littlebitxxx -> RE: First Question! (9/11/2007 5:19:45 PM)
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ORIGINAL: GrizzlyBear Possible, yes; likely, no. All depends on how easily you orgasm, how you process pain, and to some extent on how you are spanked. Very true. There is an area called the "sweet spot" right around the juncture of thighs and buttocks, where the nerves share branches with the nerves that serve the genital area. Impacts there, especially thuddy ones, tend to produce diffuse sensations that may stimulate the nerves that produce orgasm. Use of heavy implements such as a hairbrush, rods or heavy canes on this area can actually cause the flesh around the vagina and clitoris to vibrate, which also helps. Not everyone has that particular "sweet spot". Mine is actually up between my shoulder blades. The juncture of thighs and buttocks just plain hurts ;) Spanking directly on the vulva area can produce orgasm. The intensity and rhythm is usually pretty important. I'd say VERY important. A flogger would do it, a cane wouldn't. There are some who can orgasm from nearly any sort of impact play almost anywhere on the body. They seem to naturally process pain in an erotic way; and may get this effect entirely on their own, without any special techniques or training. This is not common at all, and should certainly not be expected. You been spying on me? lol It may help to make it a conditioned response; that is, to repeatedly combine impact play with direct stimulation of the genitals, such as with a vibrator, that will reliably produce orgasm Eventually the impact play alone may have the same effect. A very good introduction technique - to associate the pain with pleasure until the brain does it automatically. It will definitely help if you communicate to your partner which things he does produce the most sexual sensations. And if you are incoherent whilst flying, rest assured he will know ;) Good luck and enjoy your journey. The ability to equate pain with pleasure and orgasm from just straight pain is a process that can take a long time but is well worth the effort. Being a pain slut helps of course but even then not all pain sluts arrive at orgasm. Some like the pain just for itself. Some, like me, flip back and forth...I don't always cum during a session but can still fly and enjoy it all. To each his/her own basically. Love what you do and you'll always do what you love.
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