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pixelslave -> RE: strapon (8/22/2007 8:58:30 AM)
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ORIGINAL: FEMAR11
is it right that i like to be used with a strapon but am scared of a real dick?[image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m27.gif[/image]
FEMAR,
"right" implies a social judgement on "WIITWD" (What It Is That We Do). The anus has a lot of nerve endings in it and is a large pleasure center for the human body when properly stimulated if one allows themselves to relax and enjoy the stimulation. That's totally normal and there's nothing "wrong" with it in my opinion. To call it "right" or "wrong" is putting someone else's moral judgement on the way certain parts of our bodies will naturally respond to certain stimuli. [image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m23.gif[/image] After all, who are we to judge or criticize how we were designed to function by the universal creator?? [8|]
The fact that you have a preference that it not be stimulated by a male penis represents an element of your sexuality and a limit you're totally free to establish for yourself. Any partner who can't respect that limit is a partner who won't likely respect other boundaries as well. [>:]
If you're looking for permission to enjoy strap-on play, like self-respect, that's something you'll have to give yourself. You'll need to choose to enjoy the shared intimacy, pleasure, empowerment and other things it can offer the two of you and decide for yourself that it's okay. [&:]
- pixel
Collared to Majik
P.S. If you play with DianeB269, make sure she checks her toys first for any cracks (besides yours that is). I've heard that she'll chase you around the room trying to get the other half back if she loses it inside you! In which case, I suggest you just relax, let it pass and return the broken half. To be safe, bringing along a corkscrew could come in handy. [;)]
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