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How do you find a good Domme? - 9/8/2007 12:18:17 PM

ChristaC

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Well I just got back from a 2 day adventure with a Mistress from here and had an ok time. It was a safe and made me feel like it is ok to meet people from the net. She was cute and fun to talk with, but in BDSM.......

So a pro Mistress was so only in name and bound me with clips and velcro, never a real knot. She was one of those lacking dommes that just treats you as meat and beats you and has no real depth of skill. The only thing that was of any note was I slept bound to a cross and she woke me up by fucking me with a broom. Also, she was cute, like her photo, I love style, be it BDSM or my daily life, but she had on cheap cotton k-mart black panties and bra, which rather then frame her sexy body, made her look lack luster and killed my anticipation.

We met for drinks had fun talking and I saw how she was real, but as a Mistress she was so lacking. Is there a way I can see talking with a Domme if they have skill or not? Well I a new and still learning.

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RE: How do you find a good Domme? - 9/8/2007 1:20:30 PM

Philostrate

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Finding out who has the skills you desire will likely be difficult over the net. I for one like to think that I have the creativity and forethought to set the scene but I am constantly trying to improve in other areas such as rope work.

One suggestion I would give you is to mention what you like to whomever you are interested in and see how they respond. Often someone will talk about a subject such as rope for example but it will quickly come out that they haven't even the slightest clue about gauges or other basics. That may help you get a feel for whether they are legitimate or just playing along.

Hope that helps.

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