ? I didn't do anything, ididn't hit anyone, nor did I threaten anyone.

But understand this, when you are dealing with the area I live in and the people therein, you take care of business, you do not call the cops, ever. I and these people are keeping the gangs from "Coming to Mayberry". And we will never stop. This is my neighborhood, people who move in later might have problems if they can't fit in. That is the way it will always be.

The only thing that made this an issue is that normally this is one of my cohorts. One of my people. Anyone else said shit like that and I might tear their screendoor off and teach them how to knock down,,,,,err on a door. I am totally upfront, I pull no punches, and I can leave my doors open, not just because people are watcthing, but because people care.

Suffice it to say that I will not allow this neighborhood to fall to the depths of a crack alley on the east side. It WILL NOT HAPPEN. I have a vested interest here, and any renter comes around renting these houses is going to comply. Legal ? probably not. Lawful ??, probably. Right, goddamn right. I will not stand by and watch while any lowlifes corrupt my hood, you come here for a hood, you come and take it from me. If you live, I will help you move out,.

I will do whatever it takes to maintain this neighborhood the way it is. Any further degeneration is not allowed. Who am I to make this decree ? Come on down and find out. Come experience quiet in the inner city. Come and experience the whole thing, just if you move here, you comply. And I am not the only one connected here, there have been times in the past when my connections clashed with other peoples' connections. Oh yeah. That was time for compromise, and in retrospect, they were right and I was wrong. But I was young.

I will stop at nothing to protect the core people of this neighborhood, nothing. What made the point significant was that this was one of those members. We, the homeowners around here have a very informal association. The renters across the street mean nothing, and the landlord means even less.

We have been trying to buy up the houses on the street, but they simply aren't worth the asking prices. I know what that means, another round of selling them to minorities who will lose them. It has happened before, and as long as this shit goes on we must remain diligent. Eventually someone will buy these houses and be able to actually afford them. We wanted to pay cash, lock it up.

I don't care that you have the right to live wherever you wsant, that means anywhere but here, unless you can be reasonable. Remember, we will stop at nothing to get rid of you if you become a problem. But then there are those people who think that if they rent a flat, like an upstairs of a double, that they own the whole neighborhood. Well I am here to tell them different, and I will do so. I know who they are and how they are.

And if they are disruptive, I will do everything I can to get rid of them, and as far as legality, take a fucking guess, I ain't sying shit.

Maybe I should grow up go live in an old folks home or something. But then I would be letting my people down, so, so much for that.

T

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RE: Interpersonal relationships suck - 8/21/2007 3:46:51 AM   
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I've watched My g/f put her fist through 5/8" (or was it 1/2") sheetrock...

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RE: Interpersonal relationships suck - 8/22/2007 12:26:20 AM   
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Next time, before you visit your neighbor, take a seltzer product.

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RE: Interpersonal relationships suck - 8/22/2007 8:24:26 PM   
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Or a xanax

< Message edited by FangsNfeet -- 8/22/2007 8:25:54 PM >


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RE: Interpersonal relationships suck - 8/22/2007 8:26:25 PM   
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bla

< Message edited by FangsNfeet -- 8/22/2007 8:27:34 PM >

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RE: Interpersonal relationships suck - 8/22/2007 8:28:07 PM   
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This whole situation and your neighborhood is your thing. Do what you have to do. I'm sure a judge and jury of your peers will understand "It's what I had to do for the protection and preservation of my community." Keep us posted on how things turn out. That is if you actually do anything other than sit on your ass and bitch on the message boards going on and on about how strong and deadly of a bad ass you are.



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RE: Interpersonal relationships suck - 8/22/2007 9:43:10 PM   
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Give me a break....you can trip and put your hand through a couple layers of drywall.  And a wooden door...give a break.  Most of them are made of thin layers of wood with a void in the middle. 

Second....did this post have a point at all.  I dozed off halfway through your speech about your "deadly" fists or fury.


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RE: Interpersonal relationships suck - 8/22/2007 10:27:07 PM   
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Let Me say this, about that!

Back away from the crack pipe!



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RE: Interpersonal relationships suck - 8/22/2007 10:33:56 PM   
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quote:

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Give me a break.... I dozed off halfway through your speech about your "deadly" fists or fury.


did ya mean fists of fury?
 


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RE: Interpersonal relationships suck - 8/22/2007 10:35:51 PM   
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Let Me say this, about that!

Back away from the crack pipe!



that too
 


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RE: Interpersonal relationships suck - 8/22/2007 10:39:40 PM   
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quote:

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Give me a break.... I dozed off halfway through your speech about your "deadly" fists or fury.


did ya mean fists of fury?
 



Why yeas....yes I did.  But I refuse to edit it....I'm tired and cranky. 


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