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TallDarkAndWitty -> RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? (7/13/2005 8:35:44 AM)

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ORIGINAL: dommemagnet


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ORIGINAL: TallDarkAndWitty
I mean, I like to orgasm, but waiting hours for one orgasm just doesn't appeal to me.


That's the tease and denial that subs lust after. Talk about building sexual tension, anticipation, frustration, all wonderful things from a bottom's perspective. i realize it doesn't get er done for you, so a simple explanation.



Of course...which is why I said that sub men would love that kind of activity. Teasing and denial are great for those who like to sub. As a top, I want to be the one doing the teasing and denying, not the one getting teased and denied.

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i don't see why you have to give up any control here at all. Wouldn't you be in control of the action and dictating the pace?


Not the way pleasureforHim described it. She was doing all the teasing and denying control the pace and when he would get to orgasm. That doesn't work for me on any level.

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Geez Tag, i appreciate your postion and all but a "boring" blowjob? Isn't that an oxymoron?



Unfortunately, no. I have gone soft on women who, like some in this thread, prided themselves on their oral abilities. If I am not in control, I quickly lose interest. Letting someone tease and deny me anything grows quickly boring to me.

Taggard



TallDarkAndWitty -> RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? (7/13/2005 8:38:08 AM)

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ORIGINAL: dommemagnet
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You see, this has absolutely zero attraction for me. There is no way I would want to be (relatively) inactive for hours like this.


Why remain inactive during this period. Couldn't you torture her from a 69 position? i've always gotten plenty of physical feedback while 69'ing. Never tried the torture aspect since i'm sub but why wouldn't that work for you?


Aha...now we are talking 69...completely different topic, in my mind. A blow job is not a 69.

The T is down with the 69...*wink*

Taggard



kc692 -> RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? (7/13/2005 8:44:09 AM)

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ORIGINAL: TallDarkAndWitty

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ORIGINAL: pleasureforHim
i (used to be able to) do it for hours; keeping a man on the verge of orgasm until i knew it had become almost painful for him, then having him cum.


You see, this has absolutely zero attraction for me. There is no way I would want to be (relatively) inactive for hours like this.

I mean, I like to orgasm, but waiting hours for one orgasm just doesn't appeal to me.

I am sure the sub men would love this, giving up that kind of control to their partner, but it never works for me.

Before I found the lifestyle, I had lots of blowjobs. I have had the whole tease and tempt and slow and long. I have had women who have loved to do it and did it well. It still wasn't anywhere near as good as looking into their eyes and kissing their lips while I slowly slid in and out of them.

One of the best things about being a Dom is that I no longer have to sit through boring blow jobs...

Taggard



Bingo!!!! We have a winner!!!!!!! I have tried to be quiet on this thread, but, an opinion from someone that cannot be accused of never having it done right to her, as I lack the NATURAL equipment (and have no interest in watching someone work on a strap on). pleasurefor him talks about making the man WANT, almost to the point of begging to cum, until SHE decides to let him cum. Can anyone say 1) topping from the bottom? 2) being in charge, and the dom being in the submissive position by letting her decide? 3) all kinds of similar explanations?

It is this PFH, IMO, you are trying to ascertain and wonder why this does not appeal to certain doms.....it is that they don't, for whatever reason, find it appealing. no offense, but if you had a dom next to you, and kept trying to talk him into something that he wasn't really interested in, he would not be pleased. To some extent, you (if with a dom) are not supposed to be worrying about your "cookies" to the extreme that you are
(says while raising the shield to protect me from the flames) I realize this is not your opinion and I am not trying to change yours, but, had to insert mine at this time......



edited to add: by the way, curiosity is killing me, do you cockcartons have an expiration date printed on your ass????



dommemagnet -> RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? (7/13/2005 8:54:29 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: kc692

quote:

ORIGINAL: TallDarkAndWitty

quote:

ORIGINAL: pleasureforHim
i (used to be able to) do it for hours; keeping a man on the verge of orgasm until i knew it had become almost painful for him, then having him cum.


You see, this has absolutely zero attraction for me. There is no way I would want to be (relatively) inactive for hours like this.

I mean, I like to orgasm, but waiting hours for one orgasm just doesn't appeal to me.

I am sure the sub men would love this, giving up that kind of control to their partner, but it never works for me.

Before I found the lifestyle, I had lots of blowjobs. I have had the whole tease and tempt and slow and long. I have had women who have loved to do it and did it well. It still wasn't anywhere near as good as looking into their eyes and kissing their lips while I slowly slid in and out of them.

One of the best things about being a Dom is that I no longer have to sit through boring blow jobs...

Taggard



Bingo!!!! We have a winner!!!!!!! I have tried to be quiet on this thread, but, an opinion from someone that cannot be accused of never having it done right to her, as I lack the NATURAL equipment (and have no interest in watching someone work on a strap on). pleasurefor him talks about making the man WANT, almost to the point of begging to cum, until SHE decides to let him cum. Can anyone say 1) topping from the bottom? 2) being in charge, and the dom being in the submissive position by letting her decide? 3) all kinds of similar explanations?

It is this PFH, IMO, you are trying to ascertain and wonder why this does not appeal to certain doms.....it is that they don't, for whatever reason, find it appealing. no offense, but if you had a dom next to you, and kept trying to talk him into something that he wasn't really interested in, he would not be pleased. To some extent, you (if with a dom) are not supposed to be worrying about your "cookies" to the extreme that you are
(says while raising the shield to protect me from the flames) I realize this is not your opinion and I am not trying to change yours, but, had to insert mine at this time......



edited to add: by the way, curiosity is killing me, do you cockcartons have an expiration date printed on your ass????

She might actually be a top or talking about a vanilla experience.

And no, there is not expiration date on a cockcarton. We're pretty much in it for life. LOL



kc692 -> RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? (7/13/2005 9:00:54 AM)


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ORIGINAL: dommemagnet


quote:

ORIGINAL: kc692

quote:

ORIGINAL: TallDarkAndWitty

quote:

ORIGINAL: pleasureforHim
i (used to be able to) do it for hours; keeping a man on the verge of orgasm until i knew it had become almost painful for him, then having him cum.


You see, this has absolutely zero attraction for me. There is no way I would want to be (relatively) inactive for hours like this.

I mean, I like to orgasm, but waiting hours for one orgasm just doesn't appeal to me.

I am sure the sub men would love this, giving up that kind of control to their partner, but it never works for me.

Before I found the lifestyle, I had lots of blowjobs. I have had the whole tease and tempt and slow and long. I have had women who have loved to do it and did it well. It still wasn't anywhere near as good as looking into their eyes and kissing their lips while I slowly slid in and out of them.

One of the best things about being a Dom is that I no longer have to sit through boring blow jobs...

Taggard



Bingo!!!! We have a winner!!!!!!! I have tried to be quiet on this thread, but, an opinion from someone that cannot be accused of never having it done right to her, as I lack the NATURAL equipment (and have no interest in watching someone work on a strap on). pleasurefor him talks about making the man WANT, almost to the point of begging to cum, until SHE decides to let him cum. Can anyone say 1) topping from the bottom? 2) being in charge, and the dom being in the submissive position by letting her decide? 3) all kinds of similar explanations?

It is this PFH, IMO, you are trying to ascertain and wonder why this does not appeal to certain doms.....it is that they don't, for whatever reason, find it appealing. no offense, but if you had a dom next to you, and kept trying to talk him into something that he wasn't really interested in, he would not be pleased. To some extent, you (if with a dom) are not supposed to be worrying about your "cookies" to the extreme that you are
(says while raising the shield to protect me from the flames) I realize this is not your opinion and I am not trying to change yours, but, had to insert mine at this time......



edited to add: by the way, curiosity is killing me, do you cockcartons have an expiration date printed on your ass????

She might actually be a top or talking about a vanilla experience.

And no, there is not expiration date on a cockcarton. We're pretty much in it for life. LOL


I concur, but top and vanilla have nothing to do with you gentlemen, correct???

damn, I wanted to look and see if there was an expiration date, smiles....congrats on your second icon,,,I told you it would happen!!!!!



dommemagnet -> RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? (7/13/2005 9:07:49 AM)

He's a top, i'm not so we're on both sides of the equation.

You can still look for the expiration date regardless. It simply says "DUAD" (do not use after death) LOL

Thanks, if i keep getting new icons, i'll probably lose any sense of reality.



TallDarkAndWitty -> RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? (7/13/2005 12:05:48 PM)

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ORIGINAL: dommemagnet
And no, there is not expiration date on a cockcarton. We're pretty much in it for life. LOL


Hey, wait up a second...who granted you cockcarton status??? So far, it was only LaM and I who could proudly claim the title of cockcarton...

So no just anyone can be a cockcarton???

And, I don't think there is anything on my ass...

BTW, I googled cockcarton and found nothing. I really don't know what it means... Though I will proudly wear my cockcarton title until the DNUAD tatoo applies to me

Taggard



TallDarkAndWitty -> RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? (7/13/2005 12:07:36 PM)

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ORIGINAL: kc692

pleasurefor him talks about making the man WANT, almost to the point of begging to cum, until SHE decides to let him cum.


That is exactly right. Not interested in that kind of action...thanks.

Thank you for getting it. *smile*

Taggard



fastlane -> RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? (7/13/2005 1:08:31 PM)

We are talking about Watergate here, right?
I can't believe Deepthroat finally revealed himself, damn, that took balls after all these years.
Geeze and I thought Harry Reems had big nads.
Since we are talking politics here, has anyone ever done anything nasty with a Cigar before?



dommemagnet -> RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? (7/13/2005 2:21:16 PM)


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ORIGINAL: TallDarkAndWitty

quote:

ORIGINAL: dommemagnet
And no, there is not expiration date on a cockcarton. We're pretty much in it for life. LOL


Hey, wait up a second...who granted you cockcarton status??? So far, it was only LaM and I who could proudly claim the title of cockcarton...

So no just anyone can be a cockcarton???

And, I don't think there is anything on my ass...

BTW, I googled cockcarton and found nothing. I really don't know what it means... Though I will proudly wear my cockcarton title until the DNUAD tatoo applies to me

Taggard

Au contrare mon frere. All men are cockcartons to one degree or another. You may be the prize winner at the county fair but doesn't mean there are just prizes for first and second place. lmao

Oh yeah, there's definitely something on your ass, might be in invisible ink but it's there.

BTW, i took cockcarton to mean something similar to sperm recepticle. You know life support system for a penis. Your a pip dude. i like ya.



Lordandmaster -> RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? (7/13/2005 10:02:48 PM)

Now seems as good a time as any to announce that I had a blowjob yesterday that culminated in a nice orgasm.

Too bad for those who think I don't like BJ's.



kc692 -> RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? (7/14/2005 3:21:47 AM)


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ORIGINAL: TallDarkAndWitty

quote:

ORIGINAL: kc692

pleasurefor him talks about making the man WANT, almost to the point of begging to cum, until SHE decides to let him cum.


That is exactly right. Not interested in that kind of action...thanks.

Thank you for getting it. *smile*

Taggard


Why wouldn't I, smiles? We may be different gender, but have the same outlook smiles,,,,now, I personally LOVE making a man beg, but, I don't think I would expect it from you. LAM, and the others....



pleasureforHim -> RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? (7/14/2005 4:00:56 AM)

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Bingo!!!! We have a winner!!!!!!! I have tried to be quiet on this thread, but, an opinion from someone that cannot be accused of never having it done right to her, as I lack the NATURAL equipment (and have no interest in watching someone work on a strap on). pleasurefor him talks about making the man WANT, almost to the point of begging to cum, until SHE decides to let him cum. Can anyone say 1) topping from the bottom? 2) being in charge, and the dom being in the submissive position by letting her decide? 3) all kinds of similar explanations?

It is this PFH, IMO, you are trying to ascertain and wonder why this does not appeal to certain doms.....it is that they don't, for whatever reason, find it appealing. no offense, but if you had a dom next to you, and kept trying to talk him into something that he wasn't really interested in, he would not be pleased. To some extent, you (if with a dom) are not supposed to be worrying about your "cookies" to the extreme that you are
(says while raising the shield to protect me from the flames) I realize this is not your opinion and I am not trying to change yours, but, had to insert mine at this time......


i guess no one reads my posts consistently. The hours-long blow jobs are from my vanilla sex life (obviously; since i have yet to have a D/s sex life). When i read slavedesires' description of throat f**king i nearly fell out of my chair. He has His hands wrapped in my hair? He thrusts with His hips? He is in control? woooooooohooooooooo!

i mentioned being able to continue a bj for hours because it takes stamina and sensitivity -- much more than most women have. But i hope my Dom will put those qualities to better use, laughs.

BTW..for a description of one throat f**king fantasy of mine, read the latest installment of "The Conference Room" under Creative Writings. A/anyone who wishes may write the next installment. It's like an erotic chain letter, ROFL.

pleasureforHim

p.s. Congrats to Lam on His blow job; will there be further updates?



pleasureforHim -> RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? (7/14/2005 5:33:47 AM)

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Hey, wait up a second...who granted you cockcarton status??? So far, it was only LaM and I who could proudly claim the title of cockcarton...

So no just anyone can be a cockcarton???

And, I don't think there is anything on my ass...

BTW, I googled cockcarton and found nothing. I really don't know what it means... Though I will proudly wear my cockcarton title until the DNUAD tatoo applies to me

Taggard


My Lord; communication lines are down over CURSES. On a BDSM message board. i cannot explain why You cannot google "cockcarton", Taggart, but what it means is that a cock is moved from place to place; and there's nothing else inside. Obviously, i had my tongue in my cheek when i used it on You and Lam, as i know You both have great insides as well as outsides. So i guess You'd be cockcartons-full, LOL.

BTW, i agree with DommeMagnet; expiration date is DUAD or "Do Not Use After Death". ROFLMAO.

To put it succintely, a Dom has a cockcarton, but a mere cockcarton can never be a Dom.

pleasureforHim



pleasureforHim -> RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? (7/14/2005 5:46:38 AM)

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ORIGINAL: kc692

pleasurefor him talks about making the man WANT, almost to the point of begging to cum, until SHE decides to let him cum.


NOOOOOOOOOOO..you misunderstood me. The idea (for anyone interested in trying this) is to bring a Man as close to orgasm as possible but not take the final step; and remain in that state for a long time. Eventaully HE signails it is time..and you bring him to orgasm...my point was, it takes great skill and stamina to find that penumbulate step in a Man's sexual release and provide Him hour and hour of pleasure there before He says He wants the orgasm.

None of my lovers could get enough of this type of bj; so i am a bit surprised to find it brings out such derision here on a BDSM message board. For after all, it's nothing but giving Him pleasure of the highest form for hours..pleasure He keeps on asking for. Some men would not even f**k me, all they wanted was another bj.

Frankly, any woman who goes at a blow job as a way to "control" a Man, even a vanilla man, has issues in my book. It's cock worship, plain and simple. Now that i know about throat f**king, these bjs pale in comparision, laughs. However, all bjs have the same thing in common; my pleasure is derived from pleasing the Man as best i can; in whatever way He wishes. 69 holds no appeal for me; i much prefer the concentration on His cock and His pleasure; of giving Him what is hopefully the best head of His life. Now, i may not attain that goal, but that is how i approach a bj. Absolute worship.

pleasureforHim



slavedesires -> RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? (7/14/2005 5:46:45 AM)

i do understand how some doms feel they lack total control when a woman is attached to the cock................
i also understand how most doms play the body of a girl for reaction and have total control that way.............

remember every dom and girl's relationship and their D/s is different and also in regards to sexual activity.

some girls need subspaceand doms love to put their girls there and bring them back safely. subspace is none other than deep surrender of psyche and body..as far as i understand.

so if my deepest surrender is in knowing He is fucking my throat to HIS hearts content and He has fullest control and deepest surrender of me that way...using me for HIS pleasure, not the reaction i get from Him using my lily or ass or body, then OUR dynamic works for us...it's why itis hard for me to bottom.

some doms i bottom for find better "reaction" from my body for their pleasure if i am sucking whilst they use their toys.

EVERYONES dynamic is differnt...tis why you MUST find the partner that suits the dominant control and submission.

somegirls bring to the table their ability to deeply surrender while being flogged or suspended or blindfolded and gagged or bound...whatever.... and the plesure the dominant receives is high and powerful..........

so just cause His control of me is totally unlike "yours" doesnt make His control less or my surrender less.....it is DIFFEReNT than yours.

so NO ONE will convince me just because i am attached to his cock...allowing Him to use me for HIS pleasure, rather than mine, i receive no pleasure. on the contrary, my pleasure is ONLY obtained when HE is pleasured to the max..................i understand totally, i am unlike the majority of girls on this issue.

doms who i bottom for, who understand this about me, can adjust their play session for their pleasure better.
while pussy fucking is awesome, i find very little surrender in it....
now fuck my other hole as well...and there is your second greatest surrender of my physche and body.

EACH girl is differnt, EACH D/s sexual dynamic is different.

~~shy



kc692 -> RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? (7/14/2005 6:18:58 AM)

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ORIGINAL: pleasureforHim

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quote:

ORIGINAL: kc692

pleasurefor him talks about making the man WANT, almost to the point of begging to cum, until SHE decides to let him cum.


NOOOOOOOOOOO..you misunderstood me. The idea (for anyone interested in trying this) is to bring a Mna as close to orgams as possible but not take the final step; and remain in that state for a long time. Eventaully HE signails it is time..and you bring him to orgams...y point was, it takes great skill and stamina to find that penumbulate step in a Man'a sexual release and provide Him hour and hour of pleasure there before Him says He wants the orgasm.

Frankly, any woman who goes at a blow job as a way to "control" a Man, even a vanilla man, has issues in my book. It's cock worship, plain and simple.

pleasureforHim


That may be what it is for you, PFH, cock worship. I control men regularly by orgasm denial, bringing them to the brink, and have known a few to literally beg to orgasm, because with Me, he doesn't get to decide where, when, or if he orgasms, and I am VERy adept at fellatio, should I decide to do it. The everyday term is tease and denial. He can tell me he(or she) is ready to orgasm, that doesn't mean they will be allowed to. I do not perform cock worship, I suck a cock because it pleases me, his pleasure is a mere side note. I also, at least in my opinion DO NOT HAVE ISSUES, as do any of the other Dommes who also make those decisions.

Edited to add: It does not take hours before the men I am involved with would like to orgasm....



pleasureforHim -> RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? (7/14/2005 6:31:26 AM)

"That may be what it is for you, PFH, cock worship. I control men regularly by orgasm denial, bringing them to the brink, and have known a few to literally beg to orgasm, because with Me, he doesn't get to decide where, when, or if he orgasms, and I am VERy adept at fellatio, should I decide to do it. The everyday term is tease and denial. He can tell me he(or she) is ready to orgasm, that doesn't mean they will be allowed to. I do not perform cock worship, I suck a cock because it pleases me, his pleasure is a mere side note. I also, at least in my opinion DO NOT HAVE ISSUES, as do any of the other Dommes who also make those decisions."

Laughs..now i'm in deep s**t with the Dommes. NOOOOOOO, i was not addressing the dynamic between a Domme and a male submissive. i know little about it. Frankly i know little about orgasm denial when a hetereo Dom or Master uses it on a fem submissive.

And NOOOOOO...i did not need to take HOURS to bring a Man to the point of wanting to orgasm...LOL. i wonder if i'm speaking english here anymore. What i said was:

"The idea (for anyone interested in trying this) is to bring a Man as close to orgasm as possible but not take the final step; and remain in that state for a long time. Eventaully HE signails it is time..and you bring him to orgasm."

Nobody has ever asked me for the fastest possible bj, but i suppose i could oblige.

Now have i made myself understood? Or is there someone else who wants to flame me? i have a cock worship/bj/throat f**king fetish (among several others) and i am sad none of the Doms and Masters seem to find this appealing. ROFLMAO.

pleaseforHim




CitizenWolf -> RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? (7/14/2005 6:41:00 AM)

I think I understand what pleasureforhim is talking about. I personally (no idea why) have an extreme hard time getting off while getting a bj. The cool thing is it feels like I'm on the verge of orgasm from the point of insertion, but I rarely go over the edge and only a few women have accomplished this task. Personally I enjoy just sitting there and watching girls who say "Oh I could do it!" like they're experts and they get all frustrated when they're proven wrong LOL



kc692 -> RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? (7/14/2005 6:43:44 AM)

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Frankly, any woman who goes at a blow job as a way to "control" a Man, even a vanilla man, has issues in my book. It's cock worship, plain and simple.


I was not flaming you, I was responding to you. It takes a wee bit more than this thread to irk me into flames. Yes, according to your sentence above,the word ANY did refer to a Domme and a male submissive. Maybe you would like to reword it, or is that in fact what you meant? If that is your belief, that is your belief, but I happen to feel very differently, and felt free to state it.

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Nobody has ever asked me for the fastest possible bj, but i suppose i could oblige


Me neither, but there have been times I have ripped one from a man in under 2 minutes because I chose to.




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