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Butt-Sex - 8/27/2007 9:16:41 AM   
Sirandpet10


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Sir and I are both interested in having anal sex. However, the only thing I am worried about is that it will be messy/dirty...for those who have tried it, how messy is it? I do not want Sir to be turned off by it, I want it to be a pleasurable experience for both of us.

I am just looking for anything here from anyone: advice, tips, tricks, stories, anything. What I'm not looking for is a list of links. Thanks, but I'd prefer hearing someone's response to my question, not others.

Thank you so much in advance!

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RE: Butt-Sex - 8/27/2007 9:29:20 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Sirandpet10
I am just looking for anything here from anyone: advice, tips, tricks, stories, anything. What I'm not looking for is a list of links. Thanks, but I'd prefer hearing someone's response to my question, not others.

Because no one could have possibly asked that exact question before?

In my experience, it's really not that messy.  If you are worried, then do an enema and that will take of it.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_236508/mpage_1/key_anal/tm.htm#236511
Can you use a cloth of some sort or a baby wipe or "wet ones" and place it either on a finger or some sort of other round blunt object and slide it into a persons rear to sort of clean them a bit before play or at any other point in time, or is this not safe to do?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_49208/mpage_1/key_anal%252Csex/tm.htm#49208
I've love anal sex and anal play, but it bothers me when its messy. (I hope you all know what I mean by that.....LOL) Is this a normal occurance and if yes, is there a way to avoid it.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_791769/mpage_1/key_anal%252Cmessy/tm.htm#791769
She loves anal, but get totally freaked out about pretty much any bodily process possible.  My previous attempts to get her more comfortable with anal have lasted on average about 5 minutes, and she gets extremely worried about getting messy.  Granted, this was before her submission, however, there must be a better way.  Any ideas?  Thanks.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_479868/mpage_1/key_enema/tm.htm#479868
my One is interested in anal playing.. sex... etc.... but i'm still on old school.. where i believe its dirty.. i don't mind Him touching etc... i just can't get past the fact of .. well what comes out of there... is there any way.. to clean it.. etc... does an enema.. do the trick really? i appreciate any information at all... thank you.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_240762/mpage_1/key_anal%252Cmess/tm.htm#240762
As most people can imagine I much prefer anal sex after having had an enema so no chance of that... mess.... well there are times when I can't have that done anytime right before the chance of having sex... so my question is... how long after one has an enema is it no longer going to enhance the pleasures of anal sex

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RE: Butt-Sex - 8/27/2007 9:33:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		 Go for it.If practiced regular sooner or later there will be a mess.My sub does nothing to prepare.She knows when her bowls are full though and will inform me.You can use a water enema to cleanse the way.She does not enjoy anal,with us it's my declaration of dominance.But the sly smile from time to time makes me think it enhances her orgasm,and secretly she craves it.Have fun and take it slow.

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RE: Butt-Sex - 8/27/2007 9:34:57 AM   
Slade1


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Status: offline 		You only need to clean thoroughly the area with soap and water.Some go to the lemgth having an enema too but I find it unecessary,lots of water and soap and some lubricant is all you need

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RE: Butt-Sex - 8/27/2007 9:43:57 AM   
BlackRogue


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Status: offline 		Butt-sex in a jacuzi is the place.

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RE: Butt-Sex - 8/27/2007 9:55:20 AM   
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Status: offline 		It's not that messy but I wouldn't call it mess free. Get a playmat (we use a yard or so of vinyl that we got at Jo-Annes from the scrap bin), put a towl down and have him use a condom. I suggest that you plan on showering afterwards. Even if it wasn't messy, I like to wash all the lube away.

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RE: Butt-Sex - 8/27/2007 10:07:18 AM   
SubJordanTyler


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Status: offline 		There is no sure-fire way to prevent messes from happening at all, but the best way to try and prevent it is to clean out before with an enema.  That is what I do before doing anal play.  I've taken some pretty rough anal play with strap-ons and different size toys and really never had a problem as long as I do an enema before.  That's not to say there still haven't been some "issues" - but they have been relatively minor.

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RE: Butt-Sex - 8/27/2007 10:20:11 AM   
Sirandpet10


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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Because no one could have possibly asked that exact question before?



No, because it's more personal and helpful if I get answers to my own questions.

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RE: Butt-Sex - 8/27/2007 10:38:03 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		ememas work  but (no pun intended) what is a little mess that is what soap and water is for.  That is what my Master says wehn things got a  little messy one or two times.  If it does get messy just think of how much fun showering together to clean up afterward could be. 

Matt's litleone

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RE: Butt-Sex - 8/27/2007 10:45:23 AM   
breatheasone


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Go for it.If practiced regular sooner or later there will be a mess.My sub does nothing to prepare.She knows when her bowls are full though and will inform me.You can use a water enema to cleanse the way.She does not enjoy anal,with us it's my declaration of dominance.But the sly smile from time to time makes me think it enhances her orgasm,and secretly she craves it.Have fun and take it slow.

Never, never, never use plain water....ALWAYS put a 1/4 to 1/2 a tsp of salt in the water...this prevents the colon from absorbing too much water.


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RE: Butt-Sex - 8/27/2007 11:01:53 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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ORIGINAL: Sirandpet10
No, because it's more personal and helpful if I get answers to my own questions.

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Personal sure.  But other people have asked exactly the same question that you did.  So people's answers to those would be just as applicable to yours as well.

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RE: Butt-Sex - 8/27/2007 11:20:35 AM   
Sirandpet10


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Status: offline 		Yes, but as I've stated, I'm looking for a personal connection, not just an answer.

BTW, Thanks to all those who have provided me with answers to my question, I really appreciate it!!

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RE: Butt-Sex - 8/27/2007 11:28:18 AM   
beargonewild


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Status: offline 		From my experience, if I wash thoroughly with soap and water before anal play/sex it usually doesn't get messy. When we get into heavy anal play and/or anal sex, then I will use an enema before to be quite cleaned out. Sofar this has worked as both of us are fussy about me being as clean as possible down there.

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RE: Butt-Sex - 8/27/2007 11:33:50 AM   
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RE: Butt-Sex - 8/27/2007 12:13:18 PM   
Tajj


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Status: offline 		I never prepared myself before, since it was always spur-of-the-moment with myself and my former partner. I always wash thoroughly in the shower, and that seems to be enough. Sometimes where you begin, the insertion makes you feel the need to use the toilet. just do so, clean yourself, and try again. If your master doesn't want a big cleanup, you can use a condom. You'll still need to wash the lube, though.

Use plenty of lube! When I first tried it, I used so much lube that that I was just putting lub on the lube. It proably didn't help more after a certain amount, but it mad eme feel better.

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RE: Butt-Sex - 8/27/2007 12:39:06 PM   
Wildfleurs


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Sirandpet10

Good morning to all Mistresses, Masters, subs, and slaves!!

Sir and I are both interested in having anal sex. However, the only thing I am worried about is that it will be messy/dirty...for those who have tried it, how messy is it? I do not want Sir to be turned off by it, I want it to be a pleasurable experience for both of us.

I am just looking for anything here from anyone: advice, tips, tricks, stories, anything. What I'm not looking for is a list of links. Thanks, but I'd prefer hearing someone's response to my question, not others.

Thank you so much in advance!

Twink-




Unless you do several enemas and don't eat heavy foods beforehand (or really don't eat anything for several hours beforehand) there will probably inevitably be some mud on his helmet.  My experience has been that just washing up beforehand there's not really that much of a mess at all.

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RE: Butt-Sex - 8/27/2007 12:47:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		Your first time having anal sex?  OK, so I didn't use an enema the first time..... for that matter the first sevreal times.  My Sir on occasion had to clean me up but nothing that would be considered "a mess"  I try to give myself an enema when I know we're gonna have lots of time together cause He lovesssssssss my ass! mmmm

He took my virgin ass 8 months ago.  I never in a million years thought I would enjoy it so much.  No, I take that back, I LOVE it!  Just amazing that one can have such an intense orgasm through anal sex.  Lots of nerve endings that can rock your world.  hee hee

One last thing.... when He fucked my ass the very first time He had me lay on my back with my legs spread and overlapping His, and then scoot real close towards His cock.  The idea here was that I would be relaxed!  I'm sure this is nothing new to many, but for someone that had never experienced anal sex, I thought it was the perfect position for my first time.
OH!!!  lube lube and more lube.  AND take it slow.  You may have to stop for a moment if your muscle tenses up, but no worries, in the end (pun intended) it's alllllll good!

wishing you well and remember to relax.

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RE: Butt-Sex - 8/28/2007 4:55:15 AM   
malloves69


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Status: offline 		love anal sex with my mistress   and i always take at least 2 enemas before to make sure im nice and clean for her ..i figure thats the least i can do and she really appreciates it   first she fucks me with her strapons and then when she thinks im ready out goes the strapons and in goes her fist   amazing feeling it is i think when she fists me ..it takes strapon sex to the next level   saw her yesterday and im still smiling   gotta let you know boy can it be addicting   lots of lube ...go slow ...and communicate to each other if something doesnt feel right ..will gladly bendover for a lady and her strapon ..i love it so   have fun and enjoy   mal

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RE: Butt-Sex - 8/28/2007 6:20:58 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Searcher38

I suppose now would be a bad time to tell someone they're full of crap.


NICE!!!! REAL NICE!!!!   LOL

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RE: Butt-Sex - 8/28/2007 11:53:09 AM   
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Status: offline 		accept there is going to be some mess, and communicate to him how nervous your are about it.. so that he in all his Domliness makes sure not to say anything that pushes those self conscious buttons and shuts down the fun for you.
As many before have said .. take it slowly an communicate
my first time i held his hand .. he could feel from how i squeezed back if it was enjoyable or not for me, and we talk talk talked the whole time

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