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Collaring ceremonies - 9/6/2007 4:51:08 PM

KinkyJewishCpl

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Hi,

We are interested in having a collaring ceremony, and are looking for advice from o/Others with respect to this. We've never attended one, so we really don't have an idea as to what happens. Any advice will be appreciated.

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RE: Collaring ceremonies - 9/6/2007 4:59:16 PM

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Collaring ceremonies can be as diverse as weddings. There should be a fair amount of info on different sites though. Also, I would talk to people in your local lifestyle communities and get ideas from them.

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RE: Collaring ceremonies - 9/6/2007 5:16:08 PM

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If you Google the words "collaring ceremony" you'll have several different ceremonies to read. Another suggestion is to Google "handfasting." There is no official collaring ceremony that everyone uses.

May i suggest that you read over some of the ceremonies and then design a ceremony that will have significance for both of you. The ceremony that makes you feel happy will be the perfect ceremony.

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RE: Collaring ceremonies - 9/6/2007 5:29:57 PM

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In most collaring ceremonies that I have witnessed....The chatan has the kallah blow him before the ceremony for good luck....He just lifts his kittel and the kallah goes about her biz...

In many collaring ceremonies the badeken has been replaced by a latex mask...It is reminiscent of Rebecca covering her face before submitting to Isaac....The latex is a nice touch...And obviously by not allowing the kallah to see enhances the ceremony dramatically.

Now blinded by latex the kallah is guided under the chupah by the chatan....Please remove all jewelry..Piercings are allowed to stay in place and are said to be the only jewelry under the chupah that is tolerated by G-d. The kallah kneels to the right of the chatan.

Two cups are brought forward....the one with wine is given to the chatan while the kallah enjoys a glass of warm piss.

The collar is then presented by the chatan to the kallah....And that just about wraps up the ceremony. You might say some meaningless things about devotion, truth and honesty....And your endless pursuit of a sister slave for the kallah....But again we are drawing towards the climax of the ritual.

The kallah places a glass butt plug on the ground and the chatan smashes it with a paddle....Signifying the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem as well as signaling to the kallah that a much larger hunk of glass will be embedded in her ass in the not so distant future.

At this point the crowd will be shouting shit like "mozel tov" and by this time you will probably wish that you were no longer Jewish.

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RE: Collaring ceremonies - 9/6/2007 5:42:03 PM

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LOL..I swear I have to stop reading Domniguy before The Lord punishes me.

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RE: Collaring ceremonies - 9/6/2007 5:57:09 PM

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http://www.collarchat.com/m_628719/mpage_1/key_ceremonies/tm.htm#631684
ceremonies

http://www.collarchat.com/m_574595/mpage_1/key_collaring/tm.htm#574600
collaring and wedding ceremony

http://www.collarchat.com/m_291301/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#291301
Collar vs Wedding Ring

http://www.collarchat.com/m_247668/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#247668
ring or collar, what's the difference?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_151638/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#151638
Collar Ceremony

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RE: Collaring ceremonies - 9/6/2007 7:15:47 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

In most collaring ceremonies that I have witnessed....The chatan has the kallah blow him before the ceremony for good luck....He just lifts his kittel and the kallah goes about her biz...

In many collaring ceremonies the badeken has been replaced by a latex mask...It is reminiscent of Rebecca covering her face before submitting to Isaac....The latex is a nice touch...And obviously by not allowing the kallah to see enhances the ceremony dramatically.

Now blinded by latex the kallah is guided under the chupah by the chatan....Please remove all jewelry..Piercings are allowed to stay in place and are said to be the only jewelry under the chupah that is tolerated by G-d. The kallah kneels to the right of the chatan.

Two cups are brought forward....the one with wine is given to the chatan while the kallah enjoys a glass of warm piss.

The collar is then presented by the chatan to the kallah....And that just about wraps up the ceremony. You might say some meaningless things about devotion, truth and honesty....And your endless pursuit of a sister slave for the kallah....But again we are drawing towards the climax of the ritual.

The kallah places a glass butt plug on the ground and the chatan smashes it with a paddle....Signifying the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem as well as signaling to the kallah that a much larger hunk of glass will be embedded in her ass in the not so distant future.

At this point the crowd will be shouting shit like "mozel tov" and by this time you will probably wish that you were no longer Jewish.