Alumbrado
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Often, people with good intentions do more harm than good. I can't count the number of times I have stopped at accidents to see if assistance is needed (I am a nurse), and found that someone has already yanked the passengers out of the car and carried them to the side of the road, propped their heads up on cushions, etc. Sure, if the car is on fire, or some IMMEDIATE greater threat is present, this would be understandable, but these have been cases where the injured were safer where they were than being moved. Professional responders almost never accept bystander assistance, because either it is not needed, and more help would get in the way, but mainly because they have no way to know if the person is in any way qualified to assist. The single time my assistance has been accepted by professionals was on a multiple car wreck where the rescuers were outnumbered by the seriously injured, and the Life Flight crew recognized me from the hospital. I assisted them by handing supplies, going back and forth to the helicopter for more equipment, setting up IVs, holding the IV bags up while they infused, etc. When they were ready to transport the patients, they asked me hand the IV bag I was holding to a bystander and take some equipment ahead to the helicopter. When I asked the nearest onlooker to hold the IV bag, she jumped back and said "that was more involvement than I wanted to have!" And I told her, "Then you shouldn't have been standing around watching", and made her hold it anyway. The point being, there is no way in the middle of a disaster to tell who will be helpful, and who will just get in the way, or worse yet, cause more harm. Precisely. People who have never been in a crisis situation, or put themselves in harm's way to help, can have a grand old time criticizing those who do, but their armchair quarterbacking is useless ego trip.
< Message edited by Alumbrado -- 9/2/2007 3:31:52 PM >
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