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Padriag -> RE: the rules? (8/4/2005 4:53:05 AM)
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ORIGINAL: RandBcouple
Great replies!
i'll admit to having read "the rules" lol...well, that friend i told you all about, who swears by it, she gave me that book after my divorce....the book pretty much tells you that men are men, that you have to play hard to get...seem mysterious, say you're busy when you're not....keep them "intrigued", never call a guy, never return a missed call, well, you get the picture.....so, while i was reading that book, i kept thinking to myself, how could i possibly apply this to the relationship i'd like to have with a dom? (like i said, this isn't relevant to me anymore since i am happily married now to my Master.....this book i read some years ago)
In all honesty that sounds to me like a book on how to be rude and how to get passed over. If I call a girl and she does not return my phone call I move on to the next girl. If I write a girl on here and she does not reply, I move on to the next girl. If she's always busy, then I assume I'm not a priority to her and move on to the next girl. If she's so mysterious that I can't get a straight answer out of her, I assume she's hiding something and move on to the next girl. There are way too many single, attractive young women out there for me to waste my time on someone who is "playing hard to get". I'm not suggestion a woman throw herself at a man's feet (though I do find that endearing once I've collared her... [;)] ), just that a little courtesy and some responsiveness goes a long way. If I were going to sum it up in one line of advice... Women should respond to guys the way they'd want guys to respond to them.
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