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Tigrita -> RE: Help with understanding 'pansexual' term (8/30/2007 10:54:43 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Stephann
I've casually dated two lesbians. 

 
Stephan, I think that's called being the guest star. 




e01n -> RE: Help with understanding 'pansexual' term (8/30/2007 10:56:03 AM)

Yup. I believe that's the term.

It's how I learned how to make good popcorn - for watching the show from the cheap seats...




LivingInSin -> RE: Help with understanding 'pansexual' term (8/30/2007 12:36:13 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SubtleDifference

Thank you, slavegirljoy. I appreciate the definitions.

You mentioned a pansexual chapter in the DC area. It brought to mind another question. Is pansexual a term used primarily within the bdsm community?

Elena


personally, ive never heard "pansexual" outside of the bdsm community. i live in a small town though......so if you did say something like that they would think like michael......sex with pans......*sigh* oh the world we live in [;)]

your most welcome for the link. i hope it is helpful to you.

deana




Stephann -> RE: Help with understanding 'pansexual' term (8/30/2007 12:46:13 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Tigrita

quote:

ORIGINAL: Stephann
I've casually dated two lesbians. 

 
Stephan, I think that's called being the guest star. 


Really?  I had the distinct impression I was filling more of a 'stunt double' for them.  I suppose I'd be better off not mentioning beer was involved.

Maybe I make a really ugly woman, but not so ugly after a few rounds....

Stephan




DarkDaddyZ -> RE: Help with understanding 'pansexual' term (8/30/2007 1:11:26 PM)

I see the term pansexual a lot in the community (as we are a pansexual group and welcome all) yet sometimes I see this:

Straight men, bisexual women....good!
Bisexual or gay men; or gay women...bad!

Not always but often enough.




michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: Help with understanding 'pansexual' term (8/30/2007 1:22:25 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Tigrita

quote:

ORIGINAL: Stephann
I've casually dated two lesbians. 

 
Stephan, I think that's called being the guest star. 


sounds like a dream come true to me

[:D][:D][:D][:D][:D]




Stephann -> RE: Help with understanding 'pansexual' term (8/30/2007 1:42:29 PM)

Considering neither were 'lipstick' lesbians...and both were anti razor....

It wasn't so bad.

Stephan




Tigrita -> RE: Help with understanding 'pansexual' term (8/30/2007 1:54:39 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Stephann

quote:

ORIGINAL: Tigrita

quote:

ORIGINAL: Stephann
I've casually dated two lesbians. 

 
Stephan, I think that's called being the guest star. 


I had the distinct impression I was filling more of a 'stunt double' for them. 

 
I see, so they only did the really dangerous stuff on you then huh?  What a trooper.  Did they make you scream like a girl? 




Stephann -> RE: Help with understanding 'pansexual' term (8/30/2007 4:01:35 PM)

Heh,

The only girl screams came from the actual girls.  I never knew lesbians had such strong legs though....

Stephan




taintedgypsy -> RE: Help with understanding 'pansexual' term (8/30/2007 5:38:50 PM)

lol so now I can term myself

Polyamorous pansexual bisexual uninhibited exhibitionist slut?

edited to add skillet hard limit for those interested :p




MistressFrypan -> RE: Help with understanding 'pansexual' term (8/30/2007 5:56:30 PM)

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ORIGINAL: taintedgypsy

lol so now I can term myself

Polyamorous pansexual bisexual uninhibited exhibitionist slut?

edited to add skillet hard limit for those interested :p


Curses!




michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: Help with understanding 'pansexual' term (8/30/2007 6:00:48 PM)

out of the frying pan...into the fire

I know...major puns in that one

hehehehehehehe




Tigrita -> RE: Help with understanding 'pansexual' term (8/30/2007 6:44:41 PM)

What about a panmasochist?  A skillet to the ass sounds kind of fun ;)
Not a hot one though, hard limit there!




MisPandora -> RE: Help with understanding 'pansexual' term (8/30/2007 6:50:25 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SubtleDifference

I've often read the term 'pansexual'  and was curious to understand it better..

If I understand the term correctly, it describes an openness for "human" sexuality, regardless of born sex, gender identity, sexual orientation as long as it is consensual? Am I understanding this correctly?

Also when someone uses the term, is it used to describe their own sexuality (e.g. like bisexuality) or their acceptance of all forms of sexuality.

Thanks in advance!

Elena

These days, it's terribly easy to google the word you're looking for:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pansexuality




SubtleDifference -> RE: Help with understanding 'pansexual' term (8/30/2007 8:24:45 PM)

Thanks everyone!

MisPandora, I agree, google is wonderful. Considering how wikipedia works, I don't trust it as a reliable resource for information. The other sites listed pretty much what I had suspected. I don't participate in any local community groups, so it's always informative to get insight from those more knowledgeable than I. But thanks for the link!

taintedgypsy: that was priceless!

I'm going to find my cast iron skillets. ~smile~

Elena




slavegirljoy -> RE: Help with understanding 'pansexual' term (8/30/2007 9:06:22 PM)

i see the term mostly used with BDSM groups but, it doesn't have to be.  There are a growing number of swingers groups that are opening up to pansexuality.  Although, probably most swingers are still strictly heterosexual m-f swapping with m-f, for strictly m-f sex, there are plenty who also enjoy f-f and m-m and f-m-f and f-m-m-f, etc., and, of course, transvetite and transgender fits in there somewhere, too.  There are a lot of possibilities when you have 3somes, 4somes, and group sex.  And, while some swingers enjoy BDSM, not all do.  So, that's one example.  There are probably more.
 
slave joy
Owned property of Master David

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SubtleDifference

Thank you, slavegirljoy. I appreciate the definitions.

You mentioned a pansexual chapter in the DC area. It brought to mind another question. Is pansexual a term used primarily within the bdsm community?

Elena




michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: Help with understanding 'pansexual' term (8/30/2007 9:08:49 PM)

I still can't shake the image of sex with cookware...LOL




chellekitty -> RE: Help with understanding 'pansexual' term (8/30/2007 9:14:15 PM)

nothing to do with the horny greek god Pan?




michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: Help with understanding 'pansexual' term (8/30/2007 9:17:44 PM)

maybe it was Peter Pan...he's always flying around in tights, hanging out with Tinkerbell and all those Lost Boys, chasing a pirate named Captain Hook...sounds like an orgy in the making




e01n -> RE: Help with understanding 'pansexual' term (8/30/2007 9:52:02 PM)

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ORIGINAL: chellekitty:nothing to do with the horny greek god Pan?
Actually, yes - but through convoluted means.

pan, as root, means "all" - and Pan, the deity, was originally a universal theriomorph - having aspects of all animals that were known, including humans. His presence was fearsome and instilled literal "panic" amongst people and animals.

When you are confronted by something, you flee it, fight it or fuck it. You can't flee your self and fighting yourself isn't much good either... so the Greeks saw Pan as rather horny.

He underwent further transformation with the Romans and became Priapus.




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