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Advice needed! - 8/24/2007 8:40:45 PM

curiousmiss2

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hi,
im new here.. my friend referred me. and i need to ask for some advice. i have a subby that im considering collaring but he has a penis that is slightly curved to left. and i was wondering if there is any sort of position or anything that would make it so it doesnt hurt. its a big enough issue that im considering not collaring because of it.

thanks in advance for your input.

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RE: Advice needed! - 8/24/2007 8:51:07 PM

MisPandora

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ORIGINAL: curiousmiss2

hi,
im new here.. my friend referred me. and i need to ask for some advice. i have a subby that im considering collaring but he has a penis that is slightly curved to left. and i was wondering if there is any sort of position or anything that would make it so it doesnt hurt. its a big enough issue that im considering not collaring because of it.

thanks in advance for your input.

-curiousmiss2

Many apologies -- my crystal ball is in the shop and I'm not feeling all too telepathic tonight. Would you mind filling us in on who is hurting and what activity you're doing that you need advice on? Is this sex, bondage, chastity?

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RE: Advice needed! - 8/24/2007 9:01:25 PM

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sex is the activity that hurting. bondage isnt a big issue for the time being ...so.. hurting while having sex.

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RE: Advice needed! - 8/24/2007 9:02:40 PM

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im sorry im not very good at this cuz im new.. but im the one hurting while having sex..

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RE: Advice needed! - 8/24/2007 9:53:45 PM

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I would just keep trying different positions until I found one that worked ... no two people are alike, so just because someone else has had success with a similarly shaped penis in one position, that doesn't mean that you would have the same results.

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RE: Advice needed! - 8/25/2007 6:47:33 AM

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sex is the activity that hurting. bondage isnt a big issue for the time being ...so.. hurting while having sex.

Gotcha. I thought you were referring to something technical other than sex. I was trying my best to figure out how his bent dick hurting was causing you pain LOL

I've been intimate with gentlemen with dramatic curvature and haven't had much issue with sex being painful because their cock is still fairly flexible despite being hard. Try different positions, especially you being on top so you can control the depth and angle.

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RE: Advice needed! - 8/25/2007 10:49:04 AM

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Find positions that use his curve to your advantage. With one gent if I was on my back and he was on his side, I could drop my legs over his hips and as he thrust inwards his curve pushed against my g-spot. If position changes don't work, have him buy a strap-on and use that to please you. His curve need never touch you if you dislike it.

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