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lonewolf05 -> RE: What do Femdoms want from Submissives? (7/15/2005 4:26:56 AM)

Ms Gold;

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There is a difference between "love" and "being in love".

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and myself, i can do neither. i do not become involved emotionally. i stay platonic. no drama for ME please.

the wolf




SadisticPrincess -> RE: What do Femdoms want from Submissives? (7/15/2005 8:52:51 AM)

You're a tough nut, Wolf. :)




lonewolf05 -> RE: What do Femdoms want from Submissives? (7/15/2005 12:28:06 PM)

princess, it is not about being tough, it is about not wanting drama and trauma in my life. i am not willing to get involved. i do not wish for romance love. i do not wish for sex with a domme.
i do not ask for nor need play.

i am only familiar with being a domestic, left alone to do all the damned dirty work no one else seems adult enough to be able to do.


it is,..all, i know.

wolf




LadyBeckett -> RE: What do Femdoms want from Submissives? (7/16/2005 4:11:48 PM)

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Do the Dommes here care that their subs love them? Or is just about service? Can a Domme make a sub love them? Would you want to "force" someone to love you? Doesn't love involve free will?


Very good questions, Euryanx. That love that you address in your first question is something that takes time to develop, and I believe becomes richer/deeper with reciprocity as it progresses through the natural levels of development. Obviously, the nature of the question requires that each Domme answer individually, and I answer yes, I do care very much. In absolute agreement with Maniac, it would be among the most wonderful things a Domme could experience in life.

Sometimes (in some cases) it is just about service. In those cases it is understood from the beginning that this is the case so nothing more is expected. This lifestyle is absolutely about communication, keeping it open and honest at all times is what keeps it flowing smoothly and avoids misunderstandings. With it being so detailed and intense, maintaining that communication is critical.

I don't believe one can force another to love them. However I think it may be possible to delude someone into "thinking" they do for a period of time.




lonewolf05 -> RE: What do Femdoms want from Submissives? (7/16/2005 4:32:01 PM)

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Sometimes (in some cases) it is just about service. In those cases it is understood from the beginning that this is the case so nothing more is expected.


yes. and IN service "I" avoid ALL the pitfalls everyone else falls into....
i have no drama and no trauma....peace n quiet to just do my work left alone....

wolf




BlkTallFullfig -> RE: What do Femdoms want from Submissives? (7/16/2005 8:31:08 PM)

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ORIGINAL: lonewolf05
yes. and IN service "I" avoid ALL the pitfalls everyone else falls into....
i have no drama and no trauma....peace n quiet to just do my work left alone....
wolf

And we all know how happy and fullfilled that's left you.. M




lonewolf05 -> RE: What do Femdoms want from Submissives? (7/17/2005 1:06:43 AM)

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And we all know how happy and fullfilled that's left you.. M



for the most part Ma'am, i am really. it is just battling with others that cannot understand me. "I" do not NEED the hokey romance thingy.
i do not NEED the play stuff.
i do not NEED sex.

all THAT is listed under..it would be nice but i am not out looking for it......

NEED is JUST to be in service......if i clean or tend a garden. doesn't matter.

i am able to split it........NEED vs WANT.....
MOST folks cannot. they seem to lose the concept iman is one animal that eats when it is not hungry
it kills for fun.
it drinks when it is not thristy.
it mates when the species is safe from being extinct.
it damages it's environment.
mankind is the worst animal created......
it does not know what is good for it. it takes n takes and doesnt give back.

so yes Ma'am.....it does work, when i am left to my own devices.

have a great day sunday Ma'am.

wolf




onceburned -> RE: What do Femdoms want from Submissives? (7/17/2005 2:04:07 AM)

Whew! You are in a sour mood tonight.

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ORIGINAL: lonewolf05
they seem to lose the concept iman is one animal that eats when it is not hungry


So do dogs.

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it kills for fun.


So do cats.

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it drinks when it is not thristy.


Actually, people would be better off if they drank before they got thirsty. Water is vital to metabolism and its best to avoid getting into a state of dehydration. older people are often chronically dehydrated because they don't drink when they aren't thirsty and their thirst trigger is not functioning well.

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it mates when the species is safe from being extinct.


I think that is true for every species.

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it damages it's environment.


Again, many species do this - if by damage the environment mean changing it to make it less supportive of other species. Its one of reasons why releasing foreign species into the wild is frowned upon, if not outright illegal in most areas.

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mankind is the worst animal created......


Nah, that would be the mosquito.

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it does not know what is good for it. it takes n takes and doesnt give back.


Are you sure? I think you just have been hanging out with the wrong people. [;)]




lonewolf05 -> RE: What do Femdoms want from Submissives? (7/17/2005 3:04:51 AM)

chris...........you are a little pistol aren't ya?

always there to cheer me up huh?


thanks bro
wolf




Oumae -> RE: What do Femdoms want from Submissives? (7/18/2005 9:30:21 AM)


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ORIGINAL: onceburned




quote:

mankind is the worst animal created......


Nah, that would be the mosquito.



Nice post Chris...loved this line... they sure can be pests too. [;)]

Oumae




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