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bandit25 -> RE: Do most Dommes prefer subs to wear skirts Vs shorts? (9/16/2007 6:07:40 AM)

Twice, 25 bicep curls with an 8 pound weight twice a day for each arm will have you sleeveless in no time!



Littlepita -> RE: Do most Dommes prefer subs to wear skirts Vs shorts? (9/16/2007 6:11:41 AM)

I came to my Sir as a jean and T-shirt girl and he wanted skirts, cute tops, and of course no panties. It gets easier to wear skirts and I find that I love them now. I wear mini skirts at home and enjoy his reaction to when he catches me bending over to get something. The access is great and you just never know when you are going to be pushed down and given a nice little spanking.

In the winter I wear pantyhose to keep warm. I do own pants and I where them if I want to if I'm going to school or somewhere by myself. When I am with him, I ask permission first.



Twicehappy2x -> RE: Do most Dommes prefer subs to wear skirts Vs shorts? (9/16/2007 6:15:54 AM)

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ORIGINAL: bandit25

Twice, 25 bicep curls with an 8 pound weight twice a day for each arm will have you sleeveless in no time!


Lol, actually from riding i have fairly muscular fore arms, well, at least my throttle hand, my brake hand not so much.
 
It is the pesky back of my upper arms that bothers me. Not often, but sometimes. I know the exercise to tone it up, before i went into this RA flare i used to do it. But lately it just is not possible, then there is the wonderful swelled up all over thing i am going through due to the prednisone.
 
So for now, the jacket thing is a lifesaver!
 
Good morning Bandit and thanks for the advice though.



bandit25 -> RE: Do most Dommes prefer subs to wear skirts Vs shorts? (9/16/2007 6:18:58 AM)

I was wondering...I would have thought your arms were fairly muscular, not just from riding, but you do a lot of physical work (from what I've read).  Awwww, sorry about the RA thing (whatever that is).  Hopefully, it won't last long.

Good morning and you're welcome.  I hope your weather is as fine there and it is in Chicago!



Twicehappy2x -> RE: Do most Dommes prefer subs to wear skirts Vs shorts? (9/16/2007 6:29:13 AM)

Lol, before this flare got me i could and did regularly lift lots of heavy things. 
 
RA is Rheumatoid arthritis, an auto immune disease in which your own immune system attacks your body and destroys whatever it attacks. Usually but not always, your joints, but it can attack any body system. When it flares up (it can and does go into remission) you experience flu like symptoms, pain, stiffness, insomnia, skin rashes, vasculitis and extreme fatigue.
 
But since i am and have been so damn stiff and sore some days brushing my hair hurts, other days i am out with my shovel doing the normal garden stuff.
 
It will end, all flares do, then in a very short time i get back to normal. I've had RA since i was seventeen and it does not stop me but it slows me down.
 
As for the weather, cool, crisp and great. I've got a crockpot full of chili on, come on down.

 
 



bandit25 -> RE: Do most Dommes prefer subs to wear skirts Vs shorts? (9/16/2007 6:34:18 AM)

Oh, ok.  Yeah, I've heard of it but I didn't know it caused all that.  Yanno, I think I take my good health for granted waaaaaaaaaaay too much.  I'm very lucky (knock wood).  I can't remember having any health problems at all.  Yum!  I wish I could.  My doggie did something to her paw.  She won't put any weight on it at all so it's off to the vet for us as soon as it opens. 

Forgot about the scrolling recent forum posts. 



eyesopened -> RE: Do most Dommes prefer subs to wear skirts Vs shorts? (9/16/2007 6:42:50 AM)

Sometimes its just taking one outside their comfort zone that creates a good lesson in submission and mindset.  Left to my own devices i would be in leggings and floppy shirt around the house but that would not be pleasing to my Dominant most of the time.  Since my focus is on being pleasing... i find myself shopping more for casual skirts than i do for jeans.



BeachMystress -> RE: Do most Dommes prefer subs to wear skirts Vs shorts? (9/16/2007 6:49:26 AM)

I do not keep femsubs. If I did, I would keep her in skirts often just for ease of access.



favesclava -> RE: Do most Dommes prefer subs to wear skirts Vs shorts? (9/16/2007 7:26:16 AM)

i hadnt worn a short skirt since my twenties. Master demands skirts whan with Him in public. although sometimes there's exceptions. i find i'm getting lots of compliments on my legs , which i never thought as sexy. i have different lenghts skirts from 2 inches above the thigh , to floor lenght denim goth skirt.
i think 3 months into our relationship He had me cleaning out His car at a self-serve carwash. i was wearing a mini ,thigh highs and heels, plus collar. do you have any idea how many men use a self- serve on a saturday? lots and lots. plus i think He put extra debris in the car so it would take me a while.
mmmmm ....gotta go now.......



mons -> RE: Do most Dommes prefer subs to wear skirts Vs shorts? (9/17/2007 3:07:02 AM)

greeting

i find that some of the dommes do want a sub to where many things . i am not one who want this in my subs i wish to have a man i can bring down but not but having him wear dress or high heels. maybe if i meet the right sub this may work but it is only if i want them to wear these things, but this i mean not having a sub who come wanting to party  dress up. now do not get me wrong i think it is OK for a domme to do this  it just not for me, some man are just to masculine for it

Mons



Twicehappy2x -> RE: Do most Dommes prefer subs to wear skirts Vs shorts? (9/17/2007 5:27:26 AM)

Lol, mons, the OP is a lesbian with a female Dom. I think though she did not specify she was asking about girls only. Grins
 
But glad to hear you like to keep your men manly, around here Jewel has a rule about male subbies, they cannot own prettier clothes than we do, lol.



whipingherfeet -> RE: Do most Dommes prefer subs to wear skirts Vs shorts? (9/17/2007 5:37:01 AM)

try a harem out fit with ballet boots



YourhandMyAss -> RE: Do most Dommes prefer subs to wear skirts Vs shorts? (9/17/2007 2:18:30 PM)

not to hijack her thread, but how do youkeep your bra holding your girls up high and dry? I got a new bra and damn they looked like taut torpeedo's but then in about a month the bra is beginning to streach out and the very same bra that once held them high and at attention is letting the girls sag.

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ORIGINAL: Twicehappy2x

Looked at your photo, you do have rather decent assets, my bad for noticing, push those puppies up and give them and yourself the credit they deserve.





Twicehappy2x -> RE: Do most Dommes prefer subs to wear skirts Vs shorts? (9/18/2007 3:43:01 AM)

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ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

but how do youkeep your bra holding your girls up high and dry?


I just sent you some info and links on the other side.



xoxi -> RE: Do most Dommes prefer subs to wear skirts Vs shorts? (9/18/2007 6:14:10 AM)

Fast Reply:

It takes time to get used to wearing anything new.  When I was younger, I always wore skirts or slacks...never jeans.  I was a reeeeeeally girly girl when I was a kid.  When I got to jr. high, everyone was in jeans and I wanted to fit in so I bought them...they were SO uncomfortable.  Hard material, tight ankles (this was before the flair style got popular), rough against my skin, and the waistband was just icky...the button kept feeling like it was poking me.

After a few months though my body got used to the jeans (and the jeans got used to my body too...I still hate brand new jeans) and now it's not an issue feeling comfortable in them at all....but for the first few months my only motivation was to fit in...I guess you just have to keep your motivation (pleasing to your Mistress) in your head until you get used to them.

And after time, if you really do wear them every day and don't cheat, you will realize one day "wow I haven't felt uncomfortable in a skirt in a week."  Trust me.  It just takes time [:)]



rc4otkVA -> RE: Do most Dommes prefer subs to wear skirts Vs shorts? (9/18/2007 6:31:50 AM)

I like my subs in skirts without underwear also. It makes them feel as vulnerable as they are, as well as being convenient for me. In cases of those who are not used to being in skirts, it adds an element of forced feminization. Being a lesbian, even a butch as I am, doesn't mean having to dress or act masculine. I submissive female should act as a lady in public, and if your Domme feels that you need to dress like one around the clock for that to happen, she's probably right. If your desire is to be trained full-time, by a Domme who will mold you into the submissive she wants, it sounds like you've got it. Aim to please.



wilfulcontrol -> RE: Do most Dommes prefer subs to wear skirts Vs shorts? (9/18/2007 9:56:49 AM)

I'd expect my girl to wear skirts unless the situation dictated that pants were more appropriate because I like a girly-girl, plain and simple.  But no underwear ever - its uncomfortable and I havnt worn it since I was 15 and neither is she.



YourhandMyAss -> RE: Do most Dommes prefer subs to wear skirts Vs shorts? (9/18/2007 11:10:23 PM)

I rather like underwear, I get bikini cut and their cotton and come in so many cute prints and patterns. it's not wearing it that becomes uncomfortable, for me cause I chafe with out it..

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ORIGINAL: wilfulcontrol

But no underwear ever - its uncomfortable



eyesopened -> RE: Do most Dommes prefer subs to wear skirts Vs shorts? (9/19/2007 2:03:08 AM)

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ORIGINAL: wilfulcontrol

I'd expect my girl to wear skirts unless the situation dictated that pants were more appropriate because I like a girly-girl, plain and simple.  But no underwear ever - its uncomfortable and I havnt worn it since I was 15 and neither is she.


my preference is no panties... and it is that very preference that caused my Master to require i wear a thong to work every day.  That uncomfortable feeling is such a small suffering but changes my focus to Him where it belongs.  Hmmmm underwear as a subtle form of everyday bondage... no wonder i have fallen for Him.



slaverosebeauty -> RE: Do most Dommes prefer subs to wear skirts Vs shorts? (9/19/2007 9:07:17 PM)

I wear skirts for work, its part of professional attire, I don't mind them, but to get me to wear them or dresses for a night out, its a bit of effort. MJ has never asked em to wear a skirt or a dress, so I stick with my jeans, commando of course, since I HAVE to wear something under a skirt or dress, I get a bit too aroused at times ;) so its for practicality reasons. If MJ asked me to wear a skirt or a dress when we went out, sure I would wear one, in an approprate length of course [a few inches above the knee at most], I don't wear short skirts or dresses unless its for a photoshoot, thats about it; otherwise, it looks kinda sluty and trampy, an I am NOT a slut or a tramp. I'm not a girly girl, so wearing skirts out just because is out of place for me.
 
I have heard that wearing a skirt or a dress is 'easy access', but, for me, it makes me kinda shapeless, unless its tight, then its slutty. I can look curvy adn sexy in a pair of jeans and still be 'accessable;' it just takes a bit more effort, an since I haven't had any complaints, I will go with what works.   
 
To the OP, TALK to your Mistress/Domme.Communicationi s KEY in any healthy relationship. Explain your feelings and be open and honest with eachother, maybe you can come to a compermise.  



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