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Cuckme4Life -> RE: What led you to BDSM? (9/1/2007 1:19:46 AM)
quote: What led you here? As a teenager right about to graduate High school,the Lady across the street from us started paying attention to me. Sometimes She would scold me for something trivial going on that I was probably into (typical teenage behavior) and I found it an extreme turn on. You would have to see those brown eyes penetrate your soul to understand. And that finger She had that she would shake towards you in that sexy scolding mode. One night in a cold winter She came knocking on the door needing help getting Her truck started. We got it started and from then on out I was like Her immediate person to come get when something wasnt right. (lawn mower, plumbing, etc etc). I loved the attention. Then the night came, I was locked out of our house because I lent my key to a friend of my family that had not came home yet. I stayed out in my own truck running the heat to stay warm. She (the neighbor) came out and saw me freezing in my truck. Invited me into Her home and shared some nice warm beverages with me. One conversation and drink led to another and I found myself confessing my desires and other deep dark secrets to Her. She took advantage of this knowledge. Eventually found myself on my knees at Her side listening to the way things will be from the on between us. I never once looked back and I never once questioned Her assertion of authority over me. I wasnt really given a choice nor did I care. She had me mesmerized and She knew it all too well. I was a fresh 18 yr old the first time She "sexually" seduced me. She was 36 at the time. Pussywhipped immediately to Her. Our house across the street from Her was sold while I was in college, I needed a place to stay and I moved in with Her since our house was sold. I became Her exclusive everything submissive. She demanded and I always complied. I served Her coffee, tea, and anything else She desired. I ran Her bathwater and shower water to Her temperature requests. I ironed Her clothes. Did Her laundry. Rubbed Her sexy tired feet. I did everything to serve and pamper Her. I LOVED Her praises for my efforts. And between the 2 of us we built some pretty cool stockade type pieces and other things to use between us. Converted a few leftover furniture pieces into some cool functional BDSM items back then too. She is "retired" from any "BDSM activity" these days but we do keep in touch and I do ask Her for advice to this day when needed.. These days She runs a local place assisting battered women. And She still has those scolding beautiful dark brown eyes. So for me, its not so much WHAT led me but WHO led me.

SimplyMichael -> RE: What led you to BDSM? (9/1/2007 7:05:26 AM)
What a beautiful story!

krikket -> RE: What led you to BDSM? (9/1/2007 7:50:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael So I now have no doubts where my dominance comes from but where it will lead with this new knowledge I have no idea. Okay, new chapter. I have met an amazing woman and we have what feels like a pretty amazing relationship. We are open with each other, vulnerable, and honest in a way I have never managed before, a caring nurturing honesty that encourages real openness. We push and enrich each other, we both see each other as our soulmate and at 40, we aren’t kids in puppy love, this is real and genuine. Like my ex, she is a Domme who approached me, women who approach me have always been my best partners. Thanks for sharing, Michael. Your own "work in progress" adds a few drops of hope to empty caverns and even a small amount of light...

MasterSteve57 -> RE: What led you to BDSM? (9/1/2007 1:21:44 PM)
For me it was the weather. I had a date with a lady to take a walk in the woods. When I got to her place it was raining sheets so we drank some wine and chatted. She asked me about my sexual fantasies. I told her I liked to be in command, that I was a "take charge kinda guy". Her eyes flared as she revelaed that she had been masturbating to submissive fantasies for years but never managed to summon up the courage to actually explore these hidden fantasies. So we experimented. I tied her up. We played for over four hours that day! The level of sexual arousal and pleasure we both experienced that rainy afternoon shocked us both. I had no idea I could have such an experience! =- MasterSteve

emberdream -> RE: What led you to BDSM? (9/1/2007 6:07:44 PM)
aol chatroom .. heard about it and researched .

SlaveSubtoserve -> RE: What led you to BDSM? (9/21/2007 10:12:55 AM)
....always had fantasies since 7 y.o of being dommed by women- bound, helpless, their slave to be used as She wished--- only became stronger with age....

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