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RE: BEST 4 BLOW JOBS? - 7/13/2005 7:04:02 AM

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i feel quite confident i can make a man see God when i give a blow job....and that my old lovers yearn for another bj like the ones i gave...and so i'm fascinated by this statement. What made the bj bad? Did she hurt You? Was she unable to last until You came? Please answer my curiosity. If there's ANYTHING i can do to improve my technique, i want to incorporate it into my repitorie...i adore giving bjs and am sooo looking forward to being "throat f**ked"as slavedesires describes. It sounds just heavenly.
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RE: BEST 4 BLOW JOBS? - 7/13/2005 7:06:29 AM

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I will dispel one myth though, there really IS such thing as a bad BJ

I'd Love to hear the story Scooter..
You and Jewel seem to have the funniest most unfortunate mishaps with bad eggs..

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RE: BEST 4 BLOW JOBS? - 7/16/2005 12:45:35 AM

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Real Teeth-I like A good bite

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RE: BEST 4 BLOW JOBS? - 7/16/2005 3:30:32 AM

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Real Teeth-I like A good bite

Interesting . . . Cowboy's profile says submissive and he likes bit. The Dom's who have responded seem to wanna avoid bit. Makes me wonder about the other submissive males out there, sure would make sence. On another note, once a thumb sucker always a thumb sucker, and with that in mind I've found a new hard limit. Nobody is pullin my teeth!
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RE: BEST 4 BLOW JOBS? - 7/17/2005 7:27:59 AM

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RE: BEST 4 BLOW JOBS? - 7/20/2005 7:55:53 PM

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For me the best is to have my two both working on me at the same time. With that kind of action, I for one hope to never know what a bad bj is. Anyway, who's worried about the ivories in the head when you're getting head...lol

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RE: BEST 4 BLOW JOBS? - 7/20/2005 8:13:48 PM

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OK LIKE THESE R MY BEST 4 BLOW JOBS

1 IN THE BACKSEAT OF MY '84 CAMARRO LIKE THAT WAS THE 1ST ONE I EVER GOT AND ILL NEVER 4GET IT

2 WHEN I DID MY BEST FRENDS WIFE MY GOT SHE HAD A HOT TONUGE

4 THAT OTHER SULT I FORGOT HER NAME TO BUT SHE DID SUMTHING THAT NOONE ELSE HAS BEEN ABLE TO DULIPCATE

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RE: BEST 4 BLOW JOBS? - 7/22/2005 6:06:22 PM

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OK LIKE THESE R MY BEST 4 BLOW JOBS

1 IN THE BACKSEAT OF MY '84 CAMARRO LIKE THAT WAS THE 1ST ONE I EVER GOT AND ILL NEVER 4GET IT

2 WHEN I DID MY BEST FRENDS WIFE MY GOT SHE HAD A HOT TONUGE

4 THAT OTHER SULT I FORGOT HER NAME TO BUT SHE DID SUMTHING THAT NOONE ELSE HAS BEEN ABLE TO DULIPCATE

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RE: BEST 4 BLOW JOBS? - 7/23/2005 7:55:17 AM

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"What is the perfect blowjob?"

The answer is going to differ from man to man... Some like a lot of handwork. Some like it as messy as possible. Some like a lot of noise. Some like a lot of suction. Some like relentless tonsil-pounding deepthroat. It can be a submissive act, it can be a dominant act, it can be a 'meeting of equals' act.

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Before I met my Owner, I thought I gave a pretty amazing blowjob. With a single exception, everyone I'd ever given one to had nothing bad to say, were generally very pleased, came back for more, if you pardon the pun.

With Master, I was taught the difference between a blowjob and oral service / oral cock-worship. In my opinion (your mileage may vary, assorted disclaimers apply), it's a mental headspace shift, as well as a difference in direct technique.

Headspace: I focus on His Cock as a focus point of all of His masculinity and Dominance. I treat it reverently, lovingly, tenderly, and submissively. I may pause in what I’m doing to rub His cock over my face, and verbalize to Him how much I love serving His cock, enjoy the taste, the velvety feel of it. The emotions it sends through me, being allowed to pleasure Him. Sound is important; I generally tend to be quiet, but He enjoys verbalizations and the hungry little moans that I make when I’ve released some of my inhibitions.

Technique: Making sure the angles of throat and cock intersect smoothly, no interactions with teeth, everything is velvety soft and smooth: making one’s mouth feel as welcoming as any other hole. Every movement of my mouth is open and soft. Lips are kept extended and flared such that my teeth are covered but He feels the velvety underside of my lips. There’s a way to manipulate the very back of the mouth that lifts the palate and enlarges the mouth cavity. I work in such a way that the head of His cock is milked by my throat muscles, and my lips and tongue are working on the area from the absolute base to about an inch to an inch and a half up. Rhythm and tempo are extremely important, because it allows you to monitor your breathing so that it won’t be disruptive or intrusive. Hands are always cupping His balls or lightly stroking His thighs, or sometimes I’ll pinch my nipples for His pleasure. If He is laying down, I take care to arch my back sharply enough to make my breasts are stroking against His thigh with each stroke.

Good oral service can also be about ‘just taking it’ – surrendering one’s throat to a bestial fucking, whether that’s Him controlling me by a handful of hair, or pinning my head to the pillow with His hips.

At it’s core: Good oral service is all about finding what pleases Him most, and giving it to him.

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RE: BEST 4 BLOW JOBS? - 7/23/2005 5:15:30 PM

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sabis... wondering if you could give me a tip....

when i make the back of my throat hardened, for deep throat fucking... after awhile, the muscles in my jaw begin to hurt and i either have to stop the deep throating and change to cock worship.... or mentally pray that he cums soon before my jaw gives out.....

also, as time goes on, i find it harder to keep my mouth firmly gripping his cock, and also to keep my teeth from not touching it....

my guess is that its because the muscles in my jaw begin to hurt after awhile,

do you think that if i do this more often, which would be exercising the different jaw, facial, neck, etc. muscles that this takes, that i will be able to do deep-throating for longer periods of time? or any other tip that can help me to improve with how long i can deep-throat?

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RE: BEST 4 BLOW JOBS? - 7/23/2005 8:13:49 PM

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Zaynab:

i don't harden the back of my throat: i soften it.... it *is* partially calloused, which is how the gag reflex can be overcome - deliberate development of callous - but i don't make the muscles rigid when i'm deep throating - when i have, it tires me out faster.. Relaxing more fully means i can do it longer. Other techniques are equally valid: this is just what works for me....

When the throat and jaw muscles get tired, they relax down, and the mouth closes. It's like any workout: practice, practice, practice. when i decided that it was really, deeply, personally important to learn to cock worship in a deep-throat environment, i started practicing on a daily basis. i purchased a Doc Johnson dildo ( i can't recommend them strongly enough ) that was a bit thicker and longer than anything I'd had in my throat, and worked it down to the base, long full strokes, for 15 minutes a day. Did that for a week, then gradually increased the time, bit by bit. I still practice on a weekly basis to keep my throat loose and the muscles exercised and toned.

At this point, i can generally perform oral service for about 30 to 45 minutes before my jaw starts getting sore and weakens. Yes, the mouth does tend to slide closed when its muscles are tired -- and yes, i've certainly had that happen when Master is pushing my endurance... and yes, there's been some prayer involved.... *grin* it's just all about practice.

So long as your 'rest breaks' are sexually and visually stimulating, there isn't as much of an interruption the flow - take a sec to relax your jaw, but immediately verbalize, rub Him on your face, stimulate with your hands and tongue, etc... keeping Him in the moment. Then, when you can, back to the task at hand, so to speak... :-)

Hope that helps,

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RE: BEST 4 BLOW JOBS? - 7/28/2005 12:12:07 PM

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yes it does. I saw a title of a post about possible negative side effects of doing a lot of deep throating, I'll have to go find it to read what others have said. Have you found any negatives to conditioning yourself the way that you did?

I assume that your throat being partially calloused would be a great asset to have, but does that bother you at all in any way?

Also, would any dildo do? Or is there one that you think would be best? perhaps the brand that you mentioned?

I think I'm going to try practicing that too, as soon as I find out if there are any negatives associated. Sounds like an asset for a sub to have.

I truly appreciate your response, by the way, thank you so much. ~ zay

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RE: BEST 4 BLOW JOBS? - 7/28/2005 9:01:27 PM

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yes it does. I saw a title of a post about possible negative side effects of doing a lot of deep throating, I'll have to go find it to read what others have said. Have you found any negatives to conditioning yourself the way that you did?

I assume that your throat being partially calloused would be a great asset to have, but does that bother you at all in any way?

Also, would any dildo do? Or is there one that you think would be best? perhaps the brand that you mentioned?

I think I'm going to try practicing that too, as soon as I find out if there are any negatives associated. Sounds like an asset for a sub to have.

I truly appreciate your response, by the way, thank you so much. ~ zay

zay... I have never had "side effects." My throat is not calloused either. Sometimes I might have a gentle reminder in the am of the force used and it makes me "weak"

but never anatomically have I had anything negative. And I admit, I can take a pretty big cock... when I started deepthroating I did practice on a dildo, but doing the real thing is so much easier for me.

~~shy

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RE: BEST 4 BLOW JOBS? - 7/29/2005 3:57:03 PM

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slavedesires and sabis,
I'm wondering why one of you has a calloused throat, and the other does not?

Probably sabis has practiced for a longer amount of time with the dildo, which caused the calloused area?

I'm also wondering if having the calloused area is more advantageous than not?

Guess there's no way to actually know that answer.... ~ zay

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RE: BEST 4 BLOW JOBS? - 7/30/2005 6:31:41 PM

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slavedesires and sabis,
I'm wondering why one of you has a calloused throat, and the other does not?

Probably sabis has practiced for a longer amount of time with the dildo, which caused the calloused area?

I'm also wondering if having the calloused area is more advantageous than not?

Guess there's no way to actually know that answer.... ~ zay

zay.....
While i am Master's fucked throat and mouth, and others He chooses to use me; i am also a Registered Nurse. My specialty is pediatrics. I home care children with tracheostomies, subglottal stenosis, severe esophageal trauma, ....anything to do with rare syndromes, respiratory issues, cardiac issues and eating disorders..... I have even had a child with a total reconstruction of her tracheal and larynx and paralyzed vocal cord...

I am sorry to say this...but mucous membranes DO NOT get calloused. The develope scar tissue. NOT the same. Scar tissue, you can google it, can build up and it will need surgical repair (that is removal) ESPECIALLY if in the nasopharyngeal passage and upper airway...where a throat is fucked.... becasue it WILL occlude the airway. In all my 25 years of ICU/ER (Respirtory, Cardiac, Neuro and Trauma) and home care with severely handicapped/medically needy children... I have not ever heard of such a condition.

The children I take care of "should have" calloused throats (upper tracheas) and upper airways (nasopharyngeal passages) because of all the intensive mechanical suctioning that is done.... and more traumatic to the soft tissue of mucous membranes than the head of a hard cock..... just aint no way I have seen it.

So i am not sure what sabis is really referring to.

My throat has been fucked routinely for many years...and forcefully for the last 4 years.
I am clueless...ask pinkpleaures if she knows anything about this. She is a cock worshipper and deepthroater...... maybe ask on a submissive yahoo board for this question. I can direct you to some.....well just google and search some on yahoo.

just my input...sorry hon.

~~shy

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RE: BEST 4 BLOW JOBS? - 7/31/2005 6:11:17 AM

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Thank you so much for sharing that, slavedesires....

*scratching dildo deep throat exercises off of my To Do List

I'll have to check into this another time... got too much going on here already.

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RE: BEST 4 BLOW JOBS? - 7/31/2005 9:52:49 PM

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Zaynab: sorry for the late reply, i lost track of this thread.

as i've not had my throat checked by a professional specializing in the field, i can't address slavedesires' refutation that i have callous. I feel that i do. When Master sticks His finger down my throat, there is a spot with a completely different texture and feel to it, which is the primary impact point when i have a cock in my throat. This leads us to believe that the skin there has toughened (i.e. calloused).

As i previously mentioned, I use the Doc Johnson brand. I use a 7" model that's 5 1/2" around, 1.5" wide at the thickest point. Model #0271-05: The Realistic" by Doc Johnson

The only negative that i have noticed is that deepthroating for the past 5 years has changed my vocal range. I used to be a high soprano. I am not any more. I can't sing as well as I used to, and that makes me kinda sad. After I've been training, my voice is much softer and more husky.

I agree with SlaveDesires in that an actual cock is much easier to work with: but that's precisely why i train with a dildo. When i've trained, it makes my throat wider - just like you can stretch a pussy or ass, you can stretch a throat. Master likes the 'well used' feel of my throat directly after training. It gets very soft, and slightly wider.

As always, your mileage may vary. This is just my own personal observations, and I am not a medical professional: just a dedicated cocksucker.

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RE: BEST 4 BLOW JOBS? - 8/1/2005 7:03:46 PM

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well Dr. Fury is just getting back from R&D..lots of action in the lab...my final conclusion is this...the eagerness by which the activity was conducted...makes me deduce that...wait...I think I need to go back for more testing on this one...

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RE: BEST 4 BLOW JOBS? - 8/1/2005 11:21:40 PM

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well Dr. Fury is just getting back from R&D..lots of action in the lab...my final conclusion is this...the eagerness by which the activity was conducted...makes me deduce that...wait...I think I need to go back for more testing on this one...

Fury

lol.... sorry.. lmao .... no comment lmao

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RE: BEST 4 BLOW JOBS? - 8/6/2005 5:22:14 AM

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ROFLMAO

thank you for the endorsement shy...would be more convincing coming from a Dom or Master, but what the hell..i'll take it. LMAO.

BTW...no calluses..and i've had some gastro tests lately. Just great gag reflex control and true wonderment.

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