sabis -> RE: BEST 4 BLOW JOBS? (7/23/2005 7:55:17 AM)
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"What is the perfect blowjob?" The answer is going to differ from man to man... Some like a lot of handwork. Some like it as messy as possible. Some like a lot of noise. Some like a lot of suction. Some like relentless tonsil-pounding deepthroat. It can be a submissive act, it can be a dominant act, it can be a 'meeting of equals' act. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Before I met my Owner, I thought I gave a pretty amazing blowjob. With a single exception, everyone I'd ever given one to had nothing bad to say, were generally very pleased, came back for more, if you pardon the pun. With Master, I was taught the difference between a blowjob and oral service / oral cock-worship. In my opinion (your mileage may vary, assorted disclaimers apply), it's a mental headspace shift, as well as a difference in direct technique. Headspace: I focus on His Cock as a focus point of all of His masculinity and Dominance. I treat it reverently, lovingly, tenderly, and submissively. I may pause in what I’m doing to rub His cock over my face, and verbalize to Him how much I love serving His cock, enjoy the taste, the velvety feel of it. The emotions it sends through me, being allowed to pleasure Him. Sound is important; I generally tend to be quiet, but He enjoys verbalizations and the hungry little moans that I make when I’ve released some of my inhibitions. Technique: Making sure the angles of throat and cock intersect smoothly, no interactions with teeth, everything is velvety soft and smooth: making one’s mouth feel as welcoming as any other hole. Every movement of my mouth is open and soft. Lips are kept extended and flared such that my teeth are covered but He feels the velvety underside of my lips. There’s a way to manipulate the very back of the mouth that lifts the palate and enlarges the mouth cavity. I work in such a way that the head of His cock is milked by my throat muscles, and my lips and tongue are working on the area from the absolute base to about an inch to an inch and a half up. Rhythm and tempo are extremely important, because it allows you to monitor your breathing so that it won’t be disruptive or intrusive. Hands are always cupping His balls or lightly stroking His thighs, or sometimes I’ll pinch my nipples for His pleasure. If He is laying down, I take care to arch my back sharply enough to make my breasts are stroking against His thigh with each stroke. Good oral service can also be about ‘just taking it’ – surrendering one’s throat to a bestial fucking, whether that’s Him controlling me by a handful of hair, or pinning my head to the pillow with His hips. At it’s core: Good oral service is all about finding what pleases Him most, and giving it to him. ~ sabis
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