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fairerthanshe -> RE: A Sadists Orgasm (8/30/2007 9:39:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross quote: ORIGINAL: Celeste43 I'm not a masochist, so I am not compatible with a sadist. Actually non masochist service oriented types can be the perfect compatibility for sadists. Greetings LA, I use to believe that because I am an NMSOT (thanks for the title, btw) that I could never be compatible with a sadist. Luckily, I got over that! lol To the OP: If his orgasm is what is important for him in the time that we are together, then I will do whatever he asks of me in order to facilitate it. More often though, he gains pleasure through my suffering and reactiveness to his words and actions. He enjoys skull fucking me til I'm crying, puking, and choking on his cock. It hardly seems boring or vanilla... well wishes ~ fairer than she

RRafe -> RE: A Sadists Orgasm (8/30/2007 9:54:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: fairerthanshe quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross quote: ORIGINAL: Celeste43 I'm not a masochist, so I am not compatible with a sadist. Actually non masochist service oriented types can be the perfect compatibility for sadists. Greetings LA, I use to believe that because I am an NMSOT (thanks for the title, btw) that I could never be compatible with a sadist. Luckily, I got over that! lol To the OP: If his orgasm is what is important for him in the time that we are together, then I will do whatever he asks of me in order to facilitate it. More often though, he gains pleasure through my suffering and reactiveness to his words and actions. He enjoys skull fucking me til I'm crying, puking, and choking on his cock. It hardly seems boring or vanilla... well wishes ~ fairer than she Bingo. Someone who submits to suffering makes a Sadist much happier. Those happy giggly masos are just so..ewwww............spoils all the fun.

onthenosetone -> RE: A Sadists Orgasm (8/30/2007 10:58:18 PM)
Whatever makes Ma'am happy in turn makes me happy, simple really.....well it is in my world anyway[:D]

Aimtoplease101 -> RE: A Sadists Orgasm (8/30/2007 11:36:58 PM)
A very interesting post (and poster, if I may say). I think from a submissive's perspective, it's all about providing whatever floats your Domme's boat, be that sexual oral service, depersonification, domestic servitude or being a whipping boy. From a submissive mindset, the gratification comes from giving pleasure to the Domme, however she wants it. If the sub enjoys receiving pain (a mascho), he would probably crave the penis whipping even more than the opportunity to orally gratify you. Regards, ATP

goddessAVA -> RE: A Sadists Orgasm (8/31/2007 3:17:17 AM)
lucky gal!

goddessAVA -> RE: A Sadists Orgasm (8/31/2007 3:18:40 AM)
yes but they need to be taught how to be twue

littlebitxxx -> RE: A Sadists Orgasm (8/31/2007 3:29:06 AM)
If beating the snot out of me brings my Dom an enjoyable orgasm, I am more than willing to comply. Actually, no matter what it is that brings my Dom an enjoyable orgasm, I am more than willing to comply. But beatings bring them on in me too so in that way we can enjoy them together :)

Tristan -> RE: A Sadists Orgasm (8/31/2007 5:08:42 AM)
I think there is the erotic stuff that turns you on, and there is sex that gives you an orgasm. We all need a little of both. Otherwise, we would be happy with just masterbation. The erotic stuff can be very emotionally satisfying. Sometimes its the erotic that I crave. Other times its a combination of both. Rarely, is just plain sex enough. Tristan

Viridana -> RE: A Sadists Orgasm (8/31/2007 5:57:03 AM)
I think it all boils down to the fact that many people within this lifestyle don't grasp or have a hard time grasping that bdsm for some doesn't involve sexual pleasure to the same extent as for them. My masochistic orgasms (which are by the way non-sexual, purely emotional) are miles apart from sexual orgasms. The way I think of it, I can get laid whenever I want. But getting that masochistic scene, finding somebody who is willing to take me to that masolevel is something special.

Celeste43 -> RE: A Sadists Orgasm (8/31/2007 7:56:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross quote: ORIGINAL: Celeste43 I'm not a masochist, so I am not compatible with a sadist. Actually non masochist service oriented types can be the perfect compatibility for sadists. You may be correct. I wouldn't know. I'm not service or obedience wired. I'm in this for emotional transparency, control and bondage. And that's what I screened for and found. All I know is that I'm not compatible with a sadist. I don't get off on suffering for him or by him. Or her from the op's viewpoint. So I looked for someone I was compatible with.

goddessAVA -> RE: A Sadists Orgasm (8/31/2007 8:05:45 AM)
To the OP: If his orgasm is what is important for him in the time that we are together, then I will do whatever he asks of me in order to facilitate it. More often though, he gains pleasure through my suffering and reactiveness to his words and actions. He enjoys skull fucking me til I'm crying, puking, and choking on his cock. It hardly seems boring or vanilla... well wishes ~ fairer than she [/quote] Yes-I have enjoyed queening before where I locked my boys head in a box, hands to the cuffed to the sides, cock and balls on a tight leash with crop in hand and mercilessly used his mouth as a toilet and pleasure instrument, leaving him in there as long as I felt like, if was not pleasing me he got a hard tug and hit to his balls. But I am very moody-lately this has not interested me, I have felt so satisfied after a heavy pain session.......it is easy for a sub to say yes of course if it pleases them and is probably very true in the Male Dom/slave dynamic, when it comes to femdom I think many, NOT ALL, of the subs who claim that they want to please really want the sexual gratification of getting a woman off. I just wondered if anyone would answer honestly about how they would feel if their Domme said ok, If you want to get me off let me really torture you in a very slow painful steady session. I think the aforementioned subs may mean well but not many really understand sadism.

slavebilly15 -> RE: A Sadists Orgasm (8/31/2007 8:16:09 AM)
Not only am i able to give this to You i am offering it to You and begging You to take it from me. my body only craves to serve and i am a pain slut and in NE Philly and ready to be used by You for Your own needs with no regard for myself as it should be.

needDomme -> RE: A Sadists Orgasm (8/31/2007 6:49:49 PM)
Yes, I am turned on most in knowing I am pleasing my Misress in whaever way she desires. It's a puely mental thing that arouses me physically. It could be no limits housework or something intimate. need

needDomme -> RE: A Sadists Orgasm (8/31/2007 7:01:26 PM)
I would definitely agree to do it. To be a slave, one must be totally loyal. need

SubJordanTyler -> RE: A Sadists Orgasm (8/31/2007 7:02:59 PM)
If whipping me and causing me pain will get her off, then I am more than willing to suffer for her orgasm. I really have no problem with that at all.

fairerthanshe -> RE: A Sadists Orgasm (8/31/2007 9:22:29 PM)
Greetings goddessAVA, I believe that there is a huge difference between the Male Dom/female slave and FemDom/male sub dynamic as well. I have not met many male slaves, but do know a fair amount of male subs. The perspective I have encountered is far afield of my own. When I entered this relationship, it was with the understanding that he would have complete control of everything. While my favorite activities are thuddy type impact play, it is rare that I have the opportunity to experience it now. It simply does not interest him. He refers to that as BDSM spa services. If he wants me to have a "massage", he will send me to a spa and won't be indulging my whims and wants. I have never met anyone who makes me feel less in control and completely safe then he does. He inspires my trust and cultivates my fear all at the same time. It is an interesting dichotomy. To truly appreciate the awe and wonder he creates in me takes daily reflection on this gift I have been given. My understanding of sadism grows exponentially the more time we are together. On one particular night, I was crying so hard I could barely catch my breath and he leaned over me and asked if I was done (wanting to stop the scene) and I told him that I didn't know how to answer him. He chose to continue (for which I am grateful) and ended the scene when he was ready to do so. The list of sadistic activities and mind fucks he has introduced me to is far too great to innumerate here. Suffice it to say that my resistance to his will decreases daily in direct proportion to the growth of my adoration. I have not had the opportunity to meet male subs who have the same perspective or need to let go of everything. Surely, they are out there - I just haven't encountered them in real life at this point. well wishes ~ fairer than she quote: ORIGINAL: goddessAVA To the OP: If his orgasm is what is important for him in the time that we are together, then I will do whatever he asks of me in order to facilitate it. More often though, he gains pleasure through my suffering and reactiveness to his words and actions. He enjoys skull fucking me til I'm crying, puking, and choking on his cock. It hardly seems boring or vanilla... well wishes ~ fairer than she Yes-I have enjoyed queening before where I locked my boys head in a box, hands to the cuffed to the sides, cock and balls on a tight leash with crop in hand and mercilessly used his mouth as a toilet and pleasure instrument, leaving him in there as long as I felt like, if was not pleasing me he got a hard tug and hit to his balls. But I am very moody-lately this has not interested me, I have felt so satisfied after a heavy pain session.......it is easy for a sub to say yes of course if it pleases them and is probably very true in the Male Dom/slave dynamic, when it comes to femdom I think many, NOT ALL, of the subs who claim that they want to please really want the sexual gratification of getting a woman off. I just wondered if anyone would answer honestly about how they would feel if their Domme said ok, If you want to get me off let me really torture you in a very slow painful steady session. I think the aforementioned subs may mean well but not many really understand sadism.

AlexanderC -> RE: A Sadists Orgasm (9/1/2007 12:15:07 AM)
When I first started out I could climax while doling out especially intense pain. No longer. It's all gone to the head. Or rather most of it, a certain physiological responce is occasionally experience. This is not in the least distressing for me. I actually prefer 'mind orgasms' while playing, I stay more alert and it's cumulative, the closest we poor deprived men can get to female-style multiple orgasms.

Perplex -> RE: A Sadists Orgasm (9/1/2007 8:19:18 AM)
not to split hairs, but I already got the tweezers and maginfiging glass out... there is a difference between male ejaculation and male orgasm, now ussually if the 2nd one happesn the first is also happening, but men can be as subtle about how things works as women, just so many little boys when they start beating the meat figure "hey I'm done" when they have to get a towel, they never further explore the big O for themseleves...and yeah it happens now and then, but ussually ejaculation happens first so "well I musta cum...so I'll stop now" when your fixation is more ethereal than simple friction, achieving true orgasm is easier, cuz you're that much closer to the right mindset (and in accordance your body is ready to respond). and at least with men (cuz I'm not a woman so can only observe and am not willing to make no guesses I can't prove for myself) the sustained excitment without release (ejaculation) adds to the tension thus making an orgasm that more likely. or to put it more simply, some guys will cum in a high wind but if you take the time with your own sexual truth you can achieve orgasms that 10 years later you still say 'damn" about.

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