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WinsomeDefiance -> RE: Has anyone found "the one" (8/28/2007 4:14:51 PM)
Yes, I found 'the one" but unfortunately he died in the trilogy. Those sending condolences to me in my widowed state, please send in lieu of flowers and plants, a donation to your favored charity.

e01n -> RE: Has anyone found "the one" (8/28/2007 4:57:03 PM)
Oh, I've met "The One"... then she hooked up with my ex-high school girlfriend. Then I met the other "The One"... she was all lies and deceit in the end. And then after that, there was "The One"... only she was still living with her husband... This myth of "The One" is toxic and has to die... I refuse to have it in my system any longer. Is there someone I believe can fit with me? Yes. I'd like to meet her one of these days. Chances are, she'll say I'm not her One and move on to the same painful truth that I have after a number of years of suffering and misery. I could be wrong - I frequently am... but I doubt it in this case.

michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: Has anyone found "the one" (8/28/2007 4:59:30 PM)
"The One" is a myth that only happens in fairy tails

rmanrr -> RE: Has anyone found "the one" (8/28/2007 6:23:39 PM)
Greetings interesting that you failed to mention this other Man during your last two months...took a whole 5 days after release too in order for a collar to be placed...finally is it real time considering you are in California and He is in New Zealand? A whole new meaning to LDR heh heh. Further....have you returned the collars from your previous situation?

rmanrr -> RE: Has anyone found "the one" (8/28/2007 6:29:29 PM)
Greetings My Lady Remind Me to never get you upset...heh heh...pulled out the long tom arty did you? and followed it up with an airstrike!....then a bit of napalm just to make things nice and toasty!...I love it all...nothing you said was untrue as you were right there with Me listening to My explanations and concerns....I love you and what you said goes absolutely ditto for Me. (ps...15 days) heh heh

mmb1 -> RE: Has anyone found "the one" (8/28/2007 6:30:34 PM)
Finding the "one" here is as good a chance as finding the "one" in a supermarket! If you do, that is great, if you don't well keep dreaming!

michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: Has anyone found "the one" (8/28/2007 6:33:12 PM)
I think it's more like finding a a needle in a hundred haystacks...but that's just me

mmb1 -> RE: Has anyone found "the one" (8/28/2007 6:37:21 PM)
I agree and no still not having fun yet, but you are correct....a needle in a haystack or 1000 agreed! And none are pardon the expression, pricking me in the ass.

akisha -> RE: Has anyone found "the one" (8/28/2007 9:00:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia I think it's more like finding a a needle in a hundred haystacks...but that's just me LMAO!! It's not that bad for goodness sake lol I've met some absolutely wonderful people from on this site. Granted not all ended up being an intimate long term relationship but I've made some really good (yes real life) friends. Denika and her adorable husband for starters. I even met a most wonderul man that i got to claim as mine if only for a while S but nothing in life is guarranteed so be it. Take what comes your way. enjoy every minute of it and take away the positives when it's over and move on. It blows me away how many people seem to dwell so heavily on the negative side of things, holy crap!!! Has anyone ever thought that maybe they haven't met anyone for a long term relationship because they are going in with a really bad attitude?? That maybe be being so massively negative you are sending out HUGE vibes of it and turning potentially wonderful partners off really fast. I know personally that negative people really turn me off and I refuse to keep them around me because I will not allow thier negativity to affect my life. I can't stand pessimists and people that bitch and complain all the time about anything. If something isn't working for you.. Then change it. You don't like your job? get a new one! Hate where you live? Then move!! In an unhappy relationship? Then either figure out how to fix it or LEAVE!! First thing to learn is to be happy being single. Be happy spending time with yourself! Be happy with yourself as a person. And for christ sake realize that just because you want a partner tomorrow doesn't mean you'll get one. It might take months or years to find someone. Thing is, partners are like shoes, you have to keep trying different ones on to see which fit the best and don't cramp your toes at the end of the day. Do that and guess what... finding a partner that fits into your life is soo much easier. No one can make you happy. No one can be everything to you. It's not humanly possible!!!! Figure out what it is you need in a partner, and everything else is workable. Anything is possible if you want it bad enough. So the excuses that ohh I can't move, I can't find a better job, I can't find someone to love me and adore me and worship me. Get over yourself. You can do pretty much anything if you put your mind to it. It just takes time, desire, determination and perseverance.

e01n -> RE: Has anyone found "the one" (8/29/2007 8:37:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: akisha quote: ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia: I think it's more like finding a a needle in a hundred haystacks...but that's just me It's not that bad for goodness sake lol No, it isn't that bad - unless there's something else that's going on that needs to be addressed. For me, I believe I've found Someone very special that I can possibly grow old alongside. Maybe. Only time will tell. But would I consider her "The One"? Far from it... because that would require that She equally feel that I'm Her "The One" as well. That might be the case. Far more likely that I'm "The Right Now." The myth of such a flavor of monogamy is toxic. NB: not monogamy itself, just the built-up mythology surrounding it as expressed in "The One." Better to see through it and find that each and every "mistake" is a learning experience to be avoided next time out the door. Me, I know better than to move to a different state based solely on a few email and phone conversations - there's going to need to be some serious in-person time of a shorter duration before I pack up the U-Haul... again. I'm also analyzing the heck out of everything that gets said, looking for the bits that don't add up... again. Same with those girls that say charming things like "My girlfriend thinks you're cute. Want her over for a fuck?" That's generally my cue these days to go make popcorn and pull up a chair and watch... again. YMMV. But my point is this: do I regret any of my "education"? Nope. Not for a second. Does it make me bitter and soured on the idea of relationships? Nope. Not for a second. I am definitely much more selective these days in my choices of partners... And none of this is to say that the reverse isn't true either. I'm me - I often suffer from foot-in-mouth disease and can be a massive asshole on many occasions. I often do my best to persuade people *not* to consider me as a partner. The chances that I'm their "One" and they're my "One" simultaneously and on a lasting basis are between slim and none. I refuse to cause that flavor of suffering in someone. It's tawdry and cheap and utterly common. Why not get it for free by watching the evening news? [;)]

slaveish -> RE: Has anyone found "the one" (8/29/2007 8:42:30 AM)
I haven't found the one anywhere ... but ... I'm not looking very hard.

kellytx -> RE: Has anyone found "the one" (8/29/2007 8:58:05 AM)
I'm not sure if I believe in 'the one' or not. I never really spent much time pondering it. I created my profile here a while ago to make friends in the local community. I met a few people and there just wasn't anything there besides friendship. Then I found a profile that caught my eye for some unknown reason. I waffled and wasted time trying to decide whether to send him a message when he sent me one about some interests that we share. After chatting for a while, we agreed to meet for lunch. After lunch ended, we decided we weren't finished talking so we drove to the scenic spots in the city and spent six hours talking and getting to know each other. At the time, we both swore we were not looking for a relationship and were just looking to meet friends. Well, since then we have changed our minds. I still don't know if he is 'the one' but I do know when I look at him I realize that I want to be with him for the rest of my life. So, it is possible and when it happens, it is glorious.

onmykneesforhim -> RE: Has anyone found "the one" (8/29/2007 3:31:28 PM)
I thought that "The One" was only in the Matrix??? quote: ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia "The One" is a myth that only happens in fairy tails But seriously, iammachine has said it ALL!! I don't believe in "the one".... but I've made some great friends!

DiurnalVampire -> RE: Has anyone found "the one" (8/29/2007 3:34:31 PM)
I found Angel here... so yes Ive met many others here and elsewhere also. DV

iammachine -> RE: Has anyone found "the one" (8/29/2007 4:00:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia "The One" is a myth that only happens in fairy tails Or the Highlander... there can be only one! :)

gypsygrl -> RE: Has anyone found "the one" (8/29/2007 6:13:09 PM)
quote: Everywhere one seeks to produce meaning, to make the world signify, to render it visible. We are not, however, in danger of lacking meaning; quite the contrary, we are gorged with meaning and it is killing u I don't know about 'the one' but I was struck by the tag line. It sounds like something baudrillard might have written but I'm only guessing. Sorry for the hijack.

slaveluci -> RE: Has anyone found "the one" (8/29/2007 7:12:00 PM)
Contrary to the opinions of all those out there who haven't found their "One," I indeed have found mine and we made initial contact here on CM. Been together nearly 16 months now, I moved 4 states away to live with Him, and we'll be married soon. Neither of us have ever been happier. Don't buy the negativity - it CAN happen and, for us, it HAS happened[:)]. Best of luck................luci

MstrSkyWoIf -> RE: Has anyone found "the one" (8/29/2007 11:21:21 PM)
Yes it is possible to find someone here as long as you are willing to put up with the BS until you find the one you seek.... But when you do life can not be better. I could not have asked for a better match... We are very private about our relationship because of the bull that can happen here sometimes but it is no less special.. After all this on line life is not where real life is lived.

MstrSkyWoIf -> RE: Has anyone found "the one" (8/29/2007 11:23:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slaveluci Contrary to the opinions of all those out there who haven't found their "One," I indeed have found mine and we made initial contact here on CM. Been together nearly 16 months now, I moved 4 states away to live with Him, and we'll be married soon. Neither of us have ever been happier. Don't buy the negativity - it CAN happen and, for us, it HAS happened[:)]. Best of luck................luci It is wonderful isn't it so many here paint a grim picture of what is possible but then when it happens it is like WOW where have you been all my life....

LDRandAstarte -> RE: Has anyone found "the one" (8/29/2007 11:28:05 PM)
Nope did not find her here. found her in Yeehaw personals!

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