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OnyxDelphi -> Top 5 Things a Slave should be Trained... (9/2/2007 6:07:20 PM)
I apologize for doing another "top 5." But I suddenly realized how great of a subject this would be from me to learn from. All of your help is deeply accepted!

mmb1 -> RE: Top 5 Things a Slave should be Trained... (9/2/2007 6:17:47 PM)
#1 is all I can think of------do not be abused in any way or taken for granted for!

DiurnalVampire -> RE: Top 5 Things a Slave should be Trained... (9/2/2007 6:22:05 PM)
The things my boys are always taught to do Give great massages. Think for themselves and realize their own worth and their worth to me Cook at least passably for when I dont feel like it Take pictures, and/or model for them Help do the shopping Trust me, boys need to be taught to help shop... mine have had to at least. Maybe not the most exciting list, but I am thrilled to bits with Angel and it has obviously worked well DV

SirDraco7 -> RE: Top 5 Things a Slave should be Trained... (9/2/2007 6:45:19 PM)
1) To be herself and communicate. Slave is not a robot nor should she be. She has her own feelings thoughts and emotions. Do not hesitate to speak concerns or hesitations when the time is right. 2) To Trust herself and do what is best for her. Follow her feelings and thoughts.if she thinks her Master is abusing her, he probally is and take action before it gets worse. If what is best is ending the relationship then don't hesitate. If she is not good in the relationship it's not a good relationship for either party. 3) Use and be proud of her strenghts, be proud about who she is. And understand her limits. Don't be something she is not. 4)To respect everyone as she would her Master, for she is a reflection of he. 5)To understand that trust honesty and love and communication are some of the most important aspects. To not lie and to be open and honest. And to trust. To understand that if trust starts to fade that it needs to be addressed, fixed and corrected asap and not to sit and wait it out.

callistaIn -> RE: Top 5 Things a Slave should be Trained... (9/2/2007 6:46:19 PM)
Once again, I would like to state that these are my opinions and views ONLY; they in no way are meant to be a general view. What are the top 5 things a slave should be trained in? I am going to be honest here and say that I can NOT answer this with clarity simply because I have been taught different things by different Masters/Mistresses. In the time within my relationships, only ONE rule was stressed by ALL of them. *Absolute obedience*.

celticlord2112 -> RE: Top 5 Things a Slave should be Trained... (9/2/2007 6:49:53 PM)
My "Top 5" list: 5. Good slaves make good coffee 4. Sir likes being waited on hand and foot 3. Always ask permission 2. It's called "play"--have fun! 1. Trust at least enough to speak up.

TreasureKY -> RE: Top 5 Things a Slave should be Trained... (9/2/2007 7:04:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SirDraco7 1) To be herself and communicate. Slave is not a robot nor should she be. She has her own feelings thoughts and emotions. Do not hesitate to speak concerns or hesitations when the time is right. 2) To Trust herself and do what is best for her. Follow her feelings and thoughts.if she thinks her Master is abusing her, he probally is and take action before it gets worse. If what is best is ending the relationship then don't hesitate. If she is not good in the relationship it's not a good relationship for either party. 3) Use and be proud of her strenghts, be proud about who she is. And understand her limits. Don't be something she is not. 4)To respect everyone as she would her Master, for she is a reflection of he. 5)To understand that trust honesty and love and communication are some of the most important aspects. To not lie and to be open and honest. And to trust. To understand that if trust starts to fade that it needs to be addressed, fixed and corrected asap and not to sit and wait it out. Just me, but if I were a dom I'd not have anything to do with anyone who had to be "trained" to do those things. For me, "training" is simply learning to do things the way he likes them done.

AquaticSub -> RE: Top 5 Things a Slave should be Trained... (9/2/2007 7:26:04 PM)
The art of self-defence?

SimplyMichael -> RE: Top 5 Things a Slave should be Trained... (9/2/2007 8:14:13 PM)
Attentiveness isn't the same as obsequies, I love the former and detest the latter. Anticipation of my actual needs is golden, anticipating what my needs should be is controlling There is a subtle difference between making me look good and auditioning for the crowd, I am not at an audition Knowing how to find the right spots is 2/3 of a good massage and the way to my heart is paved with a lot of good massages Don't fake it, be real and let me deal with that.

slaverosebeauty -> RE: Top 5 Things a Slave should be Trained... (9/2/2007 9:22:22 PM)
First Aid, yes I know, its on ALL my 'top' lists of things people should know, its common sence, but most people don't know first aid, so its on my list How to communicate and use manners How to cook, toast doesn't count 'Basic' positions... Self-defense and the right to say 'no'

Estring -> RE: Top 5 Things a Slave should be Trained... (9/2/2007 9:26:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mmb1 #1 is all I can think of------do not be abused in any way or taken for granted for! How is a slave trained for this?

NControlofU -> RE: Top 5 Things a Slave should be Trained... (9/2/2007 10:45:14 PM)
#1-5 Anything that I need her to do that she doesn't already know how to do. Fortuanely for me, my slave didn't need much training. I didnt need to train her to suck my dick, she was alrady well skilled in sucking and swallowing. I didn't need to train her to give me a good massage, she came here already able to give excellent massages. I didn't need to train her to drink my piss, she was alredy able and eager to drink every drop every time I told her to. I din't need to train her to get on her knees and beg and grovel at my feet, she was already good at begging and groveling. I didn't need to train her to take pain, she was already a seasoned masochist. Come to think of it, all I needed to train my slave to do was make my coffee the way I like and to turn down my bed at night the way I like. She already had all the skills I was looking for in a slave. All I have really had to do is to encourage her to believe in herself and her capabilities. And, she has only gotten better with time and some reassurance from me.

obis -> RE: Top 5 Things a Slave should be Trained... (9/3/2007 12:23:32 AM)
1) When I'm laying face down on the bed, you better start scratchin' my back! If you're not leaving red lines all over, you're not making me happy. 2) A turkey sandwich is made with mayonnaise and Italian dressing on the top slice of bread. A ham sandwich has mustard. This is NOT complicated! 3) You DO NOT change my star ratings of songs in iTunes. EVER! 4) If you don't bring a hat or hairband or something, your hair is going to blow around in my Jeep when the top is down. This is not a new situation! 5) Don't ever, ever, be embarrassed or ashamed to tell or ask me something.

breatheasone -> RE: Top 5 Things a Slave should be Trained... (9/3/2007 2:01:42 AM)
Top 5 " a slave should be trained..." #1 Sit #2 Stay #3 Fetch #4 Beg #5 Cum

RRafe -> RE: Top 5 Things a Slave should be Trained... (9/3/2007 4:34:03 AM)
Ok, I'll be serious this time She needs to know what she is, and is not, capable of doing. She should understand and accept the dynamics and behaviors that are expected of her. She should strive to be both mentally and physically healthy. She should carry gratitude within her, that her owners enables her to express herself-even when things are not as she might wish. If it goes astray-she can always leave. And she should have joy.

goalie62 -> RE: Top 5 Things a Slave should be Trained... (9/3/2007 5:38:18 AM)
RRafe, just because she's not capable of doing it right now, doesn't mean she can't become capable if she has confidence. I love to encourage a sub to success. I want my sub happy and confident that she can take on the world and win. I want her to believe that between her and I, we will rule our world.

SirDraco7 -> RE: Top 5 Things a Slave should be Trained... (9/3/2007 6:13:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TreasureKY Just me, but if I were a dom I'd not have anything to do with anyone who had to be "trained" to do those things. For me, "training" is simply learning to do things the way he likes them done. Good point. I probally wouldn't get involved with anyone without those traits. Those are probally more like the list of traits that slaves should value or have to be a good slave. not what they should be trained.

Bobkgin -> RE: Top 5 Things a Slave should be Trained... (9/3/2007 7:07:07 AM)
I haven't read the other responses, so this is the top five lessons I'd want my slaves to learn: 1. Know who and what you are, and who and what you want to become. 2. Always be truthful, never deceive, no matter how much you think I only want to hear that which would please me. I need the truth more than I need compliments from my slaves. 3. Use your head. When in doubt: ask, and keep asking till you understand. I expect you will want to understand me as I will want to understand you, so ask questions that you might learn. 4. Do nothing without trust in me as your master. If trust is lacking, there is no basis for our master/slave relationship. Trust must always be present for the relationship to thrive. Thus, expect me to be trustworthy, and to demonstrate it in the way I live my life and the way I treat you. Refer to 3 whenever you feel the need. 5. Apply yourself to being the most sincere and enthusiastic slave you can be at all times or whenever possible (whichever is appropriate).

RRafe -> RE: Top 5 Things a Slave should be Trained... (9/3/2007 8:28:46 AM)
I don't expect her to be able to bench press 1,000 pounds. Some limitations of pre wired guy. quote: ORIGINAL: goalie62 RRafe, just because she's not capable of doing it right now, doesn't mean she can't become capable if she has confidence. I love to encourage a sub to success. I want my sub happy and confident that she can take on the world and win. I want her to believe that between her and I, we will rule our world.

Celeste43 -> RE: Top 5 Things a Slave should be Trained... (9/3/2007 8:50:16 AM)
1) How he likes his tea 2) Talk to him, don't build up resentment and unhappiness. 3) No matter how stressed he is, I'm still to bring my problems to him. 4) How/what he likes for meals. 5) was something sexual.

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