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do dommes sometimes do sessions with subs just to train... - 8/25/2007 6:57:52 PM

bigtrouble1

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another fantasy i have is to be used by a domme in order to teach another domme. having a domme do things to me and then using me as the experiment for the learning domme to try these things out on.

is play like this common? do dommes bring in other dommes on a session to teach them? and if so, do most dommes charge extra for this? and how might i request this? how are new dommes normally taught their skills?

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RE: do dommes sometimes do sessions with subs just to t... - 8/25/2007 7:02:16 PM

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Years ago, back when I was sessioning, I would get to be known at a bdsm house and every now and then the dominant I was seeing would ask if it was okay if she brought in another dominant for training. For me, it was great because that meant two dominants, for the regular dominant it meant being able to train the other, and for the new one it meant being in an atmosphere where she didn't have to worry about screwing up because everyone knew what was happening going into it. But this was usually only when I was known at a place. I'd be surprised or somewhat apprehensive if they did this at a place I attended and didn't really know the dominant in question.

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RE: do dommes sometimes do sessions with subs just to t... - 8/25/2007 7:57:13 PM

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When I worked for a "dungeon" this happened, you could request 2 Dommes, the price was double. As for training, well many scenes were played out, I do know that if someone I knew wanted me to train them (I have been asked) we would work alone first, then bring a sub in.
When I started working I was set out to the wolves quite literally, I am glad the women I met helped me out, some of them I will remember for the rest of my life. A bit sentimental, but in my experience, ask and they will tell you if it is possible.

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RE: do dommes sometimes do sessions with subs just to t... - 8/26/2007 12:16:55 AM

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I learned a great deal being the "trainee" when I first went offline into the local "community", I had some wonderful Dommes to help me, both pro and non pro. and some wonderful submissives tooo. For me it was a great experience, and Im so happy they were willing to help me along my journey. It wasnt specifically "training" but their willingness to offer advice, tips and trick and ideas, as well as welcome me into their playrooms and get to practise on their submissives..... ..that made it so great. So thanks to the Ladies n Gents (Dom/me and subs and specially the Switches

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RE: do dommes sometimes do sessions with subs just to t... - 8/26/2007 1:43:35 AM

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I have done it from time to time. While I'm not into formal mentoring relationships, Dommes new to the lifestyle have befriended me and asked if we could do a scene together so that they could learn. In some cases, they already had a partner and wanted to do the scene with that partner. In other cases, they didn't, and we looked for a sub volunteer. Finding a volunteer was usually quite easy because many subs seem to fantasize about having a scene with two Dommes.

Sometimes couples have offered to pay me to help the Female partner learn, but I won't accept their money. And I will only do this with people I like and feel comfortable with.

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RE: do dommes sometimes do sessions with subs just to t... - 8/26/2007 7:26:58 AM

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I have done it one time during a pro session, but made sure the sub was comfortable with it, and no, they didn't pay any extra. The domme-in-training was a friend or I might have charged her, but it actually helped the session for the sub as it made the humiliation aspect so much more inventive and fun.

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RE: do dommes sometimes do sessions with subs just to t... - 8/26/2007 7:30:24 AM

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I've done this many times in the past. It's always fun to watch a new domme humping a sub
with a strapon for the first time.

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RE: do dommes sometimes do sessions with subs just to t... - 8/26/2007 2:40:18 PM

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I've had this done to me before. It really was a lot of fun and it was either for the training of a new domme or just the idea of two of them dominating me at the same time. Along the lines of what Diane said..........it certainly was different getting the strap-on from someone new than from someone experienced. Was much more uncontrolled and uncomfortable. It didn't really hurt a lot more, but it was just not smooth and that made the strap-on itself a little less enjoyable. But I did get a rush from letting a new domme use my ass to learn how to become a better domme - to be the "training" sub.

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RE: do dommes sometimes do sessions with subs just to t... - 8/26/2007 2:54:22 PM

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I enjoy having My Mistress in training friend over, from time to time. Most of subs enjoy it too, being out on display, and being practised on, under My instruction of course.

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do dommes sometimes do sessions with subs just to train... - 9/27/2007 1:13:04 PM

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Yes, this is very common. I had an alpha domme, Carla, who I was living with two years ago. She very frequently would have another beginning domme over to watch or practice on me under Carla's supervision.
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RE: do dommes sometimes do sessions with subs just to t... - 9/27/2007 6:25:27 PM

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On occasion, I'll get a friend to volunteer his or her parts to demo an activity for another friend. It's much easier to explain, say, rope bondage by using a human body than by tying up pillows and chairs. I've seen other people do this, too, in semi-private occasions. I don't know whether professional dominants do it in a more structured manner. I know some will do learning sessions for couples, but I think that's a little different.

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