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uk keyholding - 7/15/2005 2:56:51 PM

subpete

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cb3000 wearer and very much enjoying the self locking chastity, i wonder how do people go about finding a female whom can both be trusted and understand male chastity?
whilst i enjoy my current periods of self abstenance - there is no doubt that i have to ask myself what am i currently getting from it? and my only conclusion is to find a freind who i can 'enjoy' this with.
i guess that we all have different likes and dislikes, but i have no idea how to meet a female who has the same interests as me and who will be willing to be an honest and honourable person, someone who i will end up 'climbing the walls for'
would appreaciate the groups help and answers

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RE: uk keyholding - 7/15/2005 5:29:38 PM

luvdragonx

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Ok, i'll bite. i don't know anything about male chastity. Why is it something you've chosen to do? What do you get out of it? What do you hope to find in someone else? Rather, what would you want/need them to do for you?

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RE: uk keyholding - 7/15/2005 6:33:08 PM

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pete, go to local groups and you'll find Fem Doms there. Make friends, be nice then ask if they are interested (perhaps not all on the same night!). Wear your device when you go to events so that those interested can easily see it.

BTW, how is the CB3000? My sub wears the curve, but it isn't escape proof. But, since we do it for bondage and control, not actually chastity, it still works. Even so, I had to command him to "stop messing with it"; he kept trying to see if he could get out of it. LOL

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RE: uk keyholding - 7/15/2005 6:37:33 PM

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dragon,

I can't speak for pete, but I know two main reasons why men like chastity. The main one is to be controlled. Giving someone control over something so important to you is a BIG deal. The other reason, perhaps not so wide spread, is just for the bondage type feelings. This is why my sub requested it. I wear the key 24/7 even though he doesn't wear it 24/7.

Now, the reasons why some women put men in chastity is slightly different. It's to take control...and to monitor...and to ensure that the sub isn't cheating. Personally, if I HAVE to have a man in chastity to keep him from masturbating when I told him he couldn't, then he's not worth my time since he's disobeying me.

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RE: uk keyholding - 7/17/2005 8:49:31 PM

MistressTabitha

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Maybe reading up on this may help to understand?

http://www.chastity-uk.co.uk/new.htm

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