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Hard Spankings & A Healthy Butt, Is it possible? - 7/14/2005 9:00:21 AM

plantlady64

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Hello All,
I just found my kinky side 2/05. I've found I love hard spankings. I even have decided I like the bruises a nice hard spanking leaves behind. As my levels are progressing I'm finding I like the spankings to be harder. A couple of weeks ago I had the hardest spanking with a flogger and cane I've taken to date. While I enjoyed it immensly it left a grey/blue complexion under the skin on my butt that's just beginning to go away now. At no time was my butt hurting me, but the color was definately not normal. My Master cut me off from a spanking of any kind for three weeks behind the color issue. I really like being spanked and don't want three weeks down time everytime I push my limits furthur.
1) Can getting spanked hard enough to bruise you deep under the skin even after the surface bruises go away be something that can lead to blood clots or other health risks?
2) Is there an amount of time you should leave between hard whippings even if you're not bruised?
3) How long does it take in training for a sub's butt to adjust and accept the hard stuff without causing these deep complexion changes?

Any advice would be greatly appreciated as I want the hard severe spankings and a healthy butt & don't see a way to have both.

Sincerely,
sub suzanne

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RE: Hard Spankings & A Healthy Butt, Is it possible? - 7/14/2005 9:06:55 AM

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1) Can getting spanked hard enough to bruise you deep under the skin even after the surface bruises go away be something that can lead to blood clots or other health risks?

Yes you can get deep bruises which last beyond the surface ones. Abusers and self-mutilators know this trick very well since it hurts like hell but doesn't leave visible marks.

And yes it CAN lead to other health risks since you can't see it and don't know exactly where it is and when you damage tissue it has to re-heal. More likely to occur however is what's known as "leatherbutt" when your skin continues to reheal multiple times, causing it to lose sensitivity.

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2) Is there an amount of time you should leave between hard whippings even if you're not bruised?

No hard and fast time, but allowing yourself to FULLY heal is best. Just remember, you're still in newbie frenzy phase, and lucky to have clubs to go to every weekend, houses to play at, etc. Most people don't have the TIME to play so hard and so often so it's not an issue at all.

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3) How long does it take in training for a sub's butt to adjust and accept the hard stuff without causing these deep complexion changes?

Do you WANT that to happen? Most people don't want to lose sensitivity as it just makes the top work more and more and makes it harder for the bottom to find someone to play with.

Take aspirin, ice the bruises immediately after, have someone massage them regularly, or massage them yourself.

I also found this nifty link: Spanking

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RE: Hard Spankings & A Healthy Butt, Is it possible? - 7/14/2005 10:37:31 AM

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Ice, massage, Arnica pellets 6x @Davids in columbia, also arnica gel directly on the bruises. start taking more vit. c into your diet, veggies &fruit . supplements of c.
As a female ages we tend to bruise easier also check to see if you might be low in iron, supplement in your diet, spinach, broccoli, collards ETC. each with a vit. c source will help to asimilate . Also bruising more as well as pain sensitivitey can be more or less depending on where you are in your cycle.at that time.

Lady Silver.

The people @ Davids Natural Food @ Wildlake Village Center are very knowledgeable.

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RE: Hard Spankings & A Healthy Butt, Is it possible? - 7/14/2005 4:29:55 PM

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I've been a lover of floggers for quite some time now. During my first experiences with them, I would have long drawn out sessions with a medium intensity flogger. It wasn't long before I started to question my dominant about bruises and the effects it would have. I'm extremely fair skin and tend bruise easily. A couple of hits and I might have bruises. So, it was hard to judge how long and hard the sessions should be. We weren't together that long and I eventually started a new relationship with someone who had a large collection of floggers and other such spanking implements. This dominant had years of experience and we discussed my concerns with bruising and yet wanting hard sessions. In this aspect, I'm a heavy masochist. Anyway, I learned about other tools that would deliver intense blows but not produce the bruising (i.e. quirts among other things). My dominant would use the floggers from the softest to the hardest but for shorter periods of time and then switch to other things like the quirt or whatnot. The sessions might be shorter but they were far more intense and without the bruising. I sure do miss that dominant!

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RE: Hard Spankings & A Healthy Butt, Is it possible? - 7/14/2005 7:50:48 PM

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To keep my butt hard and clean, I will occasionally go through the car wash, without the car. Those long, coarse strips, that go back and forth can get your butt conditioned sooner than you'd expect. However, duck when they hit you with the wax.A shiny butt is nice too, but it stings in the eyes.

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RE: Hard Spankings & A Healthy Butt, Is it possible? - 7/16/2005 6:38:36 PM

mossy

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hey! i thought i was the only one who used the car wash for conditioning?
well Fastlane i like to share great idea isn't it....