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angelicsubbie -> My first spanking party..advice (8/24/2007 9:58:02 PM)
Hi E/everyone... i'm going to my first spanking party tonight, and shy angelic me is rather nervous and whatnot...i'm not quite sure what to expect, or how to prepare, or well much of anything because i'm a perfectionist and feeling kinda lost ;)...any last minute words of advice or tips ;) Thanks

Dzeid -> RE: My first spanking party..advice (8/24/2007 11:18:54 PM)
Go have fun............[;)]

MaamJay -> RE: My first spanking party..advice (8/25/2007 12:14:23 AM)
Too late ... you've been! Hope you had fun ... it shouldn't have been too scary judging from those I've attended. How did you enjoy it?? Maam Jay aka violet[A] PS post earlier next time LOL!

angelicsubbie -> RE: My first spanking party..advice (8/25/2007 8:48:30 AM)
Not last night, tonight, I've got all day to fret about it...

SubJordanTyler -> RE: My first spanking party..advice (8/25/2007 2:13:42 PM)
Definitely go and have fun.............and expect to have a very sore ass tonight and tomorrow. Might be a little hard to sit down, but that is just a reminder of what you did the night before - and hopefully how much fun you had. Of course be sure to be careful and safeword if it does become too much. Otherwise...........go get that ass spanked red. :-)

Hisbellaluna -> RE: My first spanking party..advice (8/25/2007 2:57:56 PM)
i don't know about your spanking parties but the spanking parties i have been to have been low to no protocol parties and bratting is an invitation to play, soooo be sure you know the rules of the party from the host/ess from the begining...don't be afraid to ask questions...don't take anything personally...have fun!! edited to add: oh and as for the bratting being an invitation to play, to me that means if i stick my tounge out at a top that means i want him to come over and swat me on the butt with his open hand...anything more than that can be negotiated...if i soak him with a super soaker i expect my butt to be blistered, but still with his open hand, anything more can be negotiated...

paddlesmacks -> RE: My first spanking party..advice (8/25/2007 3:09:07 PM)
Well, it helps if you go with a friend and not alone. And always trust your instincts and initial impressions of people. Based on the parties we've been to, we've always found that most of the people are very nice and respectful. But we have run into a few crazies from time to time. However, I have my Husband with me who is 6'5", so i feel safe. Be safe, and enjoy the party. If you go alone, let someone know where you are. Happy Spankings! Oh yeah....wear something sexy and spankable!

LightHeartedMaam -> RE: My first spanking party..advice (8/25/2007 9:08:08 PM)
Make sure you wear clean underwear :)

Noah -> RE: My first spanking party..advice (8/25/2007 10:32:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LightHeartedMaam Make sure you wear clean underwear :) ... unless it is one of those edgy, stinky-panty spanking parties.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: My first spanking party..advice (8/26/2007 3:50:46 PM)
LOL well too late for my advice to help- but don't expect MORE than spanking. Just expect a lot of spanking and people doing everything they can to get spanked. And don't be surprised if a lot of them don't "get" or are uncomfortable discussing Ds or other kinky things.

Aine -> RE: My first spanking party..advice (8/26/2007 3:55:08 PM)
There are spanking PARTIES?!?!?! how the hell did I miss out on that memo?! ish jealoush

kyra -> RE: My first spanking party..advice (8/26/2007 4:02:32 PM)
wear a thong and skirt ^__^

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