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finding a mistress - 9/1/2007 11:18:38 PM

sissyleon

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ive been trying to finda mistress to use and abuse me be it online or r/t, but have had no luck at all was wondering if anyone could advise

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RE: finding a mistress - 9/1/2007 11:31:32 PM

BiteGirl

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I would say add more to your profile.
If i came across that, I would not know what to write to you if I was interested as there is nothing to draw on, and I know bearly ne thing about you.

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RE: finding a mistress - 9/1/2007 11:36:03 PM

DrkJourney

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what she said....plus, you've only been on for a few days....geez it does take some time

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RE: finding a mistress - 9/1/2007 11:43:03 PM

MisPandora

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quote:

sissyleon

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ORIGINAL: sissyleon

ive been trying to finda mistress to use and abuse me be it online or r/t, but have had no luck at all was wondering if anyone could advise

Wave a few dollar bills around. That'll get you noticed LOL

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RE: finding a mistress - 9/2/2007 7:59:24 AM

pixelslave

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sissyleon

ive been trying to finda mistress to use and abuse me be it online or r/t, but have had no luck at all was wondering if anyone could advise

Try telling the ladies here what you have to offer them as a submissive and something about yourself as a person; not just what you want them to do to you. Remember they're real women, who are people, each with unique personalities that have interests that they'll want you to share with them.

You say in your profile that you'll "try anything". Will you let a woman you don't know completely immobilize you, then slit your throat? Get real and think about setting some real boundaries for yourself. This may sound harsh, but show an interest in taking the time to get to know your partner before you get yourself into a dangerous situation.

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RE: finding a mistress - 9/2/2007 7:14:23 PM

SensualTouch

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Patence....a needful quality in a submissive/slave

Be open and honest in your post, giving as much as you feel comfortable doing in a public domain.
Never share limits in a profile or post, reserve that for private chats.
Be thoughtful of the person replying, do not allow your second head to cause you to rush. Show self control, as control is a key element in the power exchange.

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RE: finding a mistress - 9/2/2007 11:03:36 PM

RumpusParable

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On your profile here, so that you may have better luck:

Proper spelling and grammar go a long way with many of us, too. Perfection isn't necessary but a profile that doesn't annoy is best.

A realistic and short list of your limits is helpful to those looking. Also a short list of what you can offer a dominant; right now your profile mainly lists what a dominant can do for you.

Tell a bit more about yourself.

When someone messages me or I'm scanning profiles the ones I'm most likely to respond to are those that are well-written and give a good feel of what the person is like and can offer.

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