wmslave4her -> Mistress in the BDSM scene?Domination or sex???? (9/3/2007 1:00:55 PM)
Since my 1st poll and another posting both realted to women inflicting pain on a lifestyle painslut I guess alot of women on here called a mistress are really confusing me and maybe several others? Here it goes Just what is the average definition of a mistress on this forum? My defintion?A dominant woman in control and a top in the BDSM scene. So what is being a mistress all about? Domination or sex and making sure everything goes your way?
earthycouple -> RE: Mistress in the BDSM scene?Domination or sex???? (9/3/2007 1:16:08 PM)
what, huh?
I'm a mistress to no one unless I've collared or committed to him in some way; regardless of what my "goal" is with him beyond committment and/or collaring.