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chellekitty -> RE: nasty "doms" (9/1/2007 1:07:17 PM)

does anyone else here lil rob singing in their head every time they see this thread pop back up to the top....

lets get n.a.s.t.y get ready for a nasty time
all the nasty things we can do
i wanna bring out the freak in you
let me bring out the freak in you

chelle...a lady in the street but a freak in the bed...




dvart -> RE: nasty "doms" (9/1/2007 5:05:37 PM)

Seems to me that it is not very productive to concentrate on a definition, better to look at process.
Most productive relationships develop this way: you work out if you want the same things, have compatible interests, are attracted to each other and whether you can trust each other. Then you consciously or unconsciously agree some ground rules for the relationship.
If you are consistently attracting scum bags, then maybe you are giving out the wrong signals. Bear in mind that your scum bag may be some else's Prince.





twistedkytten -> RE: nasty "doms" (9/1/2007 9:35:11 PM)

This was a fun read although long........... thanks to everyone! I just want to say.... that the one that started this whole thing should perhaps consider the words that come from her lips before she freaks on words from anyone else.. and let us remember one thing.... you -can- get up and walk away from the freaking box




seababy -> RE: nasty "doms" (7/18/2008 7:20:26 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: steamynotraunchy

A true dom wants to love, support, understand, cherish and protect a submissive. A masogynist (woman hater) with mommy issues wants to subordinate, punish, inflict pain and generally keep a woman down.

Therefore, when you're approached by one of these woman haters, just block them, set them straight and block them. They're not even doms. They ARE THE WANNABE'S. And whatever you do, don't take their hate for women on. It has nothing to do with you and they have nothing to do with D/s.

I hope this makes a difference in someone's life cuz I've had it with these douche bags


Obviously you had a bad experience, sorry to see someone upset like that.
If its just mail, skim the contents if its disturbing delete it and forget.
Personally I find weird email  plain funny. It can't hurt you.
Have a laugh when the clueless try and get your attention.
Its very simple.
Why would you bother to dwell on something that negative?

Actually the part of your quote I've hi lighted in red is why I LOVE Dominants (bless their cotton socks!).

Having a Dominants lips brush gently against my skin while their clever hands are hurting me is my idea of heaven.
That doesn't make me feel hated , just makes me want to follow him/her around like a adoring puppy for a few hours afterwards. (Yes people I know that would be annoying but I just cant help it!)

If you perceive sadism as hate oriented and some one  who wants to see you subordinate to them as misogynistic, perhaps you should try finding dates somewhere besides a BDSM site.  You said "they have nothing to do with D/s"
Perhaps your looking for a gentler experience maybe a daddy -dom type?
They are out there. Good luck with your search.





seababy -> RE: nasty "doms" (7/18/2008 7:23:35 AM)

Zomg! I SO wished I checked the size of this thread before posting!
Should have let it die
Sorry people!




OsideGirl -> RE: nasty "doms" (7/18/2008 7:36:51 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: steamynotraunchy
A submissive is one who wishes to submit, who is unresistingly or humbly obedient./
quote:

Gee, guess I'm not a submissive. But, you'll excuse me if I take Master's approval over yours. By the way, you're incorrect. Everyone has resistance in them somewhere and you don't have to be humble to serve. Actually, I'd rather have someone that takes pride in their service rather some mouse.

quote:

A true dom wants to love, support, understand, cherish and protect a submissive.
First, there is no "TWUE" Dom. Next, if Dom isn't in a permanent relationship they have no obligation to love, support, understand, cherish and protect a submissive. And lastly, the is such a thing as service contracts where there is no romantic relationship between the submissive and Dom at all.

I understand your anger.....but, you might want to kill the stereotypes, because you're putting yourself into the same category with your "One TWUE Way" misconception.




clearlightblack -> RE: nasty "doms" (7/18/2008 11:24:29 AM)

oh my head hurts...too much scrolling




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