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RE: what makes a woman turn into a domme - 7/14/2005 4:38:46 PM

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Speaking of fantasies, I've noticed several "Domme" profiles that have most likely been created by imaginative males. It seems that almost everywhere I go online that includes a Femdom theme these days, there's always someone trying to pass off fantasy as reality.

What do you suppose the payoff is for these fakers?

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RE: what makes a woman turn into a domme - 8/21/2005 7:03:36 PM

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All I can say is "Way To Go Wife!" It's about damned time we women took back our power and quit bowing down to the males. :)

Just my five cents worth.

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RE: what makes a woman turn into a domme - 8/21/2005 11:02:12 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: subfever

Speaking of fantasies, I've noticed several "Domme" profiles that have most likely been created by imaginative males. It seems that almost everywhere I go online that includes a Femdom theme these days, there's always someone trying to pass off fantasy as reality.

What do you suppose the payoff is for these fakers?

subfever

I would say that in a case like this, there really is no pay off but embarassment. The trouble is that anyone who knows how things really work in BDSM between those who practice it, can always see though a fantasy. There are always false assumptions, exagerations, and outright make-believe, in the "ponographic storybook" version of BDSM that the fantasy writer can never detect because he does not know the reality. That's the complication of telling a lie--you have to be a friggin' genius to keep a lie going for more than a few minutes among intelligent people who know the subject that you're lying about. It's been proven on these boards again and again.

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RE: what makes a woman turn into a domme - 8/22/2005 12:06:55 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: subfever
Speaking of fantasies, I've noticed several "Domme" profiles that have most likely been created by imaginative males.
What do you suppose the payoff is for these fakers?
subfever

If I were to guess, I'd say, jerk off material for attached guy who cannot go out and live it since wife or girlfriend has him by the balls. M

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RE: what makes a woman turn into a domme - 9/4/2005 2:41:17 AM

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Yep, wankers! lol!

I love the one's that are some "woman" who as to leave her male sub with a trusted woman for a while! lol... those crack me up! That story has been around for ages and ages....

Is it the men that are so stupid or the women who blieve them?

(No offense to the trusting souls out there)

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RE: what makes a woman turn into a domme - 9/4/2005 10:59:38 AM

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I guess since I have bisexual on my profile, I have recently gotten the female dommes that have to leave their female subs, or would like to travel and share the sub.....lol

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RE: what makes a woman turn into a domme - 9/5/2005 3:42:42 AM

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I'm glad I read this thread. I'll think twice about responding on the boards again. I wonder how many of these initiated threads are just that, b.s. to start the ball rolling...

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RE: what makes a woman turn into a domme - 9/5/2005 11:28:01 AM

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I hope that you continue to participate! While it's true that some of the threads are a little off, there is too much good discussion on here---and we always need thoughtful posters like yourself!

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RE: what makes a woman turn into a domme - 10/7/2005 11:28:39 AM

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The 'womanhood' wank fantasy story sounds great, but it doesnt work like that in reality. I agree with all the comments wriiten about 'male wank fantasy', except i would say it isnt a life style- just a 100% fantasy plus 200% Bull!!.
As a male who likes dressing as a woman, and other fantasies, it is very hard to find a woman who would welcome with open arms these interests i have.Even crossdressing tends to make some women back off. Im not mentioning for selfpity or anythink, just making a point as i see things.
So i couldnt imagine that an angry woman forcing a guy to live out a fantasy... but if she was insulted and humiliated etc, i could imagine a woman ruining his life,work, letting all his family and freinds know what a 'sick pervert' she thinks he is,etc etc.
The number of women i have told about my interest in crossdressing , whom have basically said' sorry not for me' out wieghs the ones who say' and so what if you dress as a woman??'
Then throw in the other fantasies i have and you can bet they will run!!.
Im new to all this dominant/submissive stuff and looking into it out of a curiosity.my profile is rubbish, i threw it together like a shopping list-havnt got a clue!!.

As for dressing as a woman, you can get cremes to soften beard hair and there are not only female hormones you can take, but other pills to supress 'anti-androgens???'.(somethink im looking into).

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RE: what makes a woman turn into a domme - 10/7/2005 2:32:31 PM

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Anyone else confused by the title of this discussion and the actual content of the original post?

I read the title then read the OP and they didn't fit together at all.....

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RE: what makes a woman turn into a domme - 11/12/2005 3:40:19 PM

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I agree with Akasha. From the momment I started reading the post I thought it to be pure wanker fantasy.

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RE: what makes a woman turn into a domme - 11/12/2005 7:14:11 PM

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This seems fake. Either your gloating or making it up...

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RE: what makes a woman turn into a domme - 11/14/2005 9:27:25 PM

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Well your question doesn't match your rather sad posting... Honestly I feel for you.

You obviously had/have a leaning towards feminization... (the mags must have given it away), but she must also have had a leaning towards feminizing you.

Now as to your question:

1. A Domme is not necessarily into feminized men ( I prefer them rather male looking but not apelike if you know my meaning) - I'm neutral to a feminized man but I'm a hot with a male submissive (I'm a FemmeDomme)

2. There are many reasons a woman may find solice or excitement in her dominance:

a. past issues with being dominated by men socially humiliated etc (this is really not a very healthy reason but its out there -- watch out for closet gender haters)
b. hormones: a lot of estrogen acts like testosterone in a woman
c. energetic and personality make up: highly active athletic or intelligent women tend to be more goal oriented... and if they do not find the opportunities in a man's world to shine they may go "underground" and apply their talents in domination, scene planning, behaviour modification & control of their immediate environment.
d. rape victims
e. curiosity/ sexual open-mindedness and power intoxication as power exchange can be very intoxicating to a natural dominant
f. Other reasons ... as of yet not encountered

As for your situation, I think you did already get some advice here as to withdrawing your consent. You may be married but you should still have the right to specify your limits... It is more difficult to go backwards once you've crossed that bridge but if you are really miserable and you are willing to fight for your maleness.... then do it... (this is a dominant speaking now).

even if you have to tell her that it is so important to your psychological wellbeing that you are considering seeing a psychiatrist or other professional to help you with this "problem" she has that is affecting you. That I think would work.

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RE: what makes a woman turn into a domme - 11/15/2005 7:55:24 AM

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I hear you complaining but I don't see you doing anything about it. Take your place, serve Her well, and quit your bitchin'!

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