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BDsbabygirl -> RE: An open book or just the norm? (8/24/2007 7:20:08 AM)
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I believe everyone - BDSM or vanilla - has different facial expressions. I know I do and Daddy has noticed them all. He especially loves my "animalistic" - as you call it - face during sex. He's also accomplished at reading my tone of voice. When we're on the phone, he can tell me what look I have and what mood I'm in. I did try, earlier on, to hide negative feelings (like sadness) but have since given up on it - (1) I can't get away with it and (2) it's unfair to Him/Us/the relationship; I need to be an open book (a phrase he started using early on) for him to be able to Dom me successfully.
As for being approached more when attached; I honestly don't know as I am constantly hit on whether I'm attached or not. But I believe that in general, it's probably due to the happiness and glowing that people have when in a relationship tho it wasn't the case with me -- I've never been more miserable than I was when living with my estranged husband yet I got hit on all the time.
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