UR2Badored
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Actually, checking off the CM orientation selection of Dominant does not equate to automatically being respected, allknowing, or makes one a member of the exclusive always right club. Likewise, checking off the CM orientation selection of slave or submissive does not equate to not being respected, not having needs or desires, being an object of abuse, or will from here on out cherish a lifetime of being always wrong. That would be the non existent doormat option. Trust me, bottoms do get something out of it, or we would not enjoy being bottoms or continue in relationships. It's a dynamic that fullfills both parties needs and desires. There may be an hierarchy in play, but it is a relationship afterall. Ideally, I want to be respectfully humilliated. PS I think HisDestiny is right, but I answered the troll anyway! I am an "asswipe" (as he put it) like that :)
< Message edited by UR2Badored -- 9/14/2007 6:51:18 AM >
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