Play time frequency....

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Every day.

11% (3)

Several Times a Week.

29% (8)

Weekends.

7% (2)

Once a Month.

11% (3)

Several Times a Month.

3% (1)

When My busy Life Allows.

29% (8)

People Actually Do This Stuff in Real Life?

7% (2)

Total Votes : 27

(last vote on : 2/4/2008 2:53:08 AM)
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LDRandAstarte -> Play time frequency.... (9/8/2007 2:38:20 PM)
play/scene/practice BDSM? We had a sub who was under consideration, for about a month now. We had met face to face. A play date was being considered for a future date. And the sub in question brought up that she expected to be "used" several times a week at the least. This kind of frequency is not what We are looking for in a prospective playtoy anyway. We have each other and are looking, as Our profile says; an occasional sub for both of Us to use once in a while. So that brought the following question to mind. Now I know there are folks here who live the lifestyle 24/7, We do as well. So I am not talking about the D/s dynamic of the relationship. What I am looking for here is, how often do you drag out the toys and or implements of pain, pleasure and/or tease and torture and actually get down to the nitty gritty of BDSM action?

SunNMoon -> RE: Play time frequency.... (9/8/2007 2:53:15 PM)
Well ideally for me it would be several times a week, but right now I'm single so... zero.[8\|]

Joseff -> RE: Play time frequency.... (9/8/2007 3:10:48 PM)
When we started out together, I had to force myself to untie her and go to work. Now we're down to about once a month, terrible how life gets in the way. Joseff

softpjOS -> RE: Play time frequency.... (9/8/2007 3:16:56 PM)
Almost clicked "people actually do this stuff" lol If: The dog has been fed let out to potty cats amused teenagers gone/sleeping/engrossed in the latest video game phone service interupted by an act of god (cuz we never turn it off ourselves) extended family otherwise entertained and not beating down the door personal book keeping/filing caught up housework/laundry done... vehicle maintence/washing is complete THEN we can get down to looking for that darned key to the toy truck........and if we still have energy after all that...... (F) when our busy lives allow it To "expect" anything else is nothing short of living in a fantasy world OR your single/no family and independantly wealthy. And if thats the case...where were you when i was single? [:D] kidding!!!!!!

fairerthanshe -> RE: Play time frequency.... (9/8/2007 3:37:43 PM)
We get to spend weekends together as we both work, he's in school, i have dance classes, life in general keeps us apart. During the 2 days we get without other obligations, we scene 3-4 times and more if there are play parties. We also do regular hypnosis sessions, but unless they are intertwined with other play, I consider it more like "training" than like "playing". well wishes ~ fairer than she

lonlyrossInNeed -> RE: Play time frequency.... (9/8/2007 6:31:13 PM)
I try to meet someone to play with when ever i go to a play party ;) usually twice a month sometimes even more

earthycouple -> RE: Play time frequency.... (9/8/2007 6:37:54 PM)
hey ross, where ya been? and whenever time allows.

YourhandMyAss -> RE: Play time frequency.... (9/8/2007 6:51:05 PM)
No it's not. You just have to be not to busy to do play several times a week. To expect to play or even to do so several times a week's not fantasy if you're not to busy to do so. Or if you make it a big enough priority to schedual time for yourselfs. quote: ORIGINAL: softpjOS To "expect" anything else is nothing short of living in a fantasy world OR your single/no family and independantly wealthy. And if thats the case...where were you when i was single? [:D] kidding!!!!!!

YourhandMyAss -> RE: Play time frequency.... (9/8/2007 6:52:50 PM)
I would go to play parties every other day or so if I had transportation to go to them with, or money for a cab, as for play with my partner, I'd expect to play every week. quote: ORIGINAL: LDRandAstarte So that brought the following question to mind. Now I know there are folks here who live the lifestyle 24/7, We do as well. So I am not talking about the D/s dynamic of the relationship. What I am looking for here is, how often do you drag out the toys and or implements of pain, pleasure and/or tease and torture and actually get down to the nitty gritty of BDSM action?

SweetSarijane -> RE: Play time frequency.... (9/8/2007 7:02:57 PM)
I average play once a month, occasionally 2-3 times a month, sometimes (though rarely) skip a month.

adoracat -> RE: Play time frequency.... (9/8/2007 7:44:51 PM)
when hubby's work schedule allows me time to have company when Sir is able to visit when i'm able to be alone in the house (no imp imping about) when i'm able to take it, physically when all the stars align perfectly yes, then i take great pleasure in submitting, and being allowed playtime. kitten...who hates waiting

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