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Ideas for scenes - 9/2/2007 12:10:48 AM   
Jacobthm


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Ok this is to all you doms, dommes slaves and subs out there. I've been having sessions with a few subs that I know for the past year or so and I'm looking for a bit of a curveball to throw at them. I seem to find myself in a rut going through the same type of activities and not getting enough of a thrill out of it. My request is this; What would you (or your master/etc) do when the pair of you have settled into a routine and you want to throw your sub for a loop.


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RE: Ideas for scenes - 9/2/2007 9:24:26 AM   
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While not being settled into a routine yet I can imagine that the same old, same old would get tiresome. Discuss with them something that is a limit for each of you perhaps? then maybe experiment in that realm. Change up things....if you were stuck in a scripted scene over and over again...improvise...ad lib. If your scenes were mainly sensation...try more thud. Push your learning curve. I have with the help of My Woman and we are eagerly anticipating the next meeting. Can anyone say "Zipper"?


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RE: Ideas for scenes - 9/2/2007 10:39:42 AM   
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I suppose that depends on what the rut is....though I can't say I've ever had that problem.  Every day is new and exciting...even in its day to day boring patterns of life.

If I were in a rope rut *hahaha I kill me, like that could ever happen*  I'd quit using rope for a while and oh, I don't know....do something, anything else.  I don't mean to sound unhelpful, but I don't really get the concept of in a rut. 

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RE: Ideas for scenes - 9/2/2007 10:40:27 AM   
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Throwing Subs for a Loop...

I do it every day... so I have some ideas for you.

Blindfold- and add any of the following...

Do some research on these:   peppermint oil/cinnamon oil, ben gay, fresh ginger root (I LOVE GINGER ROOT- fresh ginger root dildos and butt plugs are AWESOME- and the best part is that the senstations go away shortly after you withdraw it)

Use temperature:  ice (especially ice inserted anally), a washcloth soaked in very hot water.    Hot tea... ("Drinking tea" or Starbucks... off someone's body.. take a mouthful- let it cool down just a bit... then take a nipple -or a cock or a clit- into your mouth.  Suck and Swallow. Yumm...)

Use restraints differently.  If your pattern goes towards spreader bars and spread eagle... put her on her side in a fetal position.  Fabulous access to orifices...

Take things from the classis bdsm literature:  belled nipple/clit clamps, play a game with marshmellows or roses.  (Drop a dozen of one or the other on the floor).  On her hands and knees, using only her teeth, she has to collect them one at a time and bring them to you. No bite marks allowed.   (Personally I like this with a plug in place- but that is just me.)

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RE: Ideas for scenes - 9/2/2007 10:56:33 AM   
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Make the arrangements and do it.

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RE: Ideas for scenes - 9/2/2007 11:17:57 AM   
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Id offer you suggestions, Jacob..but you refused to send me naked pictures of yourself and now that your in an entirely wrong country I doubt my dreams will ever be realized.....sigh


Ok fine, just cause yer cute.......

I guess it depends on what the rut is, but if say you generally play for large amounts of pain, try hunting around for things that cause different sensations....soft things, scratchy things, warm, hot, or cold things....different pradicament bondage stuff.  If you are always alone, just the two of you when you play add another person..and lots more people....I dont mean they have to actually participate in the scene, just having someone elses eyes there can change the sensations for a sub sometimes....do some things in public situations....ok, nothing thats gonna get you arrested I mean, but nipple clamps under a shirt in public or masturbating under a table at a resteraunt....On the flip side...if you are constantly in public when you play, try finding a more secluded place....I know youd rather have the occasianal tryst instead of the 24/7 stuff and really who could blame you, but sometimes the added anticipation of time building up before a scene can do wonders for the scene when it finally happens....

go read lots of bdsm erotica....better yet...make your sub read it to you...even better ask her to write some!

whats your reason for being in a rut? are you doing everything you can think of and just think you need to learn more? Or are there things you would like to do but just never get around to it? Is life getting in the way? Take a vacation, even one night somewhere in a hotel...even if there arent UMs in the house...changing the scenery can help.....go find a local community, go to play parties and watch other people play.....do you need more play equipment? Most of it can be improvised.....

when in doubt, buy more rope.

get yourself out of the rut by sending naked pictures of yourself to cute subs in florida...like me....

< Message edited by GhitaAmati -- 9/2/2007 11:23:06 AM >


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RE: Ideas for scenes - 9/2/2007 8:50:04 PM   
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When I get in a rut, I stop.

Just that. I stop.

Invariably, something will come along to give me an idea. And show me that the reason for the rut in the first place was ignoring my intuition and creativity... I'll shake my head and say "yeah, self, you're right... I won't do that again - I'll always listen..."

Until the next rut comes along...

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RE: Ideas for scenes - 9/2/2007 9:55:09 PM   
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Put her in a "white power" shirt and drop her off at some housing project

Tie her up at home and fall down and lay motionless for a half hour

Tie her down and fire up a chain saw

Seriously, take a pair of cheap sunglasss and spray paint them black on the inside, a pair of ear plugs, and a ball big enough she can't swallow it and small enough she can close her mouth around with it.  If you can't have fun with that set in public, you can't have fun.

Buy a roll of Saran Wrap

Candles

Send her off to find three things to be tormented with (never done that but it is a favor of friends of mine)

Go to an adult store, either send her in first or come in after and have prearranged for her to do something that will make you hot.

While you are there, buy a remote vibrator, that should be good for a few ideas.

Do a guided fantasy, an old classic but still hot.

Put her in a cardboard box with a hole in it and tell her you are going to invite the guys over for monday night football and have you service them all through the hole.  You can either have her service them all or never mention she is in there, either way could be fun

Have her write down 10 fantasies on pieces of paper and pick them out of a hat.

Make shit up

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RE: Ideas for scenes - 9/3/2007 1:16:45 AM   
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A rut eh, well...I think we all go thru that from time to time. That said, why not try something youve never tried before. A complete departure from what you've ever done in the past. Since you have the good fortune of multiple players, they may all be of use. While humiliation for some may be a turn off, for others it may be a long needed experience. The purpose of this I would venture is not to break your toys and or participants but to entice them into a different state of mind....if not to say posture.
Consider.....a wet rag, that you can cover their eyes with....it is more uncomfortable for the subject, and when the rag comes off....the toys vission is quite fuzzy as the eyeballs have taken on moisture....rumor has it, this doesnt damage the eye, but it does make for a lasting effect in the mind of the victim. Next, thick raw rope, that can make the flesh around the wrists and ankles somewhat raw. Again....disclaimer....we are not here to harm anyone permanently, so folks please no nasty emails.
In other words, anything said here is to be used with a great deal of common sense.  In the past, Ive used a toy I call the "Loophole"...in honor of a past slave of Mine, who was a wizzzz at finding loopholes in commands given her. I call it, part of her actions to inspire the most out of Me. Anyways, I digress....The Loophole is made of the electrical cord from a computer and shaped into a circular tip that is based on a wand. The ends are forced to meet and taped together forming a handle.
When the cord strikes flesh....remember, it is heavy, thus not needing much force to create bruises, as well as welts. In my thinking, toys should be inserted in all orifices, to enhance their need for orgasm.....then slowly work the Loophole over the thighs, calves, buttox, and breasts. In My last use of said instrument, the flats of her feet were touched also, to remind said slave , that with every step, a slave remembers her Master. Anyways, bolo ties are a great love of Mine, as they are in total view, yet most folks dont think of the leather strap being used for tying up your victim....or the metal tip, used to create a few well placed welts on your toys flesh. As was mentioned in an earlier post, Ice is excellent......internally as well as on the forehead....just above the eyes, which by now should be swollen with tears. permanent marker....is a wonderful thing, as it is something that a good slave can read, on herself in the mirror when she recovers. The cold metal of a sharp knife, brings about the ever loving gasps of ones victim....causing a trembling in her innards...that will enhance the effects of the vibes in her.
Well...this is all for now....thinking I should put together a little ambush for My slave, who had the audacity to mouth off last night.....citing something  similar to hormonal imbalance...or was it.....Menstration....winks.

And be safe out there.

Lobo

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RE: Ideas for scenes - 9/3/2007 1:46:26 AM   
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I really don't have advice about a ruts other then they do pass....trust me...but helping them along the way is fun...LOL I think a structured scene would be wicked fun....who normally plans those?

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RE: Ideas for scenes - 9/3/2007 1:53:45 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LoboAtNite

A rut eh, well...I think we all go thru that from time to time. That said, why not try something youve never tried before. A complete departure from what you've ever done in the past. Since you have the good fortune of multiple players, they may all be of use. While humiliation for some may be a turn off, for others it may be a long needed experience. The purpose of this I would venture is not to break your toys and or participants but to entice them into a different state of mind....if not to say posture.
Consider.....a wet rag, that you can cover their eyes with....it is more uncomfortable for the subject, and when the rag comes off....the toys vission is quite fuzzy as the eyeballs have taken on moisture....rumor has it, this doesnt damage the eye, but it does make for a lasting effect in the mind of the victim. Next, thick raw rope, that can make the flesh around the wrists and ankles somewhat raw. Again....disclaimer....we are not here to harm anyone permanently, so folks please no nasty emails.
In other words, anything said here is to be used with a great deal of common sense.  In the past, Ive used a toy I call the "Loophole"...in honor of a past slave of Mine, who was a wizzzz at finding loopholes in commands given her. I call it, part of her actions to inspire the most out of Me. Anyways, I digress....The Loophole is made of the electrical cord from a computer and shaped into a circular tip that is based on a wand. The ends are forced to meet and taped together forming a handle.
When the cord strikes flesh....remember, it is heavy, thus not needing much force to create bruises, as well as welts. In my thinking, toys should be inserted in all orifices, to enhance their need for orgasm.....then slowly work the Loophole over the thighs, calves, buttox, and breasts. In My last use of said instrument, the flats of her feet were touched also, to remind said slave , that with every step, a slave remembers her Master. Anyways, bolo ties are a great love of Mine, as they are in total view, yet most folks dont think of the leather strap being used for tying up your victim....or the metal tip, used to create a few well placed welts on your toys flesh. As was mentioned in an earlier post, Ice is excellent......internally as well as on the forehead....just above the eyes, which by now should be swollen with tears. permanent marker....is a wonderful thing, as it is something that a good slave can read, on herself in the mirror when she recovers. The cold metal of a sharp knife, brings about the ever loving gasps of ones victim....causing a trembling in her innards...that will enhance the effects of the vibes in her.
Well...this is all for now....thinking I should put together a little ambush for My slave, who had the audacity to mouth off last night.....citing something  similar to hormonal imbalance...or was it.....Menstration....winks.

And be safe out there.

Lobo

Nice...


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RE: Ideas for scenes - 9/3/2007 1:53:48 AM   
Jacobthm


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For both the humor, sarcasm and the legitimatelly helpfull info thanks to all of you. I've gotten some fun (for me) ideas that I plan on implementing now. Oh yes, GhitaAmati, the only way you'll be seeing me nekkid is if we ever got the opportunity for some playtime. But I digress. 

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RE: Ideas for scenes - 9/3/2007 8:16:05 AM   
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Get busy and do you own research and use your own brain and stop trying to take the easy way out by asking questions like this on a forum.

Nothing worse than a lazy, unimaginative dominant.

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RE: Ideas for scenes - 9/3/2007 8:32:22 AM   
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Make her deal with the damn spider herself-it's only a little bug.

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ORIGINAL: Jacobthm

Ok this is to all you doms, dommes slaves and subs out there. I've been having sessions with a few subs that I know for the past year or so and I'm looking for a bit of a curveball to throw at them. I seem to find myself in a rut going through the same type of activities and not getting enough of a thrill out of it. My request is this; What would you (or your master/etc) do when the pair of you have settled into a routine and you want to throw your sub for a loop.




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RE: Ideas for scenes - 9/3/2007 9:20:10 AM   
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Fungasm,
I love your picture!  Mind if I borrow the pose?

(sorry for the hijack...)

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RE: Ideas for scenes - 9/3/2007 11:29:23 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Jacobthm

Ok this is to all you doms, dommes slaves and subs out there. I've been having sessions with a few subs that I know for the past year or so and I'm looking for a bit of a curveball to throw at them. I seem to find myself in a rut going through the same type of activities and not getting enough of a thrill out of it. My request is this; What would you (or your master/etc) do when the pair of you have settled into a routine and you want to throw your sub for a loop.


Me and my spouse have sat together in a café, with a pen and a paper, and just brainstormed what would be cool to try out, both writing it down and drawing it (for clarity ) He has some fantasies and I have some fantasies. We try to find the middle ground if we are somewhat apart.

Some fantasies are maybe too difficult to transition to reality but then we talk about ways to do the do-able parts and so on....

The bottom line, the brainstorming negotiations are supposed to be just as fun as the scene itself, with lots of laughter, anticipation, looking forward, planning and breaking one's head how you are going to actually do some of the stuff that comes up .  Well that's the way me and my spouse keep our bdsm flames alive anyways...


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