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MisPandora -> RE: 3 Cheers! (8/27/2007 9:34:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross So you definitely aren't going to make the same mistake of being convinced to be owned again and having to erase journal entries and ignore the "free days" when you made lots of disparaging remarks about him? Sounds as though he should be the one throwing a party for getting rid of an insolent, disrespectful submissive, no?

breatheasone -> RE: 3 Cheers! (8/27/2007 9:47:02 AM)
quote: Gees Cyn, its 9:43 AM and Im thinking its martini time already! Ummm yep...its 5 o'clock somewhere....

MHOO314 -> RE: 3 Cheers! (8/27/2007 10:47:52 AM)
*So I guess its safe to say that they've "pulled the plug" on the relationship?* [sm=biggrin.gif]

BitaTruble -> RE: 3 Cheers! (8/27/2007 10:56:23 AM)
Hey sweet stuff, I know how hard the last year has been on you with all the changes which have taken place but I really believe this is what's best for you given all the circumstances of what's been going on. I know there are people here who won't understand being unable to walk away without those magical words "you're released" and it's about time that you heard them, I suppose, since you needed to in order to be able to come into your own. Saddness, excitement: I'd call those typical reactions for ending the sort of relationship you've had and I sincerely hope that you take to heart the release which has been granted to you and give yourself some time to get over this entire mess even if you don't think you need that right now. You are always going to be connected to him, that can't be helped, but, please, think very long and hard before deciding to recommit to any sort of collaring from him. Stand strong or be prepared to backslide into the relationship and have it be exactly as it always was because he's not going to change, sweetie, so you'll have to and that's going to have to come from within. You know where I am if you need me. xoxo Celeste

velvetears -> RE: 3 Cheers! (8/27/2007 11:11:01 AM)
Glad you are happy and excited with your new status. It's a shame you had to wait a year for someone you didn't respect or connect to anymore to type the words on a screen for you to act on them - a year wasted, but also a learning experience i suppose. Hope you find what fulfills you in the future.

FyreAngel -> RE: 3 Cheers! (8/27/2007 1:30:56 PM)
Hey Celeste. Yuppers i agree its whats for the best and its not just because of all the moronic stuff that goes on non stop or even all the times i have to explain to others how to be a mature adult. It is what is for the best because it ensures my safety. Blah - he's been randomly threatening here and there to start chastity piercings on me. Doing it himself. Which wouldnt be so horrible if i didnt know that the clit piercing he did was a moronic move on his part that put me at risk. He had no clues with what he was doing, helll he even did my nipple piercings wrong. blah. I dont think its that i needed the words this time. I used too, but i've pulled so far away.... its that HE needs to accept it. He believes that once a person makes that choice to be owned, there is NO other choice. Simple for others to say "oh thats baloney" but w/e. They've never been told how easy it is to be sold against their own will. Nor alot of things. I have to go. But to end it off. I appreciate everyones comments, alot of them make me chuckle. Nooooooooooo this isnt the end of the relationship...... its just the end of the moronicness he calls bdsm.

AquaticSub -> RE: 3 Cheers! (8/27/2007 1:35:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FyreAngel I have to go. But to end it off. I appreciate everyones comments, alot of them make me chuckle. Nooooooooooo this isnt the end of the relationship...... its just the end of the moronicness he calls bdsm. Staying with a man who threatens to pierce you further when he's already screwed up several piercings on you doesn't strike me as particularly intelligent. Of course, staying with a man that you speak of in such glowing terms makes me wonder exactly how much respect you have for him at all and why you still bother with him or him you.

Cyntilating -> RE: 3 Cheers! (8/27/2007 3:04:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MHOO314 quote: ORIGINAL: Cyntilating hmmm sheesh... scratching my head and going for another cup of coffee... *Gees Cyn, its 9:43 AM and Im thinking its martini time already!* oh! ::::Doing the "coulda hadda V8" knock on my noggin...:::: .... now why didn't I think of that!? grinz : )

Aine -> RE: 3 Cheers! (8/27/2007 4:50:55 PM)
snuffles around on the floor a bit, lifts her head and pads around, snuffling, comes up upon something and lifts her head quickly, wrinkling her nose and sticking out her tongue Something doesn't smell right. pads off, shaking her paws with each step, for fear she stepped in something

Padriag -> RE: 3 Cheers! (8/27/2007 5:00:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub Why didn't you just take it off yourself? Pssssst... stop reading my mind. I haven't cleaned today and its a mess in there! I'm so embarassed now. [;)]

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: 3 Cheers! (8/27/2007 5:01:32 PM)
all i can say is wow ...and congrats (i guess) on being released. i have to admit this has been one of the best (and strangest) reactions i have read from someone who was released ...and by texting too - way high tech! good luck in your new found freedom

AquaticSub -> RE: 3 Cheers! (8/27/2007 5:08:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Padriag quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub Why didn't you just take it off yourself? Pssssst... stop reading my mind. I haven't cleaned today and its a mess in there! I'm so embarassed now. [;)] Aww it's ok. When Valyraen was still in the dorms I pretty much lived in his suite. 8 college guys. It got pretty gross...

adaddysgirl -> RE: 3 Cheers! (8/27/2007 5:18:25 PM)
Very nice of you Celeste....as usual. [sm=applause.gif] You sound like a good friend. Daddysgirl

FyreAngel -> RE: 3 Cheers! (8/27/2007 6:09:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Padriag quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub Why didn't you just take it off yourself? Pssssst... stop reading my mind. I haven't cleaned today and its a mess in there! I'm so embarassed now. [;)] silly silly... lol... i dont own bolt cutters! And i'm not going to contemplate how much money they cost when i will just see him on Friday. quote: Staying with a man who threatens to pierce you further when he's already screwed up several piercings on you doesn't strike me as particularly intelligent. Of course, staying with a man that you speak of in such glowing terms makes me wonder exactly how much respect you have for him at all and why you still bother with him or him you. Cossssssss i wasnt very intelligent for a long long time. So unintelligent that it took producing my angelic lil monster to wake me up. Duh, double duh. Its all quite funny when i think about it. But really, I dunno why he bothers with me either. He must like stupid people LOL

AquaticSub -> RE: 3 Cheers! (8/27/2007 6:16:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FyreAngel silly silly... lol... i dont own bolt cutters! And i'm not going to contemplate how much money they cost when i will just see him on Friday. Are you serious? The only standing between you and what you considered freedom for a year was the price of frickin' bolt cutters? Don't you have parents or friends? I would gladly buy any friend of mine a bolt cutter to get a collar off them if they wanted out of a relationship they were miserable in. Fuck, bolt cutters are actually useful things to have around. quote: Cossssssss i wasnt very intelligent for a long long time. So unintelligent that it took producing my angelic lil monster to wake me up. Duh, double duh. Its all quite funny when i think about it. But really, I dunno why he bothers with me either. He must like stupid people LOL So... if you are intelligent now... why are you still with him in a vanilla relationship? How about going out there and landing an awesome guy you actually respect?

apiercedkitty -> RE: 3 Cheers! (8/27/2007 6:21:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: arayofsunshine55 Jesus. Sounds like this might not be for you. The next time you want out of a relationship, just end it. Just walk away. You really can do it. i agree... if you're not happy, why not take the collar off and hand it to him??? Perfectly legitimate action imo

xoxi -> RE: 3 Cheers! (8/27/2007 6:23:58 PM)
It sounds to me like the OP doesn't want to end the relationship, just the BDSM part. Which is why she is waiting for the guy to take off the collar. I have no clue what the back story is to all this, but I find it hard to cheer for someone who came on here just to let us know how "moronic" bdsm is. That being said, good luck in your relationship. It sounds like you are two people who fully understand and deserve each other.

Padriag -> RE: 3 Cheers! (8/27/2007 6:25:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FyreAngel silly silly... lol... i dont own bolt cutters! And i'm not going to contemplate how much money they cost when i will just see him on Friday. Well now that does put quite a different spin on it... and actually they don't cost that much ($20 for a basic pair at Lowes). And believe it or not you could probably have gone to a hospital emergency room and they could have cut it off for free. quote: He must like stupid people LOL Well there is a certain kind of "dom" that does... but look it at this way, you'll know better for next time. Best wishes.

AquaticSub -> RE: 3 Cheers! (8/27/2007 6:25:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: xoxi It sounds to me like the OP doesn't want to end the relationship, just the BDSM part. Which is why she is waiting for the guy to take off the collar. That part I get. What I don't get is why she would want to be with him considering how disrespectfully she talks about him and awfully she describes him. And I don't think his desires are going to magically go away once he takes that collar off her. He's still going to be same person and still enjoy the same things.

xoxi -> RE: 3 Cheers! (8/27/2007 6:26:45 PM)
Oh shit. Please don't tell me "producing my angelic little monster" means the two of you have a child together. Please please please please please tell me I misread that. I am fucking begging you.

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