Dom21740 -> RE: Would you p ut your (9/1/2007 6:14:46 PM)
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As a Dominant, and a man, it is my responsibility to take care of the women and children in my life. I decide who goes to the head of the line, and we all take our turn there depending on the situation. My submissive belongs to me, and I do with her as I choose - but she trusts me to care for her needs as well as my own. That trust is the foundation of our relationship. I am not entitled to her obedience because one day I decided I wanted to be a Dom or set up an online account with a cool screen name. I have earned both her love and her trust by my actions, proven over time, and thus she trusts and obeys even when she doesn't understand or agree. I hold her accountable for wrongs done, I set boundaries and enforce them, and I require her obedience in all things - but I also hold myself accountable for her physical and emotional well being. That is the responsibility that comes with the power - and it is precisely that sense of responsibility that sometimes seems lacking. Then again, my interpretation of the question may not be correct as it is incredibly vague... either way, my submissive has placed herself in my care because she believes in me. That trust is why she gives me everything that she is....
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