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Seriously...is it that bad out there? - 8/22/2007 6:52:36 PM   
Griswold


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Truly...Dommes or Doms can answer...I'm guessing it's easier for Doms (as in, the lifestyle).

I popped on...saw the first chic that popped up (it's always chics), checked her profile out...Domme ("not a Pro"...color me surprised)....and she was all about "DON'T contact me unless you (DO THIS THING....DON'T DO THIS THING...WANNA DO THIS THING...) and I'm thinking "is it that fucking rough out there?".

(Oh...and "send a recent pic...AND NOT OF YOUR COCK!!!!!")

It must be. 

Rough, that is.

Now, I'd like to say, my cock is fairly impressive...barring of course the nominal attempt by others to dissallow my sending of same (which, I should point out...would take several emails, easily at 1920 x 1640).

(Allright...let's not talk about my cock).

And so I wonder....does every Domme/Dom have to deal with all this "Me, me, me" shit?






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RE: Seriously...is that bad out there? - 8/22/2007 7:04:18 PM   
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quote:

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And so I wonder....does every Domme/Dom have to deal with all this "Me, me, me" shit?


The post's confused me a bit.  Is this sarcastic?  (It seems like you're talking about a Domme who was all "Me, me, me", and then you ask if Domme's (and Dom's) have to deal with "Me, me, me" stuff.)

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RE: Seriously...is that bad out there? - 8/22/2007 7:11:33 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: CuriousLord

quote:

ORIGINAL: Griswold

And so I wonder....does every Domme/Dom have to deal with all this "Me, me, me" shit?


The post's confused me a bit.  Is this sarcastic?  (It seems like you're talking about a Domme who was all "Me, me, me", and then you ask if Domme's (and Dom's) have to deal with "Me, me, me" stuff.)


I'm just wondering if when a sub (or Domme) emails (or posts)...is it always (or seemingly always)..."me, me, me"?

It seems like it is.

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RE: Seriously...is that bad out there? - 8/22/2007 7:13:45 PM   
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I am thinking,
that some females' Profiles, receive many ... ah ... woefully inappropriate contact messages.

Some clearly are so annoyed by this, 
that they choose to express such in their Profile blah-blah.

Lotta jerks, equal-opportunity-wise, out there and In Here

Edited to Add:
What is the problem with stating, in one's Profile, one's preferences, Pro and Con?

Duh

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RE: Seriously...is that bad out there? - 8/22/2007 7:22:45 PM   
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Meh, I've known some females- Domme or sub- to be rather.. well, for lack of a better term, bitchy.  Since I tend to avoid those like the plague, which has been successfully mated with HIV, antrax, and whatever causes LBHS, or Leaky Butt-Hole Syndrome, I occasionally chat with the neat ones.

To me, it seems like people out there who are lonely tend to be a bit bitchier.  They're lonely and in deseperate need to have someone fill that void.  I believe those who are already mated and content with things in general (not just their relationship) tend to be friendlier and such.

This said, a majority of the correspondance I send out on CM goes to non-pro Domme's- more than all subs, Dom's, and pro-"Domme's" put together, actually.  Haven't hazarded to guess why this is just yet.  I suppose relatively little goes out to Dom's since men tend to be more to-the-point and little to female subs since I simply have less grounds on which to relate to them with.  And, so far, I haven't found any arguments redeeming to the questionable aspects of pro-"Domme's", so I tend to look down on them which doesn't foster many good feelings.

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RE: Seriously...is it that bad out there? - 8/22/2007 8:38:47 PM   
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Yes, and don't think the directions to send clothed photo gets respected either.  
I don't think it's rough though, mostly cute/stupid.   M

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RE: Seriously...is it that bad out there? - 8/22/2007 9:35:25 PM   
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I do tend to deal with sub with lots of demands in there profiles...then some that are estatic of you just know there name they put in the text or don't say "on your knees" in the first email.  So I think it's a mix of demanding and non-demanding types. 

Then sometimes I write just to answer a question from their profile or just say welcome to the new subs and I get a defensive response because no one believes a dom would actually write just to talk...crazy me.


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RE: Seriously...is it that bad out there? - 8/24/2007 6:16:18 PM   
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ORIGINAL: FullfigRIMaam

Yes, and don't think the directions to send clothed photo gets respected either.  
I don't think it's rough though, mostly cute/stupid.   M


(Well, just so everyone's clear on how this works....the last 3 years...I've sent the leading WWF photos to all the wimmens I really wanted to attract and...I'm now married in 11 states).

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