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YourhandMyAss -> For those of you who refuse to agree to your partner having sexual control. (9/12/2007 4:01:08 PM)
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Ok, so we know there are people who'd agree to have their sexual responces limited, Ie why they canplay with who they can't when they can/can't ask permission ect ect, However this thread is about those who do not or would not agree to having their sexuality limited and why not. Why wouldn't you agree to those things being controlled.
I would not agree to orgasm control/ denial, because for me, Having a dominant, is all about learning how to be more orgasmic, easier to become orgasmic and a area for sexual growth. Orgsm denial/ control goes against that whole purpose in my mind.
In my ideal world I wouldn't allow who I played with to be controlled either, because I enjoy many diffrent people and I feel I am wired to enjoy play with others, many diffrent kinds of play too, and someone limiting what I could do and with who would be stiffling one of my needs. However I do agree to limits on who and what I play and do, so that's only in my ideal world.
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