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NO Way. NO How. NEVER. - 8/24/2007 8:19:25 AM   
JerseyKrissi72


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I can't tell you how many messages I have gotten here on Collarme and other sites asking if I would allow a Dom to cut my hair..   Well, my hair is very important to me- it's my strength okay, maybe it's not my strength but I love wearing it up in pigtails and being all lil girlie so NO I would NEVER cut my hair not for anyone...a loving, caring Dom would not do something to change his lil girl's appearance that would make her unhappy and cry...so for all you scissor happy Dom's....NOT HAPPENING

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RE: NO Way. NO How. NEVER. - 8/24/2007 8:21:21 AM   
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Ive had people say the ame to me.  Id love to make you cut your hair.
Make me?!? That little D over there, that means you dont make me do anything. Sorry.

I dont get it, why not control the important stuff.


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RE: NO Way. NO How. NEVER. - 8/24/2007 8:28:08 AM   
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When they cut my hair and realize i look like a lil boy with a short hair cut they would wish they didn't cut it

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RE: NO Way. NO How. NEVER. - 8/24/2007 9:11:57 AM   
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It doesn't necessarily always mean they want to.  What it means is they want to know how much control you would give them.
Some people want a slave, which is full control over your hair as well.  At least in my definition of slave.
Full control over your entire body, live or die.

Others well they want different things.

In any event, if I didn't understand something I would ask them what they mean by that.  I do know firsthand doms who would tell someone they wanted to cut their hair.  I've had these discussions many times.
Generally they say they don't want to, just want to see what the answer would be.

Although, I'm sure there are some who do want to cut it.

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RE: NO Way. NO How. NEVER. - 8/24/2007 1:49:41 PM   
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Krissi, would you reconsider under this circumstance? Suppose your Dom was a big supporter of cancer victims and believed strongly in the program where cut hair is used in wigs for those undergoing chemo. If your Dom asked you to cut your hair for that program, would you?

I'm not trying to be mean or callous... just asking...

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RE: NO Way. NO How. NEVER. - 8/24/2007 1:59:28 PM   
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Interesting, I remember being threatened with my hair being cut when I was a teen by my father who was very much into control and humiliation. It's probably why I detest both.

However, my husband/dom cut his gorgeous long locks and did donate them to be made into a wig for children with cancer. He hates short hair on women and my biggest threat is what would happen IF I did cut my hair. Styling, coloring, highlighting, no biggy, just nothing off the length that's noticeable.

I think these guys are just testing how much control you would give to a complete stranger. Don't do it and don't take their baiting. Like yourself and be who you are and more power to ya!

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RE: NO Way. NO How. NEVER. - 8/24/2007 2:28:54 PM   
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I think being totally bald is something everyone should try at least once in their life if only for the new sensation it gives you.

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RE: NO Way. NO How. NEVER. - 8/24/2007 2:58:23 PM   
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No way, no how would i even consider being bald
I also would not cut my hair for anyone, i don't spend a fortune on extensions to cut them off lol

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RE: NO Way. NO How. NEVER. - 8/24/2007 3:22:18 PM   
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quote:

I think being totally bald is something everyone should try at least once in their life if only for the new sensation it gives you
Hell No!   I am planning to get a Fro and no longer doing the detangling/relaxer after I turn 50, but I would never go without hair.   M

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RE: NO Way. NO How. NEVER. - 8/24/2007 3:44:02 PM   
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already have short hair ...wouldn't mind having it a bit longer 

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RE: NO Way. NO How. NEVER. - 8/24/2007 5:05:49 PM   
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I've been taking pains to grow my hair long with no significant cuts over a year, but in a D/s dynamic, I wouldn't hesitate to cut it if it were asked of me.

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RE: NO Way. NO How. NEVER. - 8/24/2007 5:19:27 PM   
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I remember when Master and I were dating....my hair was long and blonde but very, very damaged from too much swimming in both the ocean and the pool.  So I went and had the dead ends cut off which really should've been about six inches.  It was about two.  About a week later Master and I met (we had a long distance relationship so didn't see each other daily) for a weekend together.  He kept looking at me oddly and finally said "Short haired bitch."  huh?  I was laughing but was really worried that he completely didn't approve.  Because it was so early in our relationship, he was checking to see if I'd tell him the whole "It's my hair, take a hike" or if it was really something I did because my hair needed it.  He doesn't get the whole "healthy hair" thing and I'm pretty obsessed with it at this point.  It all worked out, obviously, but it was still a weird feeling.  Now, he knows that even if I wanted a change, I wouldn't cut it short.  That's why, now, he tells me to do whatever I want with it. :-)



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RE: NO Way. NO How. NEVER. - 8/28/2007 6:36:01 PM   
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 i was born with 5 inches of straight hair. had to have bangs cut  in the hospital .my hair is almost to my knees when straight. i promised my dad i would never cut it .lucky for me Master likes long hair on His girls. if  He told me to cut it i would be very sad.

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RE: NO Way. NO How. NEVER. - 8/28/2007 6:38:53 PM   
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I like my girls with long hair. My ma's still got the prettiest long hair now, and when she was younger, she looked just like Rita Hayworth.

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RE: NO Way. NO How. NEVER. - 9/1/2007 6:24:03 AM   
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My hair is longish but thinning at the top. When I start to look like Benjamin Franklin, it's going to be shaved-head time for me.

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RE: NO Way. NO How. NEVER. - 9/1/2007 7:12:03 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: FullCircle

I think being totally bald is something everyone should try at least once in their life if only for the new sensation it gives you.


I've always wanted to shave my head.  I like the idea of watching virgin hair grow in.  My face isn't right for it, so I'll never do it.  Still, it would save so much time in the mornings....

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RE: NO Way. NO How. NEVER. - 9/1/2007 7:42:23 AM   
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Agreed.

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RE: NO Way. NO How. NEVER. - 9/6/2007 2:59:38 PM   
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Well not sure how relevant this is but
I have been harassed by family members several times a month to get my hair cut and no way now how never LOL

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RE: NO Way. NO How. NEVER. - 9/6/2007 3:06:15 PM   
JerseyKrissi72


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i don't think this babygirl would look sexy bald

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RE: NO Way. NO How. NEVER. - 9/6/2007 3:39:00 PM   
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For years, I had tried to grow my hair out. A hair dresser damaged it to the roots with too strong relaxer when I was in the 7th grade. I got curly perms when I was in my 20s which damaged it even more. I finally had enough and cut it off in a short fro. To my amazement, it made me more attractive. I've worn it short ever since. I've had doms complain that its not long enough to pull. Sorry guys! The choice is either I look attactive pretty or I look unkempt. I prefer attractive.

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