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BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Femdommes and Male Domes (7/27/2005 2:00:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: fastlane I've never been more confused in my life. Well except for that time I thought she was a she and she was a he. [sm=lol.gif][sm=lol.gif][sm=lol.gif] So, what did you do? [8D] M

LadyAngelika -> RE: Femdommes and Male Domes (7/27/2005 4:46:31 AM)
quote: I'll take Lady A to Spark's in midtown. You will huh? New York city has great Italian food actually. Last time I was there I went to fun little Italian restaurant across the street from Paddles. Never went to Paddles! LOL. Oh and to stay on topic, I had dinner with 2 of the most mouth watering Doms ;) Rapier, TopCat (Lawrence) and a sub friend of TopCat's. Let me tell you I was permantly wet all evening! Something to be said about a hot strong man... or two! ;) - LA

fastlane -> RE: Femdommes and Male Domes (7/27/2005 10:00:36 AM)
M, ask what did I do, when I found out he was a she? I said "Mister, you look great in hoes, but I can't be with someone who has bigger hands than mine." You see M, I like women with small hands because it makes my Dick look bigger!

LilyOR -> RE: Femdommes and Male Domes (7/27/2005 10:21:08 AM)
I used to bottom, then I switched, now I find myself most attracted to topping. But really, I've found that my bottom line isn't really my sexual orientation, as I previously thought. For a serious partnership, it's chemistry, compatability, communication, and shared goals and views on life. I mean, if I feel strong chemistry for a guy, I'm gonna WANT him, regardless of how we end up. I have a very strong personality, and could be considered a dominant persona, but I think it's possible that I could come to a loving long term thing with a bottom, a top OR a switch, despite my interest in "loving manipulation". My bottom line is that I need to be with a partner who is dominant in vanilla life: confident, healthy, goal oriented, and well balanced. I want a partner who can bring an equal amount to the tabla as myself. The chemistry, I feel, takes care of the sex.

LilyOR -> RE: Femdommes and Male Domes (7/27/2005 10:33:43 AM)
Does anyone here identify with the concept of a "Dominant submissive"? What I mean by that is simply a person who is very strong, confident, etc...in their day to day life, but likes to botom or submit in the context of a romantic relationship. I, for one, can't stand men who identify as sexually submissive, and ACT submissive all the time. Big turn off.

SadisticPrincess -> RE: Femdommes and Male Domes (7/27/2005 11:24:26 AM)
Yes, Lily, Midori does a class that deals with the idea of dominant submissives, and service tops..........there are so many permutations to submission and dominance, it's sad that some feel that they have to fit into only one stereotype. (personally, I can't stand the crawlers and grovellers.......but hey! that means more companions for those that do want them!)

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Femdommes and Male Domes (7/27/2005 12:41:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: fastlane I said "Mister, you look great in hoes, but I can't be with someone who has bigger hands than mine." You see M, I like women with small hands because it makes my Dick look bigger! [sm=lol.gif][sm=lol.gif][sm=lol.gif] ROTFLMAO. I'm disappointed, thought you would have had more fun with such a surprising discovery you wuss![;)]M

TallDarkAndWitty -> RE: Femdommes and Male Domes (7/27/2005 1:47:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SadisticPrincess Yes, Lily, Midori does a class that deals with the idea of dominant submissives, and service tops... I've always considered myself a bit of a service top (though it really isn't much more then being a gentlemen, for the most part). I open doors, hold out chairs, and I like to pay for things for the women in my life. When it comes to sex, I care very little about my own orgasm, instead much prefering to bring my partner off multiple times. All of that said, I must be in complete control when I do any of these things. If I feel I must do any of it, I simply won't do it. Lady A's delicious Dom friend, Topcat, once described relationships in a way that has never left my mind. We all submit to the dynamic, he wrote. Tops submit by getting their way, bottoms submit by giving in to the Tops. Quite profound... I miss his posts... Taggard

LadyAngelika -> RE: Femdommes and Male Domes (7/27/2005 3:51:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LilyOR Does anyone here identify with the concept of a "Dominant submissive"? What I mean by that is simply a person who is very strong, confident, etc...in their day to day life, but likes to botom or submit in the context of a romantic relationship. You've just described my boy. quote: I, for one, can't stand men who identify as sexually submissive, and ACT submissive all the time. Big turn off. "Can't stand" is a strong statement as I respect people's desire to be how they want to be, but I would say that they would be ill-matched with me. - LA

LadyAngelika -> RE: Femdommes and Male Domes (7/27/2005 3:54:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TallDarkAndWitty Lady A's delicious Dom friend, Topcat, once described relationships in a way that has never left my mind. We all submit to the dynamic, he wrote. Tops submit by getting their way, bottoms submit by giving in to the Tops. Quite profound... I miss his posts... Taggard Profound indeed. And very true... I miss his posts as well. - LA

SadisticPrincess -> RE: Femdommes and Male Domes (7/27/2005 3:54:19 PM)
I respect how folks want to be as well, and I would never try to change their essential natures or kinks. But I go along with "Can't stand" as a personal preference.

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