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aquarius27 -> New to all this jazz! (9/13/2007 8:37:47 PM)
Im new smiles I would like to learn more about being a sub does anyone have any good websites that would help? Or just some all around tips to newbies?

TreasureKY -> RE: New to all this jazz! (9/13/2007 8:41:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: aquarius27 Im new smiles I would like to learn more about being a sub does anyone have any good websites that would help? Or just some all around tips to newbies? There's loads of information on the web, but it really depends upon what you are interested in. There's also a great deal of good information right here on the forums. Spend some time browsing through old threads and reading the new ones... don't be shy and jump in to ask questions where you have them.

earthycouple -> RE: New to all this jazz! (9/13/2007 8:43:36 PM)
what she said S

Aileen68 -> RE: New to all this jazz! (9/13/2007 8:45:09 PM)
You didn't get the official handbook when you joined??? edited to add...domiguy is the head of the welcoming committee. If you email him on the other side I'm sure he'll mail out your handbook pronto.

Sweet1Maybe4U -> RE: New to all this jazz! (9/13/2007 8:46:01 PM)
ive learned alot from these forums and read thru them as often as i can for tips on all kinds of things. i also read www.castlerealm.com when i first started out. It helped me understand many different points on Doms and subs. Maybe it would help you also. hugs

aquarius27 -> RE: New to all this jazz! (9/13/2007 8:46:30 PM)
Handbook?

jaymckenas -> RE: New to all this jazz! (9/13/2007 8:47:18 PM)
Welcome Aqua---- Basically my advice would be to read the forums, though that's already been covered... It's impossible to just outline what D/s is, it's personalized case by case---- so wander around, see what you see and see where your interests lie. Best wishes on your journey, Jayson

Aileen68 -> RE: New to all this jazz! (9/13/2007 8:50:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: aquarius27 Handbook? I edited my post above. It has all the info you need.

lighthearted -> RE: New to all this jazz! (9/13/2007 9:01:48 PM)
lookit Donna's new photo!

heartcream -> RE: New to all this jazz! (9/13/2007 9:04:31 PM)
hmmmm i tried to get a dorito out of domiguy --but no go. maybe cuz i dint get my handbook first?

litleone8620 -> RE: New to all this jazz! (9/13/2007 9:07:03 PM)
Welcome to the forums. I'm just reiterating what everyone else has already said. Read the forums. If you have a question don't be afraid to ask. And I checked your profile, I'm in Iowa too. Always good to have people from the state here.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: New to all this jazz! (9/13/2007 9:27:50 PM)
Don't make any commitments to anyone for at least six months. My advice for Novice Female Submissives Newbie! At a loss I'm a new domme seeking advice Does a slave also have to be a fool? sub: totally new concept Questions for other newbies The Journey Starting Out New to the Life, Help How to deal? Request for Advice Advice please: Relationships, bdsm, love and boundaries First time sub seeking you advice- how to find the right master? First time sub seeking advice a newbie seeking advice How can I be a great sub? Brand new life Help needed Emotional Rollercoaster Welcoming newbies New to this Just a few questions Do's and Dont's

Cyntilating -> RE: New to all this jazz! (9/14/2007 3:57:21 AM)
LA ..you're such a gem of a person ... smiling. Hi Aquarius..and welcome.

BeachMystress -> RE: New to all this jazz! (9/14/2007 4:12:03 AM)
Submissive information http://www.leathernroses.com/submission/subfever.htm http://gloria-brame.com/domidea/subper.htm http://www.malesubmission.com/faq/index.htm http://www.thedsgarden.com/library/sub_drop.htm http://www.leathernroses.com/generalbdsm/jerseyaftercare.htm Some general informative links.. http://www.domsub.info/faq.html http://www.nlacolumbus.com/education/sm101/smbasic.html http://www.xeromag.com/fvbdsm.html http://www.evilmonk.org/A/begintip.cfm http://www.sscn.org/abuse.html http://www.erotic-bdsm.net/Articles/The_Collar.html http://www.xeromag.com/fvbdswitch.html Play information and safety http://lthredge.com/resources/safety.htm http://www.medicaltoys.com/lib-soundplay.htm http://no.place.like.home.mindspring.com/abbot/articles/jl980105.htm http://www.malesubmission.com/faq/cbt.htm http://www.medicaltoys.com/lib-electric.htm http://www.mybdsm.com/pages/faustopheles/needle_play.html http://www.domsub.info/caning.html http://www.sexuality.org/l/sex/handball.html http://www.thehumanequine.com/ http://www.bullwhip.org/ http://www.nlacolumbus.com/education/sm101/smtechniques.html http://www.the-vox.com/paddles.shtml http://www.tpe.com/~altarboy/clinks.htm http://www.albanypowerexchange.com/Ds/humiliation.htm What is a munch and how to find them: http://www.soj.org/articles/A%20Beginners%20Guide%20to%20BDSM%20Munches.htm http://www.drkdesyre.com/meetppl/orgs/orgs.html http://domsubfriends.com/a-wwwdir/org.shtml http://www.blackandblueusa.com/#Mark%20Your%20Calendars http://www.dssg.org/links.htm http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/uk/ links to sites for "Dungeon etiquitte." http://www.leatherfamilyonline.com/full_story.cfm?i=39 http://www.steel-door.com/dungeon_etiquette.htm http://www.domsub.info/playpartyett.html Shopping sites http://www.extremerestraints.com/ http://www.mr-s-leather.com/ http://www.stockroom.com/ http://www.eatleather.com/ http://stores.ebay.com/Stumpys-Woodworking_W0QQsspagenameZl2QQtZkm https://www.bdsmtoybox.com/ http://www.blowfish.com/ http://www.bunnyflogger.com/ http://www.leathercellar.com/ http://www.reb-online.com/index-2.htm http://www.snakepitleatherworks.com/ http://www.whipmasterbob.com/ http://nawtythings.com/ http://www.bigsextoystore.com/ Make your own toys or find them around the house: http://www.mybdsm.com/pages/carmb/howflog.html http://www.saroftreve.com/workshop/ http://www.prrcat.com/prrv/making.htm http://www.sexuality.org/l/bdsm/canes.html http://www.leathernroses.com/generalbdsm/cheaptoys.htm http://www.symtoys.com/toys.html http://www.sexuality.org/l/bdsm/creatoy.html http://www.annasart.com/bdsmhome/toymaker.html

TNstepsout -> RE: New to all this jazz! (9/14/2007 5:24:32 AM)
Another thing that a lot of people will recommend, but I was too scared to do, is to attend local munches and activities. When I finally did get around to it, about a year after I first wandered onto CM, it was fantastic. It allowed me to attend some parties and the local dungeon and to watch and ask questions and get an idea of what was going on without feeling pressured to participate.

MaamJay -> RE: New to all this jazz! (9/14/2007 5:36:23 AM)
Wow BeachMystress, that even topped LA's series of links! Lots of great sites there aquarius, read and learn and then bring questions that arise from your reading to the boards. Doing it in that order tends to elevate your questions from the typical repetitive newbie ones to a more interesting level ... which means you get more interesting responses! That said, I still stand by the motto that the only truly dumb question is the one not asked. Maam Jay aka violet[A]

came4U -> RE: New to all this jazz! (9/14/2007 6:23:52 AM)
quote: Or just some all around tips to newbies? <coughs, just try to watch out for some crazy guy named Ron. rofl (sorry, had to haha)

earthycouple -> RE: New to all this jazz! (9/14/2007 9:15:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lighthearted lookit Donna's new photo! lol um, thanks? S

BeachMystress -> RE: New to all this jazz! (9/15/2007 3:48:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TNstepsout Another thing that a lot of people will recommend, but I was too scared to do, is to attend local munches and activities. When you finally do get around to munches and local groups, Ames is the home of Cuffs, http://www.stuorg.iastate.edu/cuffs/ an ISU based BDSM education group. Even if you don't attend college there they may allow you to attend the meetings and workshops. It's a good way to learn with others around your same age and experience level. You can also check http://www.drkdesyre.com/meetppl/orgs/orgsiowa.html for other orgs near you.

proudsub -> RE: New to all this jazz! (9/15/2007 7:36:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: aquarius27 Im new smiles I would like to learn more about being a sub does anyone have any good websites that would help? Or just some all around tips to newbies? There is tons of good information here on CM. Use the search feature at the top of the page to find topics you might be interested in, just change the options to topics and subject.[:)]

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