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Enema Play...Ideas Please - 7/16/2005 10:29:58 AM

mselisetoyou

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Novice Domme here.

I'm playing with my fiance sub (more experienced than I) and I've asked him to run a bath. I've administered an enema, inserted a plug, told him to get in the tub and shave his legs/balls. I'm loving this scene... He's out of the tub, dried and powdered and I tell him he is permitted to release the enema. He asks me - in the sweetest way - whether I want him to do this alone or whether I'm going to stay with him to make certain he does it right.

Well, I feel a slight panic. This was not a question I had anticipated. I don't know why but I hadn't. Not wanting to lose control of our play during my moment of uncertainty, I tell him to come out of the bathroom when he's finished. I wish I had stayed with him because when we lost contact physical contact with one another, the scene sort of cooled off and became a bit disjointed.

I have a few questions. They may seem silly but I hope not.

1) Is there an incorrect way to relieve oneself following the administration of an enema?

2) Any ideas about how I could extend the play by coming up with some rule for my sub to follow when relieving himself? I'm perhaps thinking I could have directed his actions more and given him some groundrules.

3) What tips can you offer when you have planned a scene and your partner innocently asks a question or causes a deviation that gives you causes uncertainty (even if for a second or two) while trying to manage a scene?

Thanks.

ME

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RE: Enema Play...Ideas Please - 7/16/2005 5:02:18 PM

KCAttitude

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Excellant question.
I thought about this and here's what I came up with.

Correct way to expel an enema?? Hmm I can only think that the incorrect way would be to leave the toilet before 'everything' has been expelled. lol Often when he thinks he's finished, he's really not and should sit for a few more moments just to be sure.
CLEANING afterwards. Now that his insides are all clean and ready for play, make sure that he cleans his outside appropriately. :) Making him bend over and show You that it's been properly cleaned, You inspecting to make sure it's done the way You want it.

Just the few thoughts I came up with. Hope it helps.

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RE: Enema Play...Ideas Please - 7/18/2005 7:04:40 AM

footmistressK

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I think the slave should expel only to be filled again.

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