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Rules - 9/8/2007 2:12:46 AM   
Twice


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Status: offline 		So the boyfriend/top/maybe-Dom I mentioned earlier (who I shall hereon call Ducky) and I are back in the swing of kink (it took some talking but I got him to feel less guilty and he's enjoying himself again).  Tonight, as part of play, he bought me a new toy (my old vibrating egg broke a few months back) and told me I had it for a week free to use when I wanted or have him use on me, but that there had to be one very specific rule for it.  After thinking for awhile, he decided the rule was up to me, with his approval, of course.  (This is especially evil because I HAAAAAAAATE decisions.  Always.  Not even just sexually.)

So, I have to come up with an acceptable restriction or I lose it.  And I likes it a lot.  So... any ideas?


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RE: Rules - 9/8/2007 2:22:41 AM   
MstrSkyWoIf


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Twice

So the boyfriend/top/maybe-Dom I mentioned earlier (who I shall hereon call Ducky) and I are back in the swing of kink (it took some talking but I got him to feel less guilty and he's enjoying himself again).  Tonight, as part of play, he bought me a new toy (my old vibrating egg broke a few months back) and told me I had it for a week free to use when I wanted or have him use on me, but that there had to be one very specific rule for it.  After thinking for awhile, he decided the rule was up to me, with his approval, of course.  (This is especially evil because I HAAAAAAAATE decisions.  Always.  Not even just sexually.)

So, I have to come up with an acceptable restriction or I lose it.  And I likes it a lot.  So... any ideas?



Tell him you want the rule to be you must have at lease two orgasm's each time you use it, that you are not allowed to stop playing with it until you have had the minimum number of two. After you suggest this rule he will come up with one on his own.

< Message edited by MstrSkyWoIf -- 9/8/2007 2:45:53 AM >

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RE: Rules - 9/8/2007 2:34:42 AM   
dvart


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Status: offline 		Depends a bit on your situation, but how about that you can only use it on yourself when you are in the same room as him ?
Or you have to write a diary entry each time you use it.
Or you can only use it at certain times of the day.
Or you are not allowed to cum.
Or you are only allowed to use it in a public toilet (restroom) so others get to hear your moans.
Or maybe you get punished every time you use it.
Or you have to use it after Dinner each night.
Somehow restrictions don't make sense if he is going to use it on you because then that is restricting him.
Hope this helps, good luck.

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RE: Rules - 9/8/2007 8:07:36 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		I applaud you guys working together and keeping things fun and involved- going the route of being all serious and making him domly dom seems like it would have been too suffocating and not at all what your relationship really needs.

I'd say perhaps you can only use it when you already have nipple clamps on?

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RE: Rules - 9/8/2007 8:19:52 AM   
RRafe


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Status: offline 		Be careful what you ask for, it may seem like a great idea at the time................

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RE: Rules - 9/8/2007 9:10:13 AM   
pleasureforck


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Status: offline 		I'm only allowed to use toys without permission and he tells me how many orgasms I'm allowed. I don't  like these rules but I do love that he gives me rules so I don't complain. Since you get to pick be careful not to pick a rule you will hate after awhile.

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RE: Rules - 9/8/2007 3:27:31 PM   
fairerthanshe


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Status: offline 		How about everytime you use it, you have to send him a text message saying, "Thank you for this(these) orgasm(s)."  That way he will know you have used it and you will be thinking of him when you do.

Have a great time with your new toy!

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RE: Rules - 9/8/2007 3:42:26 PM   
curiouspet55


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Status: offline 		This sounds like fun, can I play too?

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RE: Rules - 9/8/2007 4:05:15 PM   
Babybass


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Status: offline 		When i orgasm alone I have to email or text with minute detail of exactly what I was imagining the whole time - this way he knows every orgam I have and also gets a glimpse into my mind and what makes me tick!! Maybe that could be your rule!

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RE: Rules - 9/8/2007 5:34:52 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		LOL..Nice way to shake it up..have fun!!!/Tempting

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RE: Rules - 9/8/2007 5:35:18 PM   
Grlwithboy


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Status: offline 		I like "you've got to tell me in X words or less (I like concise) what you were thinking about when you use it."


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RE: Rules - 9/8/2007 5:45:29 PM   
celticlord2112


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Status: offline 		Perhaps a rule to act against type--if you're quiet during orgasm, be loud; if you're loud, be silent.

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RE: Rules - 9/8/2007 7:52:27 PM   
Spyke1985


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ORIGINAL: celticlord2112

Perhaps a rule to act against type--if you're quiet during orgasm, be loud; if you're loud, be silent.


I like that one, but what about adding to it:

If she doesn't follow the rule, he takes it away AND gets to pick a 'torture'.


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RE: Rules - 9/9/2007 12:03:53 AM   
Twice


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Spyke1985

quote:

ORIGINAL: celticlord2112

Perhaps a rule to act against type--if you're quiet during orgasm, be loud; if you're loud, be silent.


I like that one, but what about adding to it:

If she doesn't follow the rule, he takes it away AND gets to pick a 'torture'.



The problem with this one is I live in a dorm, so while I naturally am... very... loud, I already have to stiffle it because I CAN'T be loud.  So depending how you want to look at it, it's either already being done or can't be.  :(


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RE: Rules - 9/9/2007 4:42:34 AM   
Focus50


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Status: offline 		Focus' Egg Rule.
 
Girl may use egg all she wants but there will be only *one* set of batteries per month.
 
Or maybe per week etc - need some trialing to determine how long batteries last, but you get the idea....
 
Focus.

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