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feastie -> RE: Should I or shouldn't I? (8/28/2007 5:48:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Estring Cover yourself in frosting, and put a candle on top of your head. That should do it.[;)] Candles are much more fun when taped to one's nipples.

girlygurl -> RE: Should I or shouldn't I? (8/28/2007 11:53:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael What sort of relationship are you in if you tremble in fear over mentioning a forgotten birthday? Who said anything about "tremble in fear" not I. and btw... I did tell Him and all is well in the life of this sub. He's put it in his calender so He won't forget next year. and one last note to those of you who sent birthday wishes.... [:)] (((((big hugs)))))) thank you!!!!

Archer -> RE: Should I or shouldn't I? (8/29/2007 5:41:06 AM)
See that calander thing was something I was going to mention, Tell him that for your birthday you want to be allowed the service of keeping his calander up to date. (That's what Elegant does for me as part of her service) Then you can not only put in your birthday but his families, important co-worker birthdays, anniversaries, things men generally don't keep track of very well. It can really help a man's career and home life to have a well organized calander.

sweetnurseBBW -> RE: Should I or shouldn't I? (8/29/2007 6:48:55 AM)
Oh I remind birthdays, anniversaries etc. There isn't anything wrong with reminding as long as it is done nicely and politely. Masters are human and especially if they are men they can't remember anniversaries and birthdays. They can however remember who won the race in 1989. [;)]

Phoenix2raven -> RE: Should I or shouldn't I? (8/29/2007 7:36:37 AM)
I don't have that problem because my submissives birthday is the day after mine and if I forgot I'd feel like a selfish ass 0. I'd question why he's forgetting but thats not what you are asking. Hypothetically I'd want her to ask in a way that wouldn't be topping from the bottom. Maybe something like this. " May I have x amount of spankings on my birthday sir". That way her petition would alert me. That may or may not work for you as everyones dynamic is different. Anyway I still would question a dominant who doesn't remember important dates like birthdays anniversaries etc.

breatheasone -> RE: Should I or shouldn't I? (8/29/2007 11:55:52 AM)
Would plainly saying..."My birthday is coming up in a week." be topping from the bottom some how?

MrDiscipline44 -> RE: Should I or shouldn't I? (8/29/2007 12:42:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: girlygurl This really isn't a big deal... I'm more curious than anything... What would you want your sub to do???? [&:] Thank you. Write her birthday on a sticky note and place it where I can see/find it. This way she is not being pushy and I will not forget.

MrDiscipline44 -> RE: Should I or shouldn't I? (8/29/2007 12:43:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: breatheasone Would plainly saying..."My birthday is coming up in a week." be topping from the bottom some how? For me it depends on how one is saying it and how often she says it. I detest nagging and won't tolerate it.

freyjasdottir -> RE: Should I or shouldn't I? (8/29/2007 1:21:59 PM)
I could care less about mine, don't even like it mentioned and set up a few web sites that I am a member of to not show it.

slaverosebeauty -> RE: Should I or shouldn't I? (8/29/2007 8:44:11 PM)
I made it throught this year without most people knowing. MJ wished me a early happy birthday when He was up here and on my birthday. Its not a big deal, as long as I get my b-day hug from my munchkin and I am alive and healthy, that's all that matters to me at this point. As for reminding your master, a calander with your b-day marked is ALWAYS a great idea, same thing with putting anniversary's and other important things on it. Or you can always drop the, 'so and so was asking what we planned to do for my b-day on the [insert b-day here].'

FangsNfeet -> RE: Should I or shouldn't I? (8/29/2007 8:55:45 PM)
Remind him this way. "Honey, do you mind telling me what we're doing for my Birthday or is it a suprise? What will you be spanking me with this year?" Asking the question "What will we be doing?" is a more tactfull way of reminding him of the date.

rmanrr -> RE: Should I or shouldn't I? (8/29/2007 9:15:53 PM)
Greetings to no one in particular...is that like does she or doesn't she (only her hairdresser knows for sure) (with thanks to My Lady for that line).

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