maybemaybenot -> RE: New and wondering (8/29/2007 6:20:05 PM)
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KD: Draco gave you some good advice. I read your profile and it screams, I am in charge. I want, you will do, and only when I am willing. Not very submissive. You say you like to push people to make them want to punish you. Here's a top 10 bit of submissive advice: Dominants do not like to be pushed to punish their subs. Getting punished means you have been disobedient, disrespectful, broken a rule or any number of other infractions. This is noy a quality many dominants find appealing. And when they do punish you, it isn't on your terms or " when you don't mind ". Most submisives prefer to not get punished as it reflects poorly on themselves and their dominant. " I want to try this as soon as possible so get in touch with me. Soon. " You may want to calm down, hang out in the forum section, browse the topics and learn and ask questions, read some books that deal with BDSM, attend a munch or two and get a real perspective on what it is that we do. From your profile, it would * appear* that you are completely unfamilair with wiitwd, and I would encourage you to learn before you go jumpng into anything. Being unfamiliar with it, you are at a very high risk to be played with by some insincere people. <Matter of fact, I can almost guarentee it.> They exist here too, just like they do in the vanilla world. Take a deep breath and exhale. There is absolutely no hurry. mbmbn
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