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pandoravampire -> how to talk dirty to a Dom (7/11/2005 12:56:00 AM)

Would someone please give me a idiots guide on how to talk dirty to a Dom.
ive done a google, and the sights are rather vanilla and not appropriate for the D/s dynamic im in.

What phrases would a Sir's slut, who's his submissive say? what's hot, and whats not would be great for me.
first i struggled with the embarrassment factor, but i think i got my head round that only to utter, "i want to fuck your cunt" um, not exactly right, dynamically, or anatomically!

Id be very grateful for any assistance, as id really like to be able to do this, say in about 4 hrs actually!

*edited for a proper title*



Gemeni -> RE: e (7/11/2005 1:10:20 AM)

Well,I have always enjoyed terms of endearment like "I love the way my asshole feels spasming around the base of your hard cock Sir,especially when you are torturing and tormenting me with your hands at the same time."

Did that help any?[:D]



EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: e (7/11/2005 5:05:18 AM)

Gosh, it's so dependent on the person and context.

I always chuckle at the term "talk dirty" because it seems kinda middle schoolish to me- what I do isn't dirty, and talking about it isn't dirty, but I know some people really like making it feel dirty.

This is one of those things you just have to work with your partner on and find out what turns their buttons. A top calling me a "dirty little slut who loves to suck cock" to me is just like saying "it's going to rain today, take an umbrella"

But a top saying "You're such a fucking cunthole who's just good to get a cock inside her and needs it all the time" however, will definitely get my attention.

Talk to the person, feel your way around, just have fun with the language.



plantlady64 -> RE: e (7/11/2005 8:43:39 AM)

Hello There,
Some of the things I say My Master finds sexy I tell him what a play slut I am and how him spanking me makes me so hot I drip. When he's screwing me from behind I thank him for making his bitch in heat feel good. I tell him about what all the physical sensations he's gifting me with feel like in hot detail. For example when he's pinching my nipple so hard it hurts I thank him for making my nipple sting and burn, as I really like that.[:)] I remind him when we're turned on there's nothing I wouldn't do for him as I'm his little slut and want to please him always. When I give him head I describe how grateful I am to service his magnificent cock, about the texture of his satiny cock in my mouth, and how tasting him totally turns me on. I'm sure as you explore being open to words like cunt, pussy, ass, cock, slut, bitch, cum, sub, or slave you'll have inspirations that will help you find your way. Like anything you have to gain experience before you find comfort. Good luck and don't put too much pressure on yourself. As long as you seek knowledge it will find you.
Sincerely,
sub suzanne



happypervert -> RE: e (7/11/2005 10:59:00 AM)

quote:

i struggled with the embarrassment factor, but i think i got my head round that only to utter, "i want to fuck your cunt" um, not exactly right, dynamically, or anatomically!

hey, I think making the effort is what counts even if it didn't come out quite right, and if embarrassment was a problem it will take more experience to get that out of the way. So I think you're on the right track.

I'd say what you don't want is something scripted; better to just verbalize what an uninhibited slut you are. So keep trying and eventually you might get a direct connection between your mouth and the filthy thoughts in your head. And if you happen to goof it up again don't worry because your partner will probably take it as a compliment that he's got you in such a state you don't know what you're doing.



sub4hire -> RE: e (7/11/2005 3:47:33 PM)

I know it is probably too late. I'd suggest watch a chat room for a little while.
Watch someone cyber, then use the same sort of chat with him in person.

Doug has never asked me to talk dirty, so that is all the advice I have.



MasterBenedict -> RE: e (7/11/2005 7:25:34 PM)

Well, You might ASK Him, y'know
:-))



imtempting -> RE: e (7/11/2005 10:16:53 PM)

Well like in normal vanilla relationship but with bdsm terms.



Draciron -> RE: e (7/12/2005 3:45:18 AM)

Make yourself availible and he will lead the way.



Dracironsgirl -> RE: e (7/12/2005 1:51:25 PM)

my respects to You Sir ...so well said, truely so
~kristin



Sweeticing -> RE: e (7/13/2005 7:28:12 PM)

I have this problem I do not talk much during sex moan yes talk no. To me I am concentrating so much on what is going on that the last thing I want to do is strike up a conversation or say something that brings a giggle. so normally you hear oh god, holy s* , that's it, right there,

lol I thought this was enough but oh no I get why don't you talk dirty that would really turn me on. So I have tried it and what happens is it starts a conversation. Example: female: f* me hard:
male: oh you like that:
female: yes your Dick is filling my P*:
male: do you want it fast or slow:
female: oh do me fast and hard:
male: is that what you want:
female: yes slam me till your balls hit my ass....
OK you get the point at this time the orgasm that was built up is gone I'm getting tired of talking, I'm getting tired of having to tell him what I want what I like. All I want is silence except for moans. OK i have vented lol. LOl I have actually told him to shut up ( Hows that for dirty talk) . I like the dirty talk before sex, some comments during is great but conversations I think are a turn off. Do guys really need a boost during sex . giggles OK that is a female or just my point of view guys love it ...wonders if it is to distract them so they can last longer or if it is to fufill a fantasy of a slutty girl....ok to answer your question about sites.

http://www.mypleasure.com/education/sexed/erotic_talk.asp
go to the bottom and you will see Phase Four: Let's Get Naughty
ok yes it has a vanilla undertone just bring it up a notch to what you want the concept is what you are looking for. Hope it helps



Smtreker -> RE: e (7/13/2005 10:03:44 PM)

I find verbalization that refer to the parts of your body as his is a great turn on. Also refering to yourself in a degrading term of endearment along with asking for a certain part of your anatomy. For example, "your cunt needs your big cock inside of it". "Your dirty cumloving whore need her mouth stuff" Also during the action you might shout out "give to your cunt good" or "I need your cum let me feel or taste it depending on the action taking place.



JerryInTampa -> RE: e (7/14/2005 6:24:52 AM)

"You son of a bitch", said through a ball-gag.



CitizenWolf -> RE: e (7/14/2005 8:26:15 AM)

I enjoy hearing her telling me she enjoys what I'm doing to her or asking me to do stuff in a slutty way. Like "Please pull it out and shoot it all over my face." or something similar. It's a request for a dominant sex move which I go along with. I have no problems with requests as long as it's done in a "slutty" manor and she's on the receiving end, such as "Please fuck me in my (whatever)." But if a sub tells me "Lick my pussy" or "I want (whatever)" she'll get ignored in the moment. Now that I reread that I guess it's hard for me to explain. I guess "begging for" is what I'm trying to get at, but "telling me" won't work. If I got the puppy dog eyes and in a sweet innocent voice was asked for a quick facial I'd probably hurt myself pulling down my zipper, but if I was TOLD to unzip my pants I'd tell her to go to hell.



teapaw -> RE: e (7/14/2005 10:34:29 AM)

buy porn or look up written porn online, it can give you an idea about phrasing and such and maybe make you more int he mood so it will eventually come more naturallyto you....hope that helps..just me two cents
pamela



fastlane -> RE: e (7/14/2005 10:43:25 AM)

mumble something barely coherent that sounds like.......its hard to talk with another Dom's cock in my mouth, Sir.



teapaw -> RE: e (7/14/2005 12:32:46 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: JerryInTampa

"You son of a bitch", said through a ball-gag.


My sister slave cuses Master out in sign language..even when her hands are bound!...It took him awhile to notice buthe lets her do it becuase he thinks its cute....[:D]

pamela



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