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RE: female ejaculation - 8/26/2007 5:06:51 PM

Twicehappy2x

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ORIGINAL: Hime

So....
I do have a question for those of you that have experienced ejaculation a multiple of times.
Are the sensations leading up to ejaculation similar for you each time?

For me it happens quite easily. And with each time it gets more intense so that by the fourth or fifth orgasms i have been told i cry, scream and laugh almost simultaneously.

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RE: female ejaculation - 8/26/2007 9:35:30 PM

Hime

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Thinking back to My first (and only) ejaculation experience with a boyfriend, I do recall the moments leading up to it.

On two separate occasions while I was Fu@king him, I stopped, got off of his cock, and went to the restroom to pee. I was a bit annoyed because, although I felt the urge, I just couldn't go! After my second unsuccessful restroom break, I went back into the room, climbed back on top of him, and as soon as we got our rhythm back, I had the urge to pee again *BUT* this time I refused to interrupt the pleasure that we were having. He was thrusting from the bottom, I was riding him pretty hard from the top, and then....*splash* warm liquid poured out of my pussy and ran everywhere - down my thighs, his stomach, to his chest, and soaked the sheets. And although we were both very young, ignorant, and a bit confused by it, we agreed that it wasn't urine.

After finding this thread this afternoon, I made an effort to do some reading (via google) about Female Ejaculation and the Female Prostate. I learned that the urge to pee is a common sensation. I must admit - I've had the urge to pee many times during sex and I can't help but wonder about the hundreds of opportunities I may have missed to ejaculate because I didn't relax and let it flow.

I am going to be a busy woman tonight!

By the way, Thank you Ocilla and Twicehappy for sharing some insight and excellent information.
I have a question for Ocilla. You said,[snip] "felt a slight pressure in between my vagina and clit" [snip] Was that similar to an urge to pee?

~ xoxo

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RE: female ejaculation - 8/26/2007 10:17:00 PM

hazenut

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Wow it seems like there's a lot of lucky ladies(and men)out there. Way more than I thought there would be. I've never had the pleasure of squirting, but also sometimes it takes me a while to get off period. I've heard that some women can teach themselves. I think with enough practice I might be able to do this myself. Maybe I'll be up late tonight....

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RE: female ejaculation - 8/27/2007 4:16:32 AM

ocilla

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yeah, it could be described that way. This weekend I really paid attention - due to this thread and having read the info in the included link in one of the posts (http://www.very-koi.net/tutor/female/female.htm ). It feels very close to the about to pee sensation but just a little different once you are really aware of what is going on down there.

Also, for those who say it takes awhile to get off and or get to this point - good news and incentive to practice is that the more you do get off, the easier it is to get off. It is like your body and mind sort of get in sync. One interesting tip I was given somewhere along the way years ago - was to go ahead and flex and curl your toes and arch your back like happens involuntarily during many orgasms, think of it as stretching before you go for a run or something...kind of helps get your body going. But, just know that for me the flood, squirt O is kinda different, than a clitoral O and a g-spot O. The flooding O is more of a relaxing into it kind of thing - less of a everything contracting O....hope that helps.

Its a little odd to be telling so much detail about how my body works out here on the web but I suppose if it is useful to others then I might as well.

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RE: female ejaculation - 8/27/2007 12:44:57 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ocilla

yeah, it could be described that way. This weekend I really paid attention - due to this thread and having read the info in the included link in one of the posts (http://www.very-koi.net/tutor/female/female.htm ). It feels very close to the about to pee sensation but just a little different once you are really aware of what is going on down there.

Also, for those who say it takes awhile to get off and or get to this point - good news and incentive to practice is that the more you do get off, the easier it is to get off. It is like your body and mind sort of get in sync. One interesting tip I was given somewhere along the way years ago - was to go ahead and flex and curl your toes and arch your back like happens involuntarily during many orgasms, think of it as stretching before you go for a run or something...kind of helps get your body going. But, just know that for me the flood, squirt O is kinda different, than a clitoral O and a g-spot O. The flooding O is more of a relaxing into it kind of thing - less of a everything contracting O....hope that helps.

Its a little odd to be telling so much detail about how my body works out here on the web but I suppose if it is useful to others then I might as well.

It is a great site link for instruction and explanation of how it all works isn't it? I send it out whenever this question comes up. This is the first time I've ever actually had feedback as to whether the site was helpful in any way towards success. Great to hear that it worked for you!

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RE: female ejaculation - 8/29/2007 12:51:08 PM

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I discovered the ability and triggers for me to ejaculate about 5 years ago. Like many, I thought I had somehow peed at first.... it was a HUGE amount of liquid. But it wasent urine. Now I know exactly what I need to do for this. I enjoy using it as part of a torture for a sub who really loves to perform orally. What can I say, I am a little sadistic so I wont let him do what he enjoys, and instead, I put a dildo gag in his mouth and ride his face. When I squirt, it gets all over him and he cant do ANYTHING, even lick it up. *Sigh, bliss.... I do adore tormenting so very much.....*

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RE: female ejaculation - 8/29/2007 1:36:08 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDaisy73

I discovered the ability and triggers for me to ejaculate about 5 years ago. Like many, I thought I had somehow peed at first.... it was a HUGE amount of liquid. But it wasent urine. Now I know exactly what I need to do for this. I enjoy using it as part of a torture for a sub who really loves to perform orally. What can I say, I am a little sadistic so I wont let him do what he enjoys, and instead, I put a dildo gag in his mouth and ride his face. When I squirt, it gets all over him and he cant do ANYTHING, even lick it up. *Sigh, bliss.... I do adore tormenting so very much.....*

*OMG* That's HOT!

The idea of being able to shoot all over my boys face as I cum....*sighs*....puts me at a loss for words.

* i quickly run off to go practice *

~ xoxo

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RE: female ejaculation - 8/29/2007 3:05:57 PM

MistressDaisy73

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Hime

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDaisy73

I discovered the ability and triggers for me to ejaculate about 5 years ago. Like many, I thought I had somehow peed at first.... it was a HUGE amount of liquid. But it wasent urine. Now I know exactly what I need to do for this. I enjoy using it as part of a torture for a sub who really loves to perform orally. What can I say, I am a little sadistic so I wont let him do what he enjoys, and instead, I put a dildo gag in his mouth and ride his face. When I squirt, it gets all over him and he cant do ANYTHING, even lick it up. *Sigh, bliss.... I do adore tormenting so very much.....*

*OMG* That's HOT!

The idea of being able to shoot all over my boys face as I cum....*sighs*....puts me at a loss for words.

* i quickly run off to go practice *

~ xoxo

LOL Kewl. Always glad to lend a er, um hand wouldnt sound right, but you get the idea. Let me know how it goes. My subs are usually driven nuts by it.

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RE: female ejaculation - 8/29/2007 3:27:21 PM

ocilla

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Yes it is a wonder resource. Thanks so much for sharing it!

quote:

ORIGINAL: SDFemDom4cuck

quote:

ORIGINAL: ocilla

yeah, it could be described that way. This weekend I really paid attention - due to this thread and having read the info in the included link in one of the posts (http://www.very-koi.net/tutor/female/female.htm ). It feels very close to the about to pee sensation but just a little different once you are really aware of what is going on down there.

Also, for those who say it takes awhile to get off and or get to this point - good news and incentive to practice is that the more you do get off, the easier it is to get off. It is like your body and mind sort of get in sync. One interesting tip I was given somewhere along the way years ago - was to go ahead and flex and curl your toes and arch your back like happens involuntarily during many orgasms, think of it as stretching before you go for a run or something...kind of helps get your body going. But, just know that for me the flood, squirt O is kinda different, than a clitoral O and a g-spot O. The flooding O is more of a relaxing into it kind of thing - less of a everything contracting O....hope that helps.

Its a little odd to be telling so much detail about how my body works out here on the web but I suppose if it is useful to others then I might as well.

It is a great site link for instruction and explanation of how it all works isn't it? I send it out whenever this question comes up. This is the first time I've ever actually had feedback as to whether the site was helpful in any way towards success. Great to hear that it worked for you!

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RE: female ejaculation - 8/30/2007 12:21:12 AM

dilimiti

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the only time i was fortunate enough to be on the recieving end of FE occurred after a night of heavy drinking

she was on top riding me and manually stimulating herself.

when she gushed in was an eXXXplosion of ferocious velocity and i swear it came out in chunks....i thought she had puked on my chest

a lovely moment in life never again lived, all ways thought of fondly

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RE: female ejaculation - 8/30/2007 12:36:13 AM

willowspirit

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to MaamJay
I'm about the same age as you. I'm definitely menopaused-out. And I only BEGAN to squirt very recently, when I never EVER squirted before in my entire life!

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ORIGINAL: MaamJay
[snippage]
... not yet happened as Domme but that could be because I am holding back a little as I am the one in control. I do find it's not happening so much now as previously, may be age-related? I'm now 51 though not menopausal as yet (dammit!). Any others noticed it dropping off with age?

Maam Jay aka violet[A]

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RE: female ejaculation - 8/31/2007 3:31:56 PM

MaDomAura

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I have been teaching "Female Ejaculation" for several years.

Without making this an on line seminar, I will touch on a few facts.

The "G" Spot also known as the urethral sponge was named after a Dr. Grafenberg. In my experience massaging men's prostrates and women's G-spots I have noticed that there are many similarities. The size and texture are remarkably similar, as is the relative anatomical position. In both sex's the initial sensation make be the urge to urinate, as this sponge does indeed surround the urethra in either gender.

Masters and Johnson touched on the "phenomena" and stated it was female urinary incontinence. My reply is first, great if I can come so hard I void no problem. Then I balked realized the conclusion was made without enough scientific observations.

In addition to Dr. Grafenburg, we can credit Dr. Skene for the so named Skene's glands. The fluid emitted from these glands found in the vagina is likened to male seminal fluid. (The seminal fluid mixes with sperm during male ejaculation). A specific example is fluid from the Skene's glands lacks creatine, which is found in urine. My observations are the fluid from female ejaculation is not as heavy or wet as urine. It's thin, and semi viscous, drying quickly compared to equal parts urine or water. The smell and taste is consistently reported to be distinct and different than urine.

I don't feel that it's important that more studies are conducted, more over I prefer that we enjoy the sensation, and allow the release without having some authority validate it. Studies are meant to be open to interpretation and discussion, that is never ending. One small study involved using catheters to drain female bladders, and then collection of the emissions in female who were able to "ejaculate" in the lab setting. (Rare birds is my guess!) Clearly this was a sample too small to have much weight, but it's notable none the less. The results were more or less in favor of the ejaculate lacking the elements of urine, while also stating the collected samples were not statistically significant.

In my case, the orgasm is more bearing down, than the contraction I experience in other climax. Initially I fought the urge, akin to urinary urgency. My partner urged me past my retention and I felt the "gush". This was from external clitoral stimulation. I found one "vibrator" that made me squirt reliably, and other women report the same experience. Now that I know how to attain the arousal, I can ejaculate from penetration, clitoral stimulation or a combination of both.

I find that it's the most physical orgasm I experience, and I feel heavy against the mattress and almost sedate after a good round! Needless to say, I prefer to set up for the wetness and allow time to basque in the glow so squirting is not something I incorporate into a quickie!

Class dismissed, and your are welcome for the homework assignment!

MaDom Aura

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RE: female ejaculation - 8/31/2007 4:11:04 PM

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Madamaura, excellent post and I can tell you that the fluid from a female ejaculation absolutely has a diferent taste than urine.

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RE: female ejaculation - 9/2/2007 11:36:01 AM

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Squirter here! I keep a squeegee next to my bed.

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RE: female ejaculation - 9/2/2007 11:53:32 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MaDomAura

I have been teaching "Female Ejaculation" for several years.

Thank you for the informative post.

Cheers,

Sea

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RE: female ejaculation - 9/3/2007 10:54:27 AM

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My body operates a little differently. I like to have gentle stimulation around (not on) my clit, plenty of 'g' spot play, which takes about 5 minutes to get in the 'squirt zone'. It helps if I have to pee just a tiny bit before we start as it creates that lovely pressure right off the bat.
It is also a 'letting go' feeling for me. It can happen before, after or during those more intense orgasms.

Re: less fluid as you grow up in womanly years? Not a problem! Drink plenty of fluid, have some great sex, and it all cums out in the wash! lol

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RE: female ejaculation - 9/3/2007 11:42:32 PM

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I ejaculated spontaneously for the first time about a year ago, but have recently found a partner who is able to make me ejaculate reliably by using a G-spot stimulator while stimulating my clitoris. And the orgasms are unbelievable!

LILITH

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RE: female ejaculation - 9/4/2007 5:46:28 AM

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This is a fasinating subject and full of insight. I love to orally stimulate a girl to orgasim, and if she squirts, I'm taken to a new hight of accomplishment.

I'm surprised that many of you worry about if it's pee or not and then about getting everything wet. As a guy who LOVES the flavors of a women, I would be 'in there' suckling up anything you squirt as you shudder. I don't care if it includes or is only pee. If I brought you to this level of climax, It's my obligation to let you enjoy it without your worry if your going to get anything wet. I get to enjoy all your flavor too...

... and if its pee...? So what?? Does it make you feel good? Just let yourself go... My first experience was just that, my neighborhood girlfriend was riding my face and we almost got caught by her parents. She came and peed at the same time into my mouth. I swallowed only because if she spilled, we certainly would have been caught... I Loved it, she really, really Enjoyed it and I've been 'guzzling' ever since. I never seem to get enough squirt.

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RE: female ejaculation - 9/4/2007 9:56:44 AM

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I'm determined to make this girl I just started seeing squirt, because none of her exes ever could..

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RE: female ejaculation - 9/4/2007 10:13:39 AM

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Go to that link that is in the thread above and read it...should give you all the info you need. Ya know she will have to be able to recognize and then go with it, when she gets that sensation to pee...most women struggle with that. So it is something you can't do without her also wanting to do it...takes collaboration.

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