Bondage erogenous zones

Bondage erogenous zones (Full Version)

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion

Message

petdave -> Bondage erogenous zones (9/4/2007 5:54:27 PM)
So... For those of you who enjoy being bondage bottoms, is there any body part that really "does it" for you? Like you don't really feel restrained until something is immobilized, or one part of the body that gives you an immediate arousal reaction, or sub space, or other feeling that you look for in a scene? Tops? (Seems less likely to me, but that could just be a perspective thing... Feel free to prove me wrong [:)])

curiouspet55 -> RE: Bondage erogenous zones (9/4/2007 6:01:55 PM)
Not being allowed/restrained hips/upper thighs. When being sexually teased, that is what wants to move, so having it bound is especially fun. That, and of course, the wrists/hands, so that I couldn't touch myself. cp55

Aileen68 -> RE: Bondage erogenous zones (9/4/2007 6:08:36 PM)
I like having my arms bound behind my back and I absolutely love spreader bars.

classykindasassy -> RE: Bondage erogenous zones (9/4/2007 6:34:39 PM)
"shinju" breast harness, suspension, hogtie with hair tied in. Legs tied over my shoulders to the bedposts.

iammachine -> RE: Bondage erogenous zones (9/4/2007 7:57:18 PM)
No particular body part, but if it involves being stretchy like a chinese acrobat, it's good times. [:D]

unbroken33 -> RE: Bondage erogenous zones (9/4/2007 8:06:26 PM)
For me, it starts with having my wrists bound above my head. One that really does it for me though is my forhead, believe it or not. Having me flat on a table with a strap over my forhead, or hands over my forhead, really sets it off. That's where i live and if i can't move that part of me, i know i'm not getting out. Another really hot button is having a hand over my mouth--OmG!

TreasureKY -> RE: Bondage erogenous zones (9/4/2007 8:35:47 PM)
While bondage of all sorts is fun, I enjoy it most when I'm tied hand and foot... and firmly to something. I like being helpless and if I can wiggle or move out of the way, then I'm not helpless.

RRafe -> RE: Bondage erogenous zones (9/4/2007 8:48:11 PM)
From the top side... I like the bondage to be very strict-but not threatening. Good bondage takes advantage of anatomy and how humans are jointed. And it needs to be well thought out and methodical-"It ain't no rodeo." I guess the control is what makes me hard-especially when I ask a bottom to try to get free-and they can't. One of my old partners once told me"It's not really bondage until I ask to be let go-and you say no."

SolarAndViolet -> RE: Bondage erogenous zones (9/4/2007 8:54:02 PM)
As simple as it sounds - spread eagle. Spread-eagle AND face-down is what really does it for me. Inability to draw my legs together, being totally exposed to the whims of my Master... that what does it for me, every time. 'violet'

chellekitty -> RE: Bondage erogenous zones (9/4/2007 10:53:47 PM)
throat...usually done with a collar attached to something sationary... edited to add...not erogenous per se, but relaxing for me is to be able to sleep with my ankle(s) restrained to something with wiggle room (hospital restraints are good for this, assuming there are no triggers)

petdave -> RE: Bondage erogenous zones (9/5/2007 5:09:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: unbroken33 For me, it starts with having my wrists bound above my head. One that really does it for me though is my forhead, believe it or not. Having me flat on a table with a strap over my forhead, or hands over my forhead, really sets it off. That's where i live and if i can't move that part of me, i know i'm not getting out. Another really hot button is having a hand over my mouth--OmG! Actually, that makes a lot of sense to me... i've heard in reference to hoods- "Control the head, and you control the person"- and that really applies for me. Bondage that's tight over my face- hoods, face harnesses, straps or rope around the forehead, chin, cheeks- puts me in headspace (heh) immediately, like, BANG. i can put on wrist an ankle cuffs like clothing, but a hood is something special. The other areas for me are the hands (bondage mittens, hands taped into balls, etc... really ties into my "pet" side) and upper thighs (very sexual, even more so than genital bondage, which usually has an element of pain to it... since the thighs are sensitive, usually don't get a lot of touch in day-to-day life, strong, and near the core of the body, i have an immediate reaction to feeling them strapped down or otherwise used for bondage)

e01n -> RE: Bondage erogenous zones (9/5/2007 5:46:02 AM)
<sigh - can't believe I'm going to put this out there for Her to use...> My thumbs. Immobilize them and basically I can't use my hands. Can't use my hands and it makes it hard to use my arms, which in turn sets up asymmetrical thinking which makes it hard to use the rest of my body. Doesn't mean that it's going to be easy to immobilize my thumbs in the first place, though... [;)]

Grlwithboy -> RE: Bondage erogenous zones (9/5/2007 5:57:28 AM)
I bottom to bondage as well as tie it. The best feelings of bondge I've found come from self-bondage - it satisfies my enjoyment of bondage and my control freak nature. I really like things that produce a stretch, ankle to thigh, shoulders pulled back, suspension. I've been experimenting with self-suspension and my sub as a spotter/assistant a little bit. I also like balled up "sack of potatoes" positions that let me zone out. I also get off on the visual allure of bondage on me, but like to put it there myself. I liken it to a crossdresser looking in the mirror and getting himself off, versus one who wants to be "forced" by someone else. I think rope puts me where Shavasana is supposed to put me in yoga.

chellekitty -> RE: Bondage erogenous zones (9/5/2007 6:49:31 AM)
i am sorry e01n....but i had mental images of rodeo's, calf wrestling and a nice roll of duct tape...riding up to you and pouncing and duct taping both your thumbs to one of your big toes together then jumping up and holding my hands in the air and looking around for an official time....4.538 seconds! woohoo.... edited for...darn it when you forget one little word...

Celeste43 -> RE: Bondage erogenous zones (9/5/2007 6:54:49 AM)
Blindfold first off. It makes me soft and submissive and totally relaxed so I don't fight anything, either mentally or physically. And slowly drawing a rope between my big toe and the one next to it is insanely arousing. Tying individual toes and fingers is iffy simply because they need undoing so quickly and that can ruin headspace.

chellekitty -> RE: Bondage erogenous zones (9/5/2007 7:00:17 AM)
and thats why we have weaving....not everything needs to be knotted each and every turn...you can make it feel like every finger or every toe is individually restrained with one knot and undo/cut that knot and it all falls off... btw, why do we have such a coniption at the thought of cutting our rope off? not saying it should be done all the time...and that we have a coniption in cases of emergency...but...if its not working for you and undoing it would ruin head space, why did we buy those emt scissors?

e01n -> RE: Bondage erogenous zones (9/5/2007 11:28:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chellekitty: 4.538 seconds! woohoo.... That's 0.538 seconds too long... about the amount of time it takes for me to see that you're going for the thumb, allow the start of the wristlock and change the arm angle to use the same gesture to lock your arm and start the takedown.. One good thing about knowing what your weakness are: you learn how to adapt, adopt and overcome. But yeah, IF you get my thumbs, it starts a chain reaction...

Aimtoplease101 -> RE: Bondage erogenous zones (9/5/2007 11:36:04 AM)
It's not exactly responsive the question, but I tend to like partial restraint more than full immobilization. Since I'm usually physically larger than the Domme with whom I'm playing, enough restraint to permit her to "turn the tables" on me, so to speak, from a physical power perspective, is a turn on. That usually involves tying the arms either behind the back, behind the neck, or to the hips, and hobbling or binding the legs. Bondage that leaves my genitals and nipples exposed is a lot of fun, because it gives the Domme full reign over those sensitive body parts. At the same time, not being in total restraint creates the illusion of the ability to resist, and gives my Domme something to conquer, vanquish, and overcome. I find that dynamic very sexy. Regards, ATP

Grlwithboy -> RE: Bondage erogenous zones (9/5/2007 12:28:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chellekitty and thats why we have weaving....not everything needs to be knotted each and every turn...you can make it feel like every finger or every toe is individually restrained with one knot and undo/cut that knot and it all falls off... btw, why do we have such a coniption at the thought of cutting our rope off? not saying it should be done all the time...and that we have a coniption in cases of emergency...but...if its not working for you and undoing it would ruin head space, why did we buy those emt scissors? I would much rather cut cheap parachute than untie it and it's perfect for fingers and toes!

AFlyInYourWeb -> RE: Bondage erogenous zones (9/5/2007 3:14:03 PM)
Any restraint of my hands and arms will put me "in the zone", but wrists bound to ankles is somehow special....

Page: [1]

Collarchat.com © 2025

Terms of Service

4.699707E-02