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Another wax thread... - 9/14/2007 7:01:59 AM

octavia

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I need a little input if you all don't mind.

I have been seeing a man for about three months or so now and have become quite content to just date him and see where this leads. About a week ago, I brought up the subject of my waxing. I luff it.

( Well.. I love the feeling of being waxed not the actual process, that just hurts!) I was wondering if he would want to wax me. I guess I think waxing someone else can be seen in two lights. One, is as a servant, doing a chore for his mistress ( We don't want this!) The other, is of a Master, grooming his slave to his likes. ( We like this idea much better)
The problem I'm having with it is this. It is jusst so... scary for me. I would rather go have it done and just enjoy the results with him. Money is an issue for me these days though ,so... seems foolish to pay that kind of cash out when I do have a lover who is willing to do the deed. I can't figure out why I shyed up all of a sudden?

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RE: Another wax thread... - 9/14/2007 8:51:54 AM

LuckyAlbatross

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Well wax play does not HAVE to entail the ripping out of hairs from your body. A lot of people when they do wax play will coat the body in oil and sensually remove the wax with knife blades. All the fun- none of the pain.

Any ACT can be dom or sub- it's not the act which makes it any way, it's the intention and motivation.

While I don't recommend having your partner become your aesthetician for waxing without some good training, he can certainly come along with you or take classes and learn himself.

The shying up? Well it's an intimate sharing of some sensitive fantasy that requires you allowing someone else to take care of you and take over something you're used to doing yourself. That's just a guess.

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