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Love the comments from some kind "dominants" ... - 9/8/2007 3:15:48 PM   
winterlight


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Status: offline 		Here is my favorite: Why would a Dom be interested in a woman that is a quarter of a ton, flabby bitch?

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RE: Love the comments from some kind "dominants&qu... - 9/8/2007 3:35:27 PM   
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RE: Love the comments from some kind "dominants&qu... - 9/8/2007 3:51:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: winterlight

Here is my favorite: Why would a Dom be interested in a woman that is a quarter of a ton, flabby bitch?




Could respond back with

"Why would a submissive be interested in a prejudiced, shallow, and nasty Dom?"

Just me, etc.

Sinergy

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RE: Love the comments from some kind "dominants&qu... - 9/8/2007 4:08:30 PM   
sweetNsmartBBW


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Status: offline 		I know it's easier said than done, but try not to let it bother you.  While people can be cruel, they can only upset you or hurt your feelings if you allow it.  Don't give inconsiderate, rude individuals that kind of power over you.  Some men are not attracted to BBW's- but that's okay...being a jerk about it is NOT.  Some folks prefer blondes, or people with brown eyes, or are into long shapely legs...or whatever.  The point being this: there are PLENTY of men that do not just tolerate the bbw body type- but actually prefer it.  And then, there are those that look for things that can't be defined by any physical attribute- and instead seek a good heart, a loving soul, and see treasures that others pass by...

As long as you are content with who you are- don't let anybody else put you down.  I'm a bbw- but I also happen to know that I'm sexy, cute, intelligent, genuine- and that my weight is just one piece of who I am- and it's a piece that I'm quite alright with.  Some people smoke, others drink- those habits tend not to end up showing on the outside as much.  Food is my 'vice' and my crutch.  It's just the way it's been for me...and if that never changes, so be it.  It does not mean I have any less confidence or pride in who I am than I would if I were thinner.      

I have run across those kinds of 'doms', too.  Interestingly enough, I have come to the point where I'm okay with those kind of remarks- tells me an awful lot about a guy right from the beginning- and ~I~ would never have wanted to be with an arrogant and insenitive man like that any way- so it all works out in the end.  I don't end up wasting my valuable time on a loser- and can go about speaking with people that are much more suitable as friends, partners, etc..   

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RE: Love the comments from some kind "dominants&qu... - 9/8/2007 4:17:57 PM   
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RE: Love the comments from some kind "dominants&qu... - 9/8/2007 4:22:18 PM   
smilezz


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Status: offline 		Or................you could always use my standard reply:
I may be fat.....but you're ugly and I CAN LOOSE weight.   >smirks<

Just another one of my smartass remarks coming to you from 9 hours of painting.  

have a great weekend!

~smilezz~

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RE: Love the comments from some kind "dominants&qu... - 9/8/2007 5:04:36 PM   
sharainks


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Status: offline 		Well a ton is 2000 lbs.  Your stated weight does not make you a quarter ton.   Your might have responded with something like and why would a sub want someone who apparently failed math in school?

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RE: Love the comments from some kind "dominants&qu... - 9/8/2007 5:13:16 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: smilezz

Or................you could always use my standard reply:
I may be fat.....but you're ugly and I CAN LOOSE weight.   >smirks<

Just another one of my smartass remarks coming to you from 9 hours of painting.  

have a great weekend!

~smilezz~


i say "i know im fat, but youre delusional, and i can be thin before you can be sane..."

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RE: Love the comments from some kind "dominants&qu... - 9/8/2007 5:26:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well, thats a pretty silly thing to say - but I dont think you should really take it seriously. People use the internet as a way to vent off pent-up frustrations. I take comments over the internet (about me, especially) as seriously as the ramblings of my 7 year old nephew. Well actually I take my nephew more seriously.

Anyway one thing with regards to this site. I joined this site with the primary intention of getting some BDSM action - but the way I see it, many people come here to just get laid or start an LTR. I am not exactly sure if thats the right way to get a BDSM partner or to start a relationship.

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RE: Love the comments from some kind "dominants&qu... - 9/8/2007 5:38:31 PM   
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RE: Love the comments from some kind "dominants&qu... - 9/8/2007 5:47:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		Simply picture frustrated male having a bad day and taking it out on someone who means nothing to him..Realise first off,he lacks self control, he lacks simple manners, courtesy,or even respect..and I mean respect for himself as well as others..so hence he lacks self confidence...conclusion...one that is so lacking in so many ways is more than likely not a Dominant...just one pissed off little boy...Tempting

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RE: Love the comments from some kind "dominants&qu... - 9/8/2007 6:02:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		lol...I love that line smilez...

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RE: Love the comments from some kind "dominants&qu... - 9/9/2007 7:06:12 AM   
winterlight


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Status: offline 		i forgot to add the fuck word in that comment.. nice guy....

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RE: Love the comments from some kind "dominants&qu... - 9/9/2007 7:29:01 AM   
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Status: offline 		i have, to my surprise, received hundreds of msgs here in the past year and probably only half a dozen were similar to the one you posted.  It is a shame that they don't go by the adage .. "If you can't say someothing nice about someone, don't say anything at all'  i usually am tempted to write back asking why they felt the need to waste their time typing a msg to someone that disgusts them so much but, instead, i just feel sorry that their life is so empty that they need to perform such an act in the first place.

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RE: Love the comments from some kind "dominants&qu... - 9/9/2007 7:36:39 AM   
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Status: offline 		i'm not a thin gal.  i know this.  i think the comment that floored me most was "well you're a bit thin for my tasted but i could probably get over it..."

'scuse me??  *shakes head*  he'd like me less now, i'm still losing weight....

kitten, whose Sir appreciates her for the intangible things, not just the appearances...

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RE: Love the comments from some kind "dominants&qu... - 9/9/2007 8:56:06 AM   
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ORIGINAL: winterlight

Here is my favorite: Why would a Dom be interested in a woman that is a quarter of a ton, flabby bitch?




I heard of a friend who was dining with another friend. She is a big girl. And in the middle of the dinner a woman approaches her and asks her to stop eating, because she is a pig and a visual pollution for the rest of the diners in the place.

She replied: I may be fat, but I can diet and lose weight. You on the other hand are so severely ugly, that even the most skilled plastic surgeons wouldn't know what to do with you. Now go and die bitch.

I would have loved to be a fly on the wall to see her face

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RE: Love the comments from some kind "dominants&qu... - 9/9/2007 12:04:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		        That always cracks me up how people can insult others based ONLY on their looks...but they fail to realize that deep down inside they have a kind of ugly that is forever more disturbing.........ignorance.

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RE: Love the comments from some kind "dominants&qu... - 9/9/2007 1:45:15 PM   
nyrisa


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Status: offline 		Here is a back and forth exchange that started from some dumbass deciding to email me because he didn't like it that my profile requests no penis photos be sent to me. Some people are just mind boggling in their stupidity. Just pity them, if you can.


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08/01/07
i would say if u list swinging" on your ad, ooops poly, that might lead to like guys crotch shots.. and whats up with all the dont like housework" stuff.. i have met more then one subbie female, its all about cleaniness, really, i am not obcessive compulsive, but their places are a mess, dirty dishes for days, dirty laundry, i mean, yuck!

nyrisa on 8/1/07 at 4:28 PM:
I am wondering why you chose to send me a message. And what's up with the poor spelling and punctuation? There are spell check features that will make your text more attractive, even if the message itself is not up to snuff.


happytrails on 8/1/07 at 4:34 PM:
good question.. ah, cause u are on a public site thats free? and u complain about men with dick shots, cept u state u want poly"swinger affairs on profile? and like 3, after complaining bout men with dick shots, u post a pic where u are nude to the waist, i mean,what???? grammar, syntax, etc? like u are gonna win a spelling bee with out spell check? and like everybody in the uk , u being from the south, would not laugh at your spelling, syntax, pronounciation of english"? all english is is french and german, francais und et deutch.. mixed togather.. u know, battle of hastings, 1066.. i mean, why dont u get a life and act your age?


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My dear soul......I do have a life. I am not the one who flips through profiles and takes moments out of life to write negative messages to strangers. Honestly, is your life really so boring? As far as acting your age, you appear to be some years older than me. Should you not set a good example, yourself?

Now, I really have no interest in hearing further from you. I actually had no interest in hearing from you the first time. So, farewell. I really do hope you can find a more meaningful way to spend the time you have left upon this planet. I would not bet money on it, but hope springs eternal.

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RE: Love the comments from some kind "dominants&qu... - 9/9/2007 1:52:29 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: winterlight

Here is my favorite: Why would a Dom be interested in a woman that is a quarter of a ton, flabby bitch?




I am thin ! I've often wished I wasn't. .
I've been told I'm too thin. .
asked if I will break,
been told by perfect strangers in a queue, " oh my god you're so thin, I'd like to put some meat on your bones"
been told. . next to you I look fat, can't you gain some weight
Right before a scene. . " You're so thin, you don't have aids do you?"

The grass is never greener on the other side, it's just a different shade of green.

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RE: Love the comments from some kind "dominants&qu... - 9/9/2007 2:00:25 PM   
cbaby


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Status: offline 		*LOL - dying here*.....some people are so petty.....before you start throwing rocks, remember you live in a glass house and if you think you are hurting someone's feelings by telling them they are big, bbw, bhm (what have you) the question begs to be asked...........you don't think they know this and there is no law against stupidity, some just take advantage of that

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